My suggestion is to inform your fiancee the following:
- steps in getting a marriage license in Hawaii (the requirements, etc)
- steps in applying for SSN in Hawaii
- inform your fiance how long once she is in the states before she can file for SSN
(it is advisable to apply for SSN atleast 2 weeks after arriving in the US or after getting married or 2 weeks before the i-94 expires,etc etc... and should adjust the status before the i-94 expires)
- steps in adjusting the status , applying for EAD, etc..
- and other info about the AOS
- reporting marriage abroad (which i know were tackled in CFO) what is the nearest Philippine Consulate that has the jurisdiction of ur state
- how to amend her name on her passport using ur last name after getting married
- steps for removal of condition, the requirements..
- how long it takes before she can apply for citizenship, the requirements, etc etc..
- If CFO would go crazy, might as well inform ur fiancee as well on how to apply for a dual citizenship..
have ur fiance take down notes of the guides u gave to her..etc...
have ur fiance read through the guides here on VJ as well... ughhh CFO... such a pain in the butt..