Hi vj friends, IM a filipina, came here in America with Cr1 visa.been here for almost 2months now. To make my story short.i thought i knew my husband so well but i don't.he start changing when i arrived here and we live together. i couldnt deal his illegal thing like marijuana coz first of all i don't smoke and i don't do illegal things. Finished my BS in Nursing in Philippines but IM not yet a license.since i arrived here,i was never been taking care off by husband coz he is busy growing some pot inside the house and i cannot stand the smell..i never experienced in doing that ####### and never seen those things ever since in my life.just right now when i arrived here in america. I don't really care about green card.i even want to go back home instead but i thought to myself i have a son to support.my husband let me stop working in Singapore coz he wants me here.and now this is all what i got and i believe i don't deserve treated like this..so i planned to stay for awhile till my green card expires coz i need to work so i can support myself and my son who is now in Philippines. Now, i wanted to know.what is my rights here in America? My husband keep telling me everytime we fight "GET OuT OF MY HOUSE!" And he even start packing my things and sometimes he throw my stuff outside the cabinet.i am even now staying in his friends house coz he called them (a couple) to come pick me up.he use to do this everytime we fight and call his parents to inform that IM going to leave him(his the youngest,mamas boy). i know there are times that he was trying his best to please me but no matter what i will never be so happy knowing that i will live my life here in America with full of fears coz my husband is growing a pot inside the house..IM scared if he gets busted IM sure i will be deported. I know he is a pot user before i marry him but he said he will stop as soon as i arrive here but it gets worst coz he dont have a job now.he stopped his previous offshore job coz i am already here and he don't want me living alone in the house. Please help me guys.what should i do? How can i let my husband to support me while IM still staying here in America and start my life(we dont have any kids yet,my son is my child when i was single)? And also we got married in Philippine we don't have a divorse but we do have annualment.he told me he will never help me financially if i do annualment. I cannot stand him anymore..i love him to death but keep treating me this way is painful and IM newHere in America with nobody.place help me guys.
husband is a marijuana user.cant deal with it anymore
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Hi vj friends, IM a filipina, came here in America with Cr1 visa.been here for almost 2months now. To make my story short.i thought i knew my husband so well but i don't.he start changing when i arrived here and we live together. i couldnt deal his illegal thing like marijuana coz first of all i don't smoke and i don't do illegal things. Finished my BS in Nursing in Philippines but IM not yet a license.since i arrived here,i was never been taking care off by husband coz he is busy growing some pot inside the house and i cannot stand the smell..i never experienced in doing that ####### and never seen those things ever since in my life.just right now when i arrived here in america. I don't really care about green card.i even want to go back home instead but i thought to myself i have a son to support.my husband let me stop working in Singapore coz he wants me here.and now this is all what i got and i believe i don't deserve treated like this..so i planned to stay for awhile till my green card expires coz i need to work so i can support myself and my son who is now in Philippines. Now, i wanted to know.what is my rights here in America? My husband keep telling me everytime we fight "GET OuT OF MY HOUSE!" And he even start packing my things and sometimes he throw my stuff outside the cabinet.i am even now staying in his friends house coz he called them (a couple) to come pick me up.he use to do this everytime we fight and call his parents to inform that IM going to leave him(his the youngest,mamas boy). i know there are times that he was trying his best to please me but no matter what i will never be so happy knowing that i will live my life here in America with full of fears coz my husband is growing a pot inside the house..IM scared if he gets busted IM sure i will be deported. I know he is a pot user before i marry him but he said he will stop as soon as i arrive here but it gets worst coz he dont have a job now.he stopped his previous offshore job coz i am already here and he don't want me living alone in the house. Please help me guys.what should i do? How can i let my husband to support me while IM still staying here in America and start my life(we dont have any kids yet,my son is my child when i was single)? And also we got married in Philippine we don't have a divorse but we do have annualment.he told me he will never help me financially if i do annualment. I cannot stand him anymore..i love him to death but keep treating me this way is painful and IM newHere in America with nobody.place help me guys.