Dear redflower,
I honor your patience and willingness to work on your marriage.However I am very concerned for your safety.It honestly doesnt seem like your husband actually putting any effort not only keep marriage together but putting effort into not commiting a crime!!! If he realizes himself he is cable of killing you he SHOULD be scared!!! He should RUN to any and every doctor out there to try and keep him from getting violent. Unofrtunately it doesnt seem that he is putting any effort into it. My concern is also he seem to be violent only with you. He has a very responsible and demanding job. He interacts with a lot of people working 60 hours a week and yet he hasnt hit or became violent with ANY of them. I am sure he can keep his focus for longer than 30 min and IS controling himself around people. HE KNOWS HOW to control himself with others otherwise he would be fired and be in jail by now. However he treats you as a punch bag and allowing himself being violent with you and than blaiming it on not being able to control himself. It is very strange situation!
About him being sick from pills.!Sorry but does he better like to be in jail instead?For trying to kill you? This man doesnt seem to understand the danger that he brings!!!
Women get sick from birthcontrol, they get nausea and get sick hwoever they still take the damn pill everyday. So i am sure man can handle this!
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