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  1. I'd leave the naturalisation alone for now. You can file under the 5 year rule later, and no need for living together etc.

    I doubt she can have you deported, since you have evidence of living together it sounds like a bonafide marriage, at least on your side.

    Penguin, do you mean I should leave the Pending appeal (N-336) alone and I don't need to write a letter to my local office telling them my wife she left the house again and filed for divorce or write them a letter to withdraw my appeal,

  2. Should I leave this appeal alone and allow them to make their decision, my wife wrote a letter and notarized it that the denial made on naturalization was false, she told them that she didn't told me about that apartment she rented, her mother wrote notarized letter, her sister wrote too, so now she moved out of the house while this appeal is still pending, do I have to leave it alone until they decide, guys I need your opinion

  3. Good day my follow journey members, it is my pleasure to be with you guys this moment, once again, I want to thank you all for the information sharing on this site, May God bless you all and strengthen all of us in this journey,, I have a quick question that I will like to ask and any experience guideline will be appreciated.

    I got my 2 years green card in 2012 based on marriage, I removed the condition in 2014 and received my 10 years in the same 2014, I filed for citizenship in 2015, here is my story, I filed N-400, I went for my naturalization interview in October 2015 and I didn't know that my wife paid for an apartment somewhere else, on my interview the officer asked me about this strange address and I told him that I didn't know about the address, he told me that the public record is showing that my wife was evicted from that address, I replied to him , well I didn't know about it, the officer mentioned again that my wife record is showing that there was a small claim court with her name in another address, I asked him which address is that, when he mentioned, it was her mother's address, I told the officer that this second address is her mother's house that my wife and the siblings have been using this address since before we got married because we are missing letters in our own apartment, I told the officer that I live with my wife but I don't know about the first address, the officer said we should continue our English test, after the test and I passed the whole test, the officer gave me a white sheet for passing the test and said that decision can't be made at that moment, I went home, when I came home, I told my wife how I went for the interview, I asked her about the address, she told me that she rented the address because we used to have argument, so she rented it as a place she always go to relax when we get in to it, but she didn't let me know about that address, the next day, I received an email denial notification, we concluded to file appeal, request for hearing on a decision (N-336) in December 2015, she wrote a letter and was notarized stating that I didn't know about the address and explained why she rented the apartment because of our disagreement and said that we are living together and is our marriage, her mother wrote a letter and was notarized too stating that the second address mentioned is her address and her daughter is only using there to receive mail, her sister wrote a letter and was notarized too stating that she sister to my wife and she has known us since we became married, she also said we used to have disagreement but we live together and is our marriage, 3 of my friends wrote letters too and was notarized explaining how they knew me and my wife,in December I mailed out the N-336 with all this letters from my friends, in-laws, my wife and other supporting document, in January 2016, I had disagreement with my wife and she moved out of the house again, in February 2016 I got a legal document from the sheriff that she filed for divorce, our first divorce court date will be by the ending of March 2016

    MY QUESTION IS NOW, APPEAL (N-336) is still pending and my wife threatened that she will call the immigration and tell them that we are not staying together, should I write a letter to my local immigration office and withdraw this appeal or should I write a letter to them updating them that we had disagreement and my wife moved out of the house then filed for divorce...

    Any quick answer will be appreciated, Thanks in advance

  4. THERE IS NOTHING COMPLICATED about your case, get a divorce and move on. File for removal of condition after attaining your divorce. There maybe issues since you'll never con-mingle funds but document the behavior of the spouse.

    I have some bill in our both name like we energy,dish Tv and copy of our lease with our marriage photos and family pictures..we don't have bank account together becos when we went to open account together the bank said she can't open account but I can open due to she was owing alot of banks, we can get a joint credit card becos her credit record is messed up and no joint insurance becos her insurance was from state ( Free insurance) so I don't need her insurance before of our interview due to immigration would ve see me as a public charge and result in denying my interview/case...Mind you she was collecting loans from here and there to by weed...Thank you for reading my post

  5. Good morning to all my vj family, first of all I want to thank each of every one you guys for all your posts and comments

    where I was reading all your immigration experience and difficulties from, I thank God for giving me 2yrs green card for my

    journey to start in the state...

    This is the problem I ve been having with my usc spouse and I will like anybody that have the experience on how I will treat

    this bad moment and move on with my life.

