Mr. Musty

Yes. I'm sorry, I meant it in the immigration aspect. Since I've never been divorced nor thought about it, I don't know where to start. And especially since she is an immigrant with a green card. I live in Michigan so I will need to research that on my own, I guess. Unless someone here knows. I know nothing about what to do, what to sign, where to go, do you need a lawyer, how are assets split up on a < 1 year marriage? All the details that make it more difficult.

We still love each other very much. But we just get in fights all the time and it's been very negative and taking its toll. I don't want to split up. I want to work things out.

I am actually already seeing a therapist. She refuses to see one or go to counseling with me. Which is a problem.

We are doing our best to make it work and we do remember why we care about each other, but it's just so volatile sometimes. It casts a shadow on what wer're trying to build. And I fear it will tear us down.

I am just looking for suggestions and information on the process in case it needs to be done. It was really bad yesterday, hence the posting. She was packing bags and asking for a ticket. Not anymore now.

I thank you all for your responses.

I am US CItizen

Wife is Japanese

Arrived 7 months ago. Married 5.

Received her green card.

We get in fights all the time. Now she wants to leave and go back home. What do I do? Please help.