Kyleb

Co2EEUU,

I have a question. How if at all would this be enforced if you do serve the ex dead beat if they don't cooperate?

Co2EEUU,

Super thanks for the information. That is great advice. I will talk to my lady and get her thoughts, but I like that last option. I didn't know you could do this in Columbia. 

Thanks for the feedback. Is there a paper that my lady can get signed up front even before we are married?

I have a question that concerns me. I am seeing a woman from Columbia and she has 2 children by separate fathers. She is a super sweet woman and is very honest with me. She has never been married before. We have been seeing each other for almost 2 years now. I want to marry this woman but one of my friends brought up a very interesting question. My friend told me his best friend married a woman from Columbia that has a daughter. When they go engaged and filed for a fiancé visa she had to get a paper signed from the ex boyfriend for permission I guess for her to leave the country with their daughter. The boyfriend had nothing to do with the daughter but I guess this is the normal process? Anyways when she met with her ex boyfriend to get this paper signed he said he would sign it but he would need $5000 US dollars to do so. Is this common and has anyone ever been through this? Thank you 

I work on 100% commission so it is different every year but the last couple have been around $200k. I have asked her about the father of the children and she said there should be no problems but I guess that could change also anytime. He really isn't involved with them but I guess she still needs the permission. I also wanted to ask that one time about 5 years ago I was engaged to a Philippine women and I did start the process but she ended up not being in it for the right reasons so I cancelled the visa about 3 months into it. 

On ‎5‎/‎19‎/‎2019 at 9:26 PM, Ryan H said:

Moved from K1 Process & Procedures to What Visa Do I Need - Family Based Immigration forum.

Thanks for the information. I love this woman so I would marry her there and I guess if I had to move there I would. She has good intentions and I believe she would always fight for love which is important. She has never married but I am divorced. No history or crime. She is a nurse also, so I hope there is no disease of any kind. 

Hello everyone. I have been seeing a sweet lady in Columbia South America since 2017. We have been taking this very slowly. I am in no rush. She has 2 children. I wanted to ask your advice upfront on what to do as far as preparing for my future lady. I have read a few posts here and it looks like filling out your own paperwork is recommended. I have been keeping receipts of my trips so I should have enough of that. We take plenty of phots together. I believe she really wants me to marry her there in her country and I am ok with that. The only problem with that is since no Visa is guaranteed then and if it was denied I would be married and not be able to be with her. Any help or advice is greatly appreciated. I see many people have gone through the process or in the process so I thank you in advance. 

I had a visa with my future wife and I canceled this about 2 weeks ago. I made a mistake and I still want to proceed. How can I restart this Visa if at all possible. I thought this my lady was not being honest with me and i jumped to conclusions. My mistake, but i would like to move forward still with her. Any suggestions or help would be much appreciated. The visa was about three months in when i sent cancellations in.