    Earlier this year my usc spouse was asking me to raise sum of 5,000 dollars for her that she want to use it for something important,

    while she know that husband don't even have social security number, she told me to see if I can borrow money from anybody from my country

    living in the state, I told her that I don't used to ask people to give me money and I like to hide myself, my usc spouse's mother is a rich

    woman, I told her to go and borrow money from her mother, I knew she will not go or her mother to give her money either, Her mother knows that

    she is a drug addicted, my wife uses all the money I manage to raise from people for our rent and bills for drugs, one day I went to my friend

    house to visit him while before I left I told my usc spouse that I want to go visit my friend, My wife guessed the time she think I may stay in

    my friend's house and she text me on the phone and told me to borrow morning 2000 dollars from that my friend and I text her back why, she replied

    me that what do I mean by why, I replied her back that what do she mean by 2000 dollars, she text me that I should come carry my property out of the

    that she is packing all my ###### in a gabbage bag, I text her why but she never respond again, in the night around 11 pm the same day, I was in the public

    bus coming home becos I never have ssn or driver license to drive, I got a call from her mother that my wife dropped all my stuff in the front of her house,

    I mean in the street in her mother's place, I went down from the bus to connect my self to another bus going to her mother, I reached to her mother's house

    all my stuff was in the gabbage bag and some of my cloth was outside the bag in the street, even my home theater set and flat screen tv, my laptops and other

    things, I went inside to ask her mother to see if she will allow me to keep this in her basement, her mother respond fast that I should be bring them inside

    then I never knew that my mother in-law is the one that told my wife to push me, after I finished bringing them inside, it was around 1:20 am, I started talking

    her mother that this action her daughter acted is strange to me, I told her mother that where I came in Africa that woman doesn't marry a man no matter what

    what condition, I was trying to tell my mother -in law some culture in my country and her mother was saying a different thing then I knew that she was part of

    the deal, I ve two blood married cousin living in the same city with, her mother ask me if I ve call my cousin or my mother people in Africa this action, I told

    her no, she said I should not tell them, after I went inside the bathroom and called my two cousin sister and let them know what their brother is going through

    actually one of the cousin brought me to this country before I met my wife, immediately I called them, one my cousin is at work and other one at home, the one

    at home told me that she is coming over to my mother-in law house in a few moment, I told her not to come that my mother in-law will be mad at me, my cousin

    reply back she is my cousin that she ve to come so we were dragging it , she said she is the one that invited me to this country and anything that happen to me

    she will be responsible when people in Africa ask, immediately I felt that blood relationship, I said aunty do whatever you want to do in a moment she arrived

    but she never ask me or my mother-in law any question, she started crying, I started crying too, for over past 25 yrs back I never cried, after the crying my

    called outside and told me to hang in my mother in-law's house then she left, I slept there that night, the next day the second cousin came there from her

    working place, she came in immediately and ask my mother-in law what brought about this her daughter action, my mother in-law to her there are side of the story

    to hear, I told my cousin to tell my mother in-law to arrange a meeting wit five of us, but my mother-in law declined, becos there she knew I will bring up the

    the drugs her daughter used to in the house, I left with that my cousin that morning but my property is still in mother's house, five days later I moved back to

    my wife house, she started telling me stuff that her mother told to push me out, I kept quite but I gently let my cousins to know.

    My wife was doing all sort bad thing in the house, smoking weeds and cigarette in the living and bed room, I told her to be going to the porsh to do that not

    inside the house, she always tells that she is the one marrying me sofer america is concern, everyday in the middle of night she will start smoking weed on the

    bed while we were sleeping, sometimes after smoking that she will put on the music very loud by 2, 3 am becoas she don't what she is doing then

    I used my phone to video her several times when she is molding and smoking the weed in the house, I started videoing her becos I told her I will call police for her and she said that she will denied it, so when she start smoking or rapping the weed, I usually pretend that I am reading news in my phone facing her but she never knewthat she is beind videoded, I had alot video when she was rapping and smoking the weed in the house,

    She take my stuff outside the house for several times, I later convince her for our interview which God made his name, I got my 2yrs green card, but the next two weeks she was smoking the weed very wild in the whole house and I told her to take it but she was trying shout on me that she is in charge of everything. she

    never knew that I got my 2yrs green card becos I used my po box for my mailing address for my immigration stuff, she told me to give her the keys, and I should

    pack all my things and leave her house, I left the house last month and I don't want to go back there again, I was telling some of my friends how will I remove

    the conditional green in 2014 without her, some are telling me to use lawyer by then with those video and file for waiver as abuse if she didn't divorce me by

    then WHILE other friend were telling to go back and beg my wife to let in again so that she will file for the removal of the conditional green card with me in

    2014, the told me those video where she was smoking weed will not help me as prove of abuse during that time, that immigration may deny me for the 10 yrs green card by 2014 with without my wife filing it together with me..Two of my cousin's husband told me not to divorce but I should keep all those video that is a prove

    of abuse when filing alone, that I will tell them I was having issue with weed she was smoking in the house and sent me out..

    MY QUESTION IS, I am not living her anymore so what will happen if she divorce me before 2014 or if we are still married till 2014 but not living together..

