gerlie dela cruz

sis okay na rin me.i tell all about to my family relatives whatever happen show to him ur a strong woman whatever he did to u show to him ur not weak woman if he leaves u u better move on u both love each other but u never give up he was the 1 give up.just move on u will find more deserving soon will make it real ur marriage u want in life and have a good life and family.this trials makes u brave soon u learn never to hurt again.u will find the best man in ur life for sure god never sleep ur a good woman u nver been weak for ur problem even he hurt u so much show to him u can do it.god will bless u always and ur daughter.im thankful many read my story to all out of there hope u did learn whatever has our problem tough never never give up always.god with us always

i still love him after all 1 1/2 yrs we did sacrifice all and its all closer to our wedding he leaves me and our visa tickets and interview he cancel it

thank u mam,for evrything makes me strong,god will always there for me.

it will be okay,il stay here in city for awhile so i can have time to heal for those pains,its hard cause i love him so much,but i respect his decision,until now im still crying my child asking why i dont get married.its so hard to explain,evryone asking me and i cnt stop crying insde of my hearts the pains was hard to heal.all i wanted is he will comeback and hug me again say never leave me again,but its not will happen,

salamat po sa mga concern,masakit till now iniiyak ko nlng sa loob kc nkkta ko ng ank ko umiiyak like kanna mama bkt po hnd na mtuloy kasal mo.iniwas ko nlng at ngmall km 2 pra maaliw xa,mahal na mahal ko anak ko ayw ko mrmdmn nya nrrmdmn ko.mahal n mahal ko parin daddy niya kya ko pa rin xa tnggapin.kht nsktan nya ako.

feel sad for u,ur lucky still cause u and ur wife got married,like ur problem u and her can talked first before she decide to divorced so u can still ur marriage.not like me my fiance leave me just 4 days ago,closer were goin married.he never save our relationship he decided to leave me.whe evrythings was closer ready all for us to be get married.u have to talked her and try to understand u,its hard to decide easily when u never think of it what will gonna be happen when u lose it ur marriage.if she realy loves u she will accept u.

until now when i see those memories its flashed all the pains and hurts kasi ang hirap imove on un ganitong situation,try ko ang best ko,pra s anak mrming mrming salamat po sainyong lahat na nagppalakas ng loob ko kahit npksakit man ngyri tntry ko mgng strong for my daughter.memories that he gives to me hard to heal and no can ever heal and no can ever change his position to my heart he knows it how much i love him i know how much he love me.what comes all pains hurts he gave to me what comes all the tears he gave to me i just let him know he was still there in my heart no 1 can change it.

salamat po sa mga concern nyo,god will make a way.ayoko po umwi po kc po khhyan lng po ng pmlya ko inaalala ko like my dad say stay manila it means he wanted me not to see anyone of my relatives il be burden only to them ayoko nmn po idamay anak ko sa kahhyan.lhat po nlng ng kaibgan ko d2 s mnla hlos mnghina ko sa mga cnsbi nla ultimo yaya ng anak ko cnb skn hnd dw b ko mhhya umwi at ttwanan lng ko nga mga kmganak ko at iniwan nya ako at pinaasa.pra po ngunaw ang mundo ko s tuwing my comment cla nghhnyang cla lhat,kht ano gwn ko hnd n maibblik pa wla ko ngwang mali nanwala agad ko ksalan ko ba mgmhal at umasa at humantong sa gntong situasyon,hind ko po ineexpect.at pti anak ko ngsacifice nrn.hnd ko mbnggit sknya kc bta pa anak ko mg 4yrs old plng xa.pero alm nya na ppnta km states na ksma daddy nya at ssunduin km.ni hlos wla km dla gmit kc naipdla lhat sa america ayw nya ipdla smn un gmt nmn dito.snod snod p nmn un mga vaccine nmn dlwa mula last mnth till last oct16 to 19.anlki po ng damages sa buhay s ngyri awang awa ko sa anak ko.kc nkkta nya ako 3 days nko hnd mktulog mkkain umiiyak nyyakap nlng nya ko cnsbi nlng mama ilove u and hugs kiss nya ako.plg nya nbbngit un daddy nya at mameet un mga lola at lolo nya.kso wla n po km mggwa dhl xa ang gmve up pglban ko mn d n xa mkkng.kht hlos mgmkaawa ko sknya.hnd ko na po alm if ittpon ko nlng wedding dress ko wedding ring nmn 2.umasa km ng anak ko drtng xa sa nov7 sa isng iglab nglaho lhat.15 hrs km ngbyhe ng anak ko ngrent aprt d2 till dmtng xa.prayers nlng need ko sa lhat.

