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I'd like to thank all the users that showed respect and took the time to post an opinion or advice. I'd like to especially thank member Su and Marvin for their original posts. I will be deleting this post soon because the comments have turned somewhat disrespectful towards me lately. As an update, my wife ended up clearing things and gave me some sort of closure. Su and Marvin was right about no sickness to mother. She still claims loves me but has decided to dedicate her present and immediate future to her mother. I guess she couldn't face her decision to leave her mother behind in her country.....so instead of telling me because it would hurt me she kept coming up with reasons to stay...... as for my wife's own health, I finally did see a some documentation about it. she wants to be away from me through that......and vows that in the future, after dust settles she wants live her life with me........but as you all can understand.....I done all I could through a lot obstacles. I loved her with heart and soul and getting married I felt like happiest man in the world.......it truly doesn't matter at all if I'm not a priority.....I can't wait forever. I have started immigration paperwork and divorce proceedings and will move on as best as can. I have faith things will get better eventually and I won't feel like this. To those helping members thank you so much for words.....to those insulting me and calling me a troll......well, go fly a kite. Take care.

I'm so sorry to hear that so many men and women are going through similar sadness and deception as I am.....I know how I feel and it isnt easy t all......So guys/girls hang in there...................... I figured I would post my situation to let people know they are not alone going through this. Here's my story ------ My fiancee (from Brazil) entered country in August2011, we got married in September 19th 2011.....As you know an adjustment status with USCIS and wedding registration with her country's consulate befor its official...green card...bla bla.........Mind you there had been a lot of huddles to even get her here.....Well, soon after wedding....she told me she wanted us both to go to Brazil .....which I really couldnt afford.....plus....legally he couldn leave US yet....but...She really wanted to go because supposedly her mom had gotten very sick.....So I managed to get her a ticket and was left with the promise we would soon make things right and she would return....She left mid November2011.......Well...It was moms illness, then Christmas, then NewYears...then someones birthday....time going by....and I ran out of things to say.....so one day in April she says...she enrolled in college for a semester....which I criticized a lot because I was misarable without her.....So then Mid June2012 she tells me she got diagnosed with a medical problem that required surgery .....so after getting prices from her mother over phone....I sold a vehicle, picked up a second job........and saved the required money.....When I then contacted her in Late August2012....with pride and love......"I got it"...."together we will get through this"....she tells me needed some time.....to decide what to do with her life........Officially we are married in US.....However, to brazil standards....I have been told it needed to be registered before she left..........Also....we never filed for her I-485 so she isnt legal to return.......So Im not sure what to do.....I loved her with all my heart and really didnt see this coming....Im surprised and very heartbroken.......but above all...Im confused as how someone will say.....Loveyou cant wait to come back....to....Want live my life here.....So after this long post.........I hope some of you feel some comfort in knowing there's others out here going through similar things........Pain is unberable....But there's always hope for a better tomorrow..........With that said....If anyone out there, reads my story and has any advice about what to do.....please let me know.