    Am I going to have a problem when I want to remove the conditional green card with lawyer by 2014?

    Are the going to approve my case with that prove of abuse? Thanks

  6. Go to www.uscis.gov, print form I130 for Alien relative, form I485 for adjustment of status, Form G325a for biometric and is for both of you so print two of it, form I131 for advance parole , form I765 for employment, Form I693 for medical test, form I864 for sponsorship, fees: $1090 for adjustment of status and $420 for Alien relative that is total of $1510..go to post office and get money order of $1510, address it to DEPARTMENT OF HOMELAND SECURITY, add your wife name in your lease, get the new lease From your landlord bearing both spouse name as the occupants and make a copy, certified copy of your last year tax transcript, copy of your last two months pay stub, make a copy of her birth certificate and your own too, if you acquired ur citizenship thru marriage or whatever then make a copy of your certificate of naturalization unless you were born in U.S then only your birth certificate covers, copy of her I-94, copy of her visa page, copy of her passport page..please do not send original documents, go to post office and send it with express or priority mail to uscis lockup office depending your location

  7. Pete I myself came here with a visitor visa and I later got married with a USC and she filed for me at thesame time, we went for interview and I am now a green card holder..Bro go ahead and file I130 and I485 for her so that she will not go back..Gooluck to both of you

    Pete I myself came here with a visitor visa and I later got married with a USC and she filed for me at thesame time, we went for interview and I am now a green card holder..Bro go ahead and file I130 and I485 for her so that she will not go back..Gooluck to both of you

  8. Good day everyone, my aos appointment is 2morow, I told my mother and sister's in-law that I want an affidavits letter from them showing that our marriage is legitimate, they told me to prepare the letter and bring it for them to sign it..who can show me a sample of affidavits letter showing that a marriage was legitimate. I mean how to address the letter to immigration..please respond needed as soon as possible...Thanks vj family

  9. I filed my AOS on june, got the NOA, got RFE by july, send it to them, got my EAD by 8th September, got my I485 appointment letter that will be on 18th of October 2012, my usc spouse asking me my alien no, I gave it to her but later ask her what and she told me that she want to add me to her free government insurance, I told her to wait until her i130 get approved, I mean after my interview but she keep on working in the insurance behind me, yesterday she got a mail from the insurance people asking her to bring prove of relationship and she didn't know when she mentioned I will give them our marriage certificate , I asked her back, are you still putting me in ur insurance and she answered me no, I asked her what is that mail for and she said it for our medical, I offered her to give me mail but she refused .. my question is that, my usc spouse is using paratech insurance from government and she is working on it now seriously to add me to the insurance at my back and my interview is on 18th, please how is that going to affect me on interview day with the immigration .. please reply me soon if you have an idea...thanks

  10. Babe, please tell your friend to go to the post office and open po box $35 for 6months, she can still pay for 1yr or more if she has the money, then let her call uscis and change her mailing address to po box, she is entitle to have two addresses, residential and mailing address..I am using my po box to receive any of my mail..just work in the post office at your convenient time with your key, open the box and pick your mail...next time you might have that kind of conversation just use your phone to record the threatening as much as well video it too..it will help as evidence..if she think that she can't settle with the guy again just go with infopass appointment ..I feel her situation...goodluck baby

  11. Which is cheaper, changing the air travel date or filing for a spousal visa? Let's say you send her her GC to Korea and it gets lost or delayed and she has to enter the US before receiving the GC. How is she going to do that? Now she is outside the US with no document that allows her to re-enter. I suppose you could file for a replacement GC and wait for it to arrive and then hand deliver it to her since sending it to her caused problems the first time. $250 to reschedule the travel date is cheaper than the $450 for a replacement GC. If all that does not work out than you are stuck filing for a spousal visa and waiting with your wife in Korea.

    I would make certain you either have the GC in hand or get an I-551 stamp in the passport BEFORE leaving the US. It took 2 days to receive the GC after approval for us. Our interview was on Thursday and the GC arrived on Saturday. Since they use Priority Mail, the GC may make it by the 4th, but I would bet on the 5th or 6th. I would still change my departure date if possible. Life is full of choices: choose wisely as this will have consquences that may last for a long time.

    Good luck,

    Dave

  12. Good morning my vj friends, how are you all, please I want to get this information from anyone who could help me...I filed my AOS about three months ago and I am living with my wife at the ghetto side of the town, we lived in an apartment and I ve so bad neighbors, my neighbors used to pick some of my mail from my apt mail box and sometimes my mail will be open already, Now I don't want to change my address but just giving people my p.o box as my mailing address, How will I tell immigration my problem and give them my p.o box as my mailing address, how possible it is? Need help from you all..Thanks

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