Foray666

Dear VJ friends,
I am glad I heeded the advice of my lawyer and good friends.
Lawyer's advice: "Go back and visit her a second time before marriage. People change. Stories change." He was so right.
My Friend's advice: (my friend is a Filipina transplant from PI, now residing in Hawaii) "Stay at HER HOUSE!!!. DO NOT go to any PROVINCE (another island) they will trap you!!! and DO NOT stay in a hotel. All of your doubts, and questions, will be answered."
It appears, VJ friends, that my fiancee had been lying to me all along; so now a billion questions flood my mind; was she on birth control? another boyfriend on the side? did she steal/kidnap/use another white skinned baby (we are both light skinned in color) Why lie about the whole pregnancy process? Was she even pregnant at all? Why were there no pics during her last trimester? The white skinned baby in the picture looks like me, since I am Asian and have typical Asian eyes. The brown baby, doesn't even LOOK LIKE HER NOR ME!!! #######!!?? But that is the baby that was at her house; my gut instinct was: "That's not the same baby u showed me in the pics leading up to my 2nd PI trip!!!"
She said: "My grandmother cut his hair. He stopped drinking milk for 2 days. That's why he lost weight. (Was 9lbs when he was born). I, and my aunties take him out everyday in the sun, that's why he's so dark. I don't breastfeed him anymore because it hurts my breasts too much."
LIES!!! ALL LIES!!!
We planned to go to Saint Luke's for a PATERNAL DNA test, but that same morning, I was shocked to see $200 USD STOLEN from my wallet. Pissed off as heck, I got the hell out of Dodge and booked a flight back home immediately.
More shocking? No fight! No resistance! She just said "OK, you can find your own way back to the airport, right?" WOW!! If I was truly the father, wouldn't you be begging me to stay? She wanted me to go to Mindoro to visit her HUGE FAMILY that only NOW she reveals to me; spidey senses thought otherwise. Friends, I am back home, safe in the USA, Hawaii, with empty pockets, and gaping hole in my heart.
What is the exact time frame she has before her K-1 VISA expires?
Glad to be safe and at home in the USA-

I posted on CL Philippines...and got 25+ replies...only 1 young woman kept interest...I posted no pic of myself...just my YM and SKYPE screen name...24 women said "Hi, hello." one liners, gold diggers, green card chasers. Only 1 out of 25 kept communicating with me...when she first saw me on Skype, I saw the way she looked at me...she knew I was special...today, she passed her interview for Visa. Now the PI embassy is asking for MORE FINANCIAL PROOF.
Huh? She showed them the I-134 form; what more do they need?
They also want more "ONGOING PROOF" of a relationship. That's not a problem. We talk every day.
Any 411 on "more financial proof" is appreciated.
My flight is booked for April 7th to Manila...to petition for my new born son.