thank u for all the concern fellow vjs im doin fine now.im alright now.i accept it will never fixed it.im already keeping all the papers and our rings wedding dress.so i dont see any memories of him,he is a weak person he never fight for us,he give up easily.its fine now.im alright.i accept it.he need to move on too.i try my best i chase him.he knows it how i try to save us.

there were times its time to be tired to fight some1 u love that u dont want to give up,even i try my best to save it will nver be worth if he is the 1 giving up.i thank his family who tried their best to help me to save our relationship but its never work it,his family verry nice treating me.they are sad for what happen what can we do if he doesnt want anymore to fixed i should live in pains and hurts being brokenhearted.its not not easy to heal and trust again.if he realy love me he will fight for us.never give up.thats life i should learn on it brave to face my new life.he hurt me so much that can never be heal by some1 anymore.i will stop loving,takes long time to be heal.its not worth for him i try my best to save it.maybe he will realized it soon when im gone in his life.we did all sacrifice to finshed our papers but he throw all what we plan for us.the best i will do was to walkaway and leave him in peace.i dont wnt to chase it.if he realy love me he will comeback.im loosing hope already to fixed of us.i did try my best but it was not worth to him.i thanks all the concern and advice to all fellow here in vjs.he was not his fault it was not my fault too we are just destiny to be hurt forever.even how much we love each other.wish all of vjs here get some tip for my trials now.if ever u love some1 whatever happens no matter what happens how complicated it is never never give up the 1 u love,regret is the most hardest feeling when u lose it some1 u love.and never compromise too ur woman it will be hurt to them to be hope and u will leave.dont worry fellow il be fine.i just need more confidence.i appreciate this posting in vjs.to all i meet in st lukes last oct16 its sad i can longer see u in embassy on nov2 my interview was cancel by my fiance i should respect it.thank u for evrything and to my fiance i wish u the best.i dont hate u for being hurt me.i need to accept it.for the 1 1/2 yrs we been togther its been a nice part of my life.u are nice its not my fault if u change ur mind im not holding whats ur hearts truly feelings if ever u inlove already im happy for u.i learned it.life must go on.i will send what u want just send my things comeback here.godbless is with me always he wont leave me in my struggles in life.

i know,my 3 of friends here and most of them saying to fight for us,i try all my best but he live on his anger and giving up on us.il be go home when im already heal by being brokenhearted.i know its done to him i still contnue my life.this is a big lesson that dont believe easy to a sweet word in the frst and give ur whole urself without doubtng,its verry simple fight but he made it big and give up evrything.i fight for us now its not worth anymore he should know that,all i did i love a wrong person that causes my pain and hurts in my life.we been fight for almst 1 1/2 yrs only days was closer we will be togther again.maybe he already found some1 thats why he decide to give up all.im okay right now.il stay here in manila till i move on,il work here again.life must go on i have a child who needs me.

thank u for ur concerned im now totaly try to move on and forget him i tried my best to save us but he never listen maybe he used me after he give me hope and leave me in the verry final days our visa interview.my father want me stay here in manila they think what happen in me now i feel ashame on it.i will move on i wont chase him he will realized it soon that he did made a wrong decision.im the 1 was the most affected cause we both finaly ready for our wedding and he decide leave it was only his reason theres a big reason for that why he cancel all,i want him to be honest with me tell me the truth that he found already.im done now im goin to move on its not only 1 man on this earth he hurt me he leave me he made me brokenhearted and hope for nothing all the effort i did and my daughter was not worth it.i learned on this lesson not to believe easy and give urself easily because of their sweet words,i did love him but he hurt me too much now.evrything happens in a reason theres more deserving man for me,more than him.he will realized it soon how much he lose me,.thank u fellow vj.the verry soon i will meet the better than him.he need gods he was not religious person.i wish him the best luck he need to learn to pray and go church and put god in his heart.

