palmerita

Thanks for all your responses let me explain why I came to this conclusion: Before meeting me, first, my father in law told my husband to be careful and check that Im not a latin girl trying to get pregnant to get a green card. Then when I visited for the first time and met him, gave my husband and me a box of condoms saying he found them at home and they could be "handy". Well...after we got married I had an emotional meltdown, getting married+homesick so I was in a bad mood pretty often, so one night we had an arguement with my husband (pretty strong one I talked about divorce) and he called his father, whom came home and treated me like **** saying that Im crazy that he should really divorce me and that since Im an inmigrant I should be careful of what I say/do. After that we never spoke to him again because he didnt want to apologize saying I deserved it. So....my mother in law (they are divorced with my husband s father), after this arguement sent an email to my husband again saying he should be careful and check I take my birth control pill (???) whats the obsession with pregnancy? trust me we are only 25 and 27 so we want to be alone for a while. And she keeps on calling and saying what to do, what we do wrong or right, etc. The other night we had to call 911 because I fainted after a wisdom tooth surgery and she said that it was embarassing to call 911 for something stupid like that, that I overreacted. My husband doesnt like confrontation so he always tells her yes yes yes to everything on the phone and then tells me he doesnt really agree with what she says so Im always the "bad guy". Sometimes I really want to leave back to my country and leave all this crazy people behind. Thanks for reading me!