I work in Law, with that being said you should have disclosed that information and gotten the information above as the other member recommended. What they are looking for is a human trafficking, drugs, assault of any kind (federal crimes). What concerns me is that you over stayed, LIED on you application, I am sorry to say but you have a great chance of being deported. All of this could have been prevented if you followed the rules! Have you considered that he move to where you are? I would love to paint a great happy picture, but I really would consult with a immigration lawyer..and prepare to go home. Try to go home without getting Banned would be a good thing, but make dam sure it will be hard for you to get across the border. Many couples are denied for less offenses and I am sorry to say but with people like you breaking the rules; makes it harder for us honest people to get approved. I do wish you the best of luck.