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“If you do not wish to have your situation discussed”-. Exactly, I don’t wish to have my situation discussed anymore. And I am closing the topic. I know the answers already.

TayRivers and NaRocks, I tell you politely, there is another thread about Medical Insurance. You can let people know about the costs of insurance there.

“Again I state if you do not like the answers you are getting then stop acting like you are three years old in your repsones.”-I want to clarify, I am aware of how old am I. You need to consider being polite too if you want to address me.

TayRivers, I would ask not to post about the numbers in this thread anymore, cause I was asking about another question, about visa for my mother . For this, there is a different thread, you would probably need Medical Insurance thread or something like that. I know the numbers. Thank you.

D&R,

I said

“I want to clarify few things:

1-I will never put my mother to live in a care giver house or nurse. It's not what I do. People even take a better care of a cat.”

you say:

“As for saying nursing homes treat their clients no better than 'cats'. Well, that's just a weird term, as I think ALL the cats I know are treated pretty damn well... food when they like it, sleeping all day, cuddles, strokes every person walking past them bending down to play with them etc ) I think the life of a cat is a pretty good one”

Can you see the difference?

Next time read carefully, please.

Yes, only I must petition for my mother, not my husband. This is the law.

Boiler, a hotel- good for you. I have 2 houses there and finances. Plus, if I sell them, I can take care of my mother. She is not that sick. She is just 69

Yes, Boiler, it is hard to be without my mother when I know that she is completely alone there. If she were here, I would take care of her, and of her medicine if necessary of course. I am a daughter and the only family for her.

OK, this is the post for Aaron again. You didn’t understand me. It is you who said first about idiot. Read your post again on page 1. Here it is:

“If you are so self-absorbed to think that everyone was attacking you then you are an idiot. Only after you piss people off, do they not like you. “

Then, I said that we are not like in a teen chat room to say such things. OK? You reversed everything.

I don’t have a problem of making friends. You just took information too much personally.

“Don't worry, I will not be back to post on "your" thread.” –Whatever.

Aaron, Relax. I’m not going to be in a fight with anybody. I’m friendly for everyone. Seems like only you got too much pissed off posting so many messages in my thread, and we are not in a teen chat room to tell who is an idiot here, ok. I don’t intend to lose the point of the topic. And I want to thank people who can understand my situation and my willingness to be with my mother and speed time to bring her here to live with me in America.

Betti, there is no possibility for me to come live back to my country according to the laws and status. I must live in the United States now. I’m happily married and my husband is an American. In order to come back, I will have to get divorce first.

"If your mother has no one to care for her then you should look into moving to her country that way she would have the care you say she needs." For that, I must divorce my American husband. Can you people be more careful when giving advice?

I want to clarify few things:

1-I will never put my mother to live in a care giver house or nurse. It's not what I do. People even take a better care of a cat.

2-"Based on your mom's age and her health, my guess is that she will not be able to get an immigration visa even if you were a USC." I don't think it's true. I asked about positive examples, who went through the process already, and not just an opinion. I know, many people bring their both parents, relatives, their big families, and they don't talk about health insurance. It's a matter of closeness, a matter of being a good daughter/son if you will.

3-"You do not say how long you have been a LPR so I cant say on who long you would have to wait to be able to file the I-130 for her." I know that it takes 3 years to wait. I was asking about are there exceptions from people who know and went through a different process of bringing their mother faster, who did't have to wait 3 years.

I'm a Permanent Resident. I want to bring my mother to live here with me in America. But I know that you can only bring your relative when you become a US Citizen. I am concerned about my mother, because she is old (69 years) and lives alone ( there are no relatives to take care of her there). What worses the situation is that she is not in her best health and I worry if something happens, there will be nobody to take care of her. Are there any exceptions to bring her stay here with me. If you know such cases I would appreciate to any information.