The_King

I thought the petitioner had to prove they could support the NUSC?

And also what is so bad about going home? As much as I love the US I would go straight home should anything ever happen to my realationship......this is why we go through the tiresome visa process to prove we want to be with the USC and not just to gain entry to the US......the US was surely not your goal......your wife was? Im sorry if it hasn't worked out but surely you had a life/family/friends back home that you want to return to?

Yes she had a better job before i moved here. After i moved poverty was in affect.

This is probably a troll too many discrepancies.

My wife belittle's herself constantly, regardless of my words of comfort.

it sounds like there are a lot of missing pieces of the story. If you are so miserable and have friends here, im pretty sure they can help you go back home. She is now making $6 hr, but was able to bring you here hmmmmmm doesn't sound right to me.

I never said I had many friends here in America. I just met them recently. I tell them my story and they all are concerned.

The OP is in a very difficult position. I hope you can get a chance to go speak to an immigration lawyer regarding your case.

I hope so too my friend. Thank you!

OP is not from England.

If you're from Liberia I am certain your views about running back home will be different.

He'll be going back ashamed and looked at as a failure.

Were she gonna be a stepping stone to get here? U say she 10 yrs older, has low self esteem, U cant look at other females, she accuses U of flirting with her neice and she beats U wow.......dont know who got self esteem issue but its best to leave

so U can return another time.....but U say U dont want to g back to your country, so on vacation did U think it was ok she 10 yrs older.....get our friends to help U with a ticket, dont get deported and ban...............come back another time

I have never had a problem with my wife's age, money or anything else. I do not flirt with other females. My wife has low self esteem and other problems. Do not judge me. I assure my wife that I love her. But she is very strange.

I agree with both of you. Granted he might not be excited about running back to Liberia but he hasn't even considered going back as an option all he cares about is staying here. He doesn't even want to try and work things out with his wife. If you are in a relationship with someone and they obviously need mental help (since that is basically what the OP is implying) you would try and get them help if you love them. And there is no way you don't have a co-sponsor if she makes $6 an hour. I make almost triple what she does and am getting a co-sponsor bc even though I am over its too close for comfort. So there is obviously a co-sponsor the catch is he is trying to leave his wife and get an adjustment of status that is why the co-sponsor isn't giving money. It just all sounds a little fishy.

If I am wrong and you actually came here bc you loved your wife and not bc u wanted to live in the USA. Then you need to talk to her and tell her if she lays a hand on u one more time your calling the cops end of story. And then do it is she calls them. At least that way you will have evidence for VAWA. Then tell her to get her co-sponsor to help with your adjustment of status so you can work legally and help pay the bills so you can move out of the motel.

Apparently you do not understand. No woman or man should beat someone because they do not obey their rules!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Have you spoken to her parents about her mental health issues. You'll were living with them at one time correct.

My friend they are deceased.

Have you spoken to her parents about her mental health issues. You'll were living with them at one time correct.

We were living with an uncle and cousin. But I have no contact with them.

Call the Police and get some help. Better than doing nothing. Others have made good suggestions also.

I am scared because I do not have paperword (just the visa). And we live in the south. There is a lot of discrimination.

after reading your reasons... seems like all you want is to stay in america and leave your wife. if you cant live with her then better go home. you said you got friends to help you financially, you can even find ways to find a money instead finding ways to please your wife and be happy being together. tsk tsk tsk..

Would u tolerate someone beating you?

it sounds like there are a lot of missing pieces of the story. If you are so miserable and have friends here, im pretty sure they can help you go back home. She is now making $6 hr, but was able to bring you here hmmmmmm doesn't sound right to me.

I have met these new friends since I arrived in America. My wife is not happy that I have friends. She says she will kill herself.

It's true that he'd put little roots here. Still, OP is not seeking advice on going home; is this really what this website is about?

Thank you my friend. I would like to experience America.

There is so much to answer. But I do have all the answers. I did not know my wife suffered depression and other problems until i arrived. In my country someone beating on you constantly is not allowed. I would never put my hands on a woman. Women are a precious gift from God. She will not let me go to the bathroom alone. I am in prison.

What did you'll talk about durning the 10 long months of waiting for a visa approval? Please try to understand, bailing out now is only a case of returning back to your native country.

We talked about how much we loved each other and looked forward to finally being together. But she has low self esteem. Other woman may look at me and she gets a attitude with me and says I am going to leave her for another woman. I am not interested in other woman but she is so insecure. She is more than 10 years older than me. She blocks the door of the motel so that I cannot leave. She hits me. I never hit her back. She has a lot of issues that I didn't know of until I got here.

Yes you can get deported. I suggest you go to your countries embassy and ask for assistance returning home. You could also try speaking to a catholic charity about somewhere else to live while you're waiting for that. Or you could contact ICE or local police, let them know you're here out of status and your situation so they will deport you if you can't afford it. Definitely not the best option to get deported, but it is AN option.

There is VAWA but I sincerely doubt you would get it as I assume (though you didn't say, so shame on me) that if you have so little there's probably no co-mingling of things, and no proof of a bonafide relationship... but by all means discuss your options with the catholic charities.

I would make my main goal to return to my home country. Contact family and friends to ask for help getting back. Ask those "friends from your home country" to help you return to your home country.

Yes. She needs to be your primary sponsor. I suggest they help you financially by buying you a ticket back to your country.

I do not want to live with her anymore. I am affraid to call the police. So I sit there and let her hit me. I do not want to return to my home country.

its either you marry her or go back home, what about your friends could they help u with the cost of the paperwork? and finding a co sponsor? you could promise to pay back once you get a job

My friends some Liberian and some American are willing to help me financially. My paperwork is ready I just need help as far a money and a sponsor. But do I need to be with my wife to adjust?

Wow that is tough. Have you considered going back to your home country? If you stay and don't intend to marry her, you will be here illegally.

Hello we got married some months ago. So now I need to file aos but we do not have the money. We barely have money for food. She cannot even afford to send me back home. I am sad.

Hello I am new to this site. A friend recommend to me. Here's my story.

I arrived in the US a couple of months ago on a K-1 visa. My intensions were to marry my wife and live happily ever after.

Unfortunately this is not the case. My wife is abusive and has many tantrums that I was unaware of. She was normal when she came to visit me. She is very jealous and has low self esteem and does not want me to be without her. While she is working I have to wait for hours at a restaurant accross the street until she is off work.

Our living conditions have changed since I arrived. We were living with family until her niece began to show me too much attention. My wife makes $6 an hour. Now we currently live in a roach motel where I am held hostage. I cannot leave the room without her. We often run out of food. We go to bed hungry. My wife cannot support me. She can barely afford to get a way to work. I realize she was able to afford the K-1 paperwork by living with her family. Life has seriously changed for me.

My wife does not have money to adjust my status. She also does not have a cosponsor. I do not know what will happen to me. Will I get deported? I am unhappy because of the abuse and tantrums. I want out. I want to leave. I will live on the street. I would like to adjust my status and find a real job. I met some friends here from my country who are willing to assist me. Will I be able to leave my abuser and adjust my status? Please help!