Filipinalover21

Have you met this person " In Person " ?

Yes.

The fact that he wasn't the one who wanted the divorces is a GIANT flag that there could be some deep seeded issues/negative behaviors he's harboring. I would genuinely question him on all of the marriages, as you will need to know about them at the interview, and as this is the man you're intending to marry and spend the rest of your life with, you should know every detail about him.

Who knows, maybe he was just unlucky in love....or maybe there is something you should watch out for?

Yes i know..Absolutely we will talked and discuss all about his ex wives since he coming this next month it will be properly to discuss face to face.

If he was widowed, that would not count as a "divorce." So how many true divorces did he have?

You will have to have a talk with him and hopefully he will be honest with you. You will need to know about his ex-wives for the interview anyway. your petition would be a nightmare on getting all the divorce decrees together to submit with the application. Hopefully he tells the truth in the petition.

He been divorce for 6 times but since one of his EX wife is passed away already so that mean 5.

Yeah absolutely i told him we need to discuss it about all his ex wives and there's no need to hide on me as is this will come out on the day of my interview...since he coming next month it will be more proper to discuss face to face. I been upset with this situation but keep praying everything will be ok.

Does that mean he's been married 7 times before, then!!???

no..6.

Go for it. If he was widowed 6 times there would be concerns and of course immigration would definately

question it, how many here have had more than 6 relationships, how many can garantee their marriage will work?

just be truthful both of you , get your ducks in row if its real there should be no fear.

one of his ex wives passed away.

yes i definitely want to know who have been here in this situation. Thanks.

Darling, if you love him and you trust that he loves you, his past or your past should not be an issue. Trust me, maybe he has finally found the right person for him. Check your heart. Check your trust in him.

I know..Thank You.

Divorce in America happens, is 6 times more than normal? Yes, but there are many factors to consider. First and foremost is his age? How long was he married to each? Did he father any children? What type of employement does he or did he do?

My brother was married 7 times, in most cases, his job and child was the main reason for his failed marriges. Is he a bad man, no, if I was woman would I marry him, no.

You need to do a further back ground check on his past to make sure he is legit, I know that you do not have a lot of money, but being resourceful can be very helpful.

Best of luck on your journey.

Yes thanks and i am doing background check as i can.

well my question would be did they also file papers for the other 6 spouses and then divorce?

NO.

Sounds like either he picked the wrong girls or has commitment issues. Do you know for a fact that he didnt have any other foreign spouses or is that what he is telling you. Me personally I dont think I could get divorced 6 times. I would have hung it up and not worried about getting married again after the second time. How old is your husband/fiance? (I am guessing you guys are already married or thinking of getting married...your timeline isnt filled in and it just shows that you guys are applying for CR-1/IR-1 visa)

That would be too much of a red flag for me to even have interest of being with that person. If you both stay together and apply for the visa, best of luck to you.

He was not the one who starting divorce that what he told me.

The above in bold, is what 'Tahoma' means!

Has nothing to do with love. Now you understand why he has been divorced six times before?

Yes and beside he was not the one starting divorce.

I had a friend who have an identical situation where her husband the US citizen was married 5 times, (3 of them to foreigners which one of them obtained GC ), if you still waiting for your interview at the embassy, I would recommend the US citizen to be present because most likely this will come up in the interview. No law is against multiple marriages even from foreigners as long as every marriage started with a divorce decree from the prior marriage and was entered in good faith and not to help anyone stay in the US. My friend passed her interview because the US husband was present to answer about all these marriages.

Good luck

Thank You..Surely he would be here.

In my opinion, anyone who has been divorced six times has a problem which love won't solve.

What you mean?

If you will enjoy being number 7 then why should this be a problem? Really?

This is not just being enjoy but there is love.. i love him..now i am confuse.

Personally, I'd stay away. 6 times???

Thank You.

I am thinking that it will be a huge red flag, if the divorces are from marriages with K-1 or CR-1. Although, it will still seem like the relationship is intended for immigration as well.

No this is the first time marriage from immigrant.

The CO may want to see evidence of a strong relationship to be sure that you will not soon be ex spouse #7 and become a public charge.

Your other post talks about a pre-nup, so don't expect any sort of $$ should a divorce happen. The USC spouse likely has experience protecting assets in family court proceedings. And social services are limited when a green card holder.

Any immigrant moving far far away to live with someone that has been divorced that many times should have a back up plan.

Best of luck.

Thank You.

It could be a significant issue. Do you have other family in the US?

No.

well my question would be did they also file papers for the other 6 spouses and then divorce?

No..this is the first time.

Hi. In any of those 6 previous marriages included foreigners? I mean if you applied for any kind of visa on their behalf previously. Yes, If I was you ... I would expect some questions from USCIS. Good luck anyways.

No..this is the first time.

Not a all... It's absolutely normal... Seriously ?

Yeah.

well my question would be did they also file papers for the other 6 spouses and then divorce?

No all his ex'wife is american.

Um, YES! Who was the person married to, Americans or foreigners? Why would you want to marry someone that showed their level of commitment to marriage with 6 divorces?

American.

Hi Just want to ask if being "DIVORCE" for 6times is a red-flag?Will really appreciate for those who responded.

if we were the wedding sort, which we're not - or the dancing sort, which we might be (behind closed doors) i would have to pick "i'll be waiting". i must have listened to this song a billion times while we were apart.

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Good luck to you. I wish you the best

Thank You.

Won't be a problem just provide enough evidence. I know someone from my hometown who was only 20 at that time and her husband was 69 and she didn't had problem during the interview. Good luck...

Oh my GOD!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH... I FEEL MORE CONFIDENT NOW.