CurleyHoward

Long story short. X-wife (as of 3 weeks ago) has fite with new man she lives with, drunk, takes many pills, cops called, x locked in nut hospital 2 nites for attempted suicide, now released. Will this have any effect on her VAWA AOS for temp 2 year green card? show up to adjuticators? derail her VAWA plan for USA residency?

yo admin! u suck! if anyone says anything not totally in support of the fraudsters flooding into the USA and using trumped up/provoked VAWA charges as an excuse, what do you do? ban them. why don't you allow any other opinions about this epidemic? you are aiding all these foreign girls who came here with a plan to use VAWA and get a green card and ruin the lives of born n bred US CITIZENS!!! Xena is just such a girl, used me to get in here, then screw my life for her diabolic VAWA plan. you shud be arrested for aiding and condoling marriage fraud. i'll write to USCIS about your site.

I want in on this one.!

ok, said spouse filed for VAWA with a valid police reprt for domestic violence in may 2012. but spouse had earned over $100k in 2011 and not paid taxes on 90% of it. (cash independent contractor jobs). probably the same in 2012. this was reported to IRS in fresno cali, tip line, to home country embassy, local ICE in usa, and VAWA unit in Vermont. whats the odds any of them will pursue any investigation of spouses tax evasion/marriage fraud/VAWA application? how would it affect the VAWA AOS?

No it doesn't mean you have to leave for good, but most people who truly married for love and were only together for a short period of time WOULD return to their family. It is only recently, so close to the end of being done with USCIS that I might consider staying but if my husband broke my heart and did what you say your husband did, I would be on the next plane out and wouldn't look back. The US isn't important to me, being with my husband is, and save that, the rest of my loving family who live in Australia.

and there is the rub, so to speak. you're from OZ, not from Nepal or Cambodia, so of course you would just as soon go home. The problem is the ones from desparately poor countries, who seem to only be concerned with staying here, in "paradise" (?) rather than with their marriage to their "husband" (wife)

VERYSADGUY Please take your comments somewhere else. no one here can help you. We are trying to get ahead and your comments are not welcome here. I understand your frustation but posting here its not going to solve the problem. Please let us keep this part for us to discuss our cases and help each other. We already have too much taken away from us. Please respect this forum and let us use it to seek the help one on another like we always do.

thank you and please post somewhere else.

thats baloney! (if you know what that means!) there are so many fraudsters on here, and in america, he/she has a rite to voice his/her opinion. Many are not genuine in their VAWA procedure. and these marriage frauds are ruining the system. Its good that USCIS is waking up to this epedimic and denying those who cannot PROVE their "good intentions to marry" or their "good moral character"!

Dude, im in your boat also. dont you hate it when others here say "move on"?! how can we? i loved my wife like no tomorrow, and this happened to me also. I hate to say it, but the uscis needs to eliminate the K-1 visa process now. its become an epidemic! ill just soon move to th Phils, its cheaper there! All you visa fraud girls. GO HOME!

For CurlyHoward.....Should be CURLYCOWARD.........I was first upset by ur comment thinking how someone can be so cruel andd malicious but after processing all that u said it is quite obvious u are a person with serious psychological issues and I recommend that u do get help in dealing with your problems. To enlighten u about what we abused people here on the forum is going through, because it might seem to u while u are lurking that this is a easy process. This is called a 'journey' because it is a long process! Long and tiring! No one wants to go through this horror and shame, I personally can speak for myself that if it was for a 'greencard' I would have stayed in the abuse until I got it n then leave. Sorry if u n ur spouse got together for the wrong reason, but I know myself and others here did not!! As for ur question 'y not return home?' We all want to return home we also want to know that we are free to return here! U obviously haven't been to any of the places we are all from....it is beautiful so please don't think this is the only "paradise" as u call it, I can see y ur spouse ran from u, belittling people. The unfortunate thing for a lot of us victims here on the forum is that we sold, gaveaway and left all that we had to come here to a person like u because of the false promises of Love!! Instead to be beaten, humilihated, tortured and disgraced!! No abuser ever want to admit that they are but u know what u are free to "lurk" because our forum will continue with or without low life like u interupting us............we are survivors and united here we stand

Sweety, i hav been to more countries than you can name. Lived in many for months. I'm just concerned that, maybe not you, but many on here, are only concerned with a path to america, which as you now know, is not the paradise all from the developing world think it is. Myself I had way rather go live in some poor cheap country, than here. someday. have u looked at those russian sites that openly advertise to (mostly) girls, how to do the VAWA process? Its ridiculous. if you are honest about your problem, good for you, now go home. Hopefully, someday, congress will fix these loopholes that allow fraudsters to stay here. But, still, I love foreign women!

You know what I think is funny about these posts? Your marriage is failing and the first thing you think about if immigration status. Shouldn't you be more concerned about trying to save your marriage if you really love your wife.

my point exactly! it seems as tho the marriage is and was never the reason, it was "AMERICA". When my Ukraine wife did this, she never even attempted to ask me if we should go to counseling, just left. Thankfully her next marriage didnt work out either, and now the ***** is back there, for good.

I have been lurking on this site for awhile, and I have some comments and questions. We all know that VAWA marriage fraud is a growing epidemic in America now. I wonder how many of you so called "abused spouses" are really only trying anything you can to get a green card to stay here? If you were abused, or your marriage didn't work out, why not just go home? Is there another reason for filing a VAWA AOS? Could it be money? If you have no family here, or culture here, why stay? And if you entered into your marriage only for a visa to paradise, then I hope the USCIS starts cracking down on this marriage fraud so many are doing. I dealt with this fraud years ago, before it was advertised on the web as an easy ticket to american residency, and I think the entire VAWA law needs to be reformed. The fraudsters are making it very difficult for honest immigrant spouses to obtain a visa. Just my observations.