i know,the worse there he give up on me,and now my daughter want to go home she always say she miss her daddy so much i cant even explain im still hoping it be fixed he will be goin back to us and pick up us here even he cancel the interview and visa. know we can still get interview when he came back to me he was just mad and anger now maybe i give him time to think first i need prayers fellow.i know he was reading this here in visajourney he is member here,he knows how we suffer a lot and sacfrice to go here and my daughter give up her school cause we think we will go to my fiance he let us come here.after all he will leave us and put his anger,he still love me i know.i need more prayers i try my best to save us.even his family try to talk him and he never listen

i know.i try it.when my friends see me last nght they let me drink so i can show them all my cries but they didnt see they asked me why i didnt fight for us why i let him go why i nver stop him i told them no matter what i should do its his decision if he comeback to me im still here for him.i love him so much i live him with him evryday i talked him in vdeocall,imiss him a lot till now.he wanted me to send all back his papers does it imprtant to send back it its only printed copy i cant used it cause its already cancel our interview on nov 2 and cancel our visa,

i left evrything my daughter stop her school cause of this we came in manila,i will find work here but i wanted to go work abroad it will be my first time to leave my 3 yrs old daughter to work abroad.i need to relate and forget it,i try to wait but he said dont wait it anymore it wont fixed anymore.im so ashamed my dad came here with me but he decide to me not to stay on province and leave my child there and work here cause people in my province will laugh at me say im dumb and make me down.its so hard for me this facing problem he wanted me to send our baby ashes who get passed away last a mnths ago.i need a lot of prayers to keep me brave and strong for this problem.i hope a lot.i waited him but he decide to leave.

Sorry for your pain, keep your head up

thank u for trying me to be okay

im trying to move on,im just thinking to move other country and forget but im still waiting he will come back i try to ask many time to save us this relation cause we both love each other and i ask his mom to help us to fixed it but he never listen anymore he decided so fast.im so hurt still cause i hope evrything.i love him so much and he love me too.but he gave up already,i try evrything but he dont want it anymore.im so scared to go home to province and im thinking my child.

hi everyone our interview in nov 2 an visa application was cancel due to personal reason me and my fiance broke up he decided to leave me cause of i have lack of trust of him his personal reason,its so sad that evrything was gone in just 1 click,i will miss him we did suffer and sacrfice for this to finished only 1 step to finshed on nov 2 but it changes already cause he leave me and cancel all our ticket his ticket for nov 7 and our ticket for nov 20 to move in washington for our married my effort i did this month was useles cause me and my child sacrifice in medical last oct 16 in st lukes and we get passed and after wait for nov2 for our finaly interview.he throw evrything our we started we came here in manila to get my wedding dress and his wedding ring also and evrything was already prepared and our wedding in washington.im so hurt with this cause i will go home to my province that he was neve with me anymore its because of just small problem he gave up evrything he tells me he still love me but he cant stay with me anymore,too mny happens to me that i feel so hurt,im ashamed for what happen with me.its hurt by my side cause he leave me alone and my child.our baby who is passed away a mnths ago i need to send her ashes he wanted me to send it to him.i try my best to save it our relation he never listen and he push me aways i did all my best.i hope evry1 can keep prayers with us to be okay until im still hurt and thinkin what should i do when i get home all my relatives family and friends will laugh at me and im ashamed im thinking not goin home to province im here at mnla because of our interview im thinkin my 3 yr old daughter i cant leave her just to move on hide for my famiy and relatives friends cause of what happen im so ashamed and hurt so bad and brokenhearted.

hi me and my fiance never cancel our visa we are on process already,i came from my medical and my daughter we are passed,waiting for 10 days for our interview.

Unfortunately things are not going to work out with me and my fiance. She ended things for reasons I wont disclose, all I know is that it's all very stupid and without logic and I'm shattered by it.

My K1 application was accepted and send to the California Service Center for review about a month ago. How do I go about cancelling everything so nothing else occurs? I wouldnt mind having the packet back, but if they cant send it back it's ok. Is there a hotline or do I mail them or what? Any help would be appreciated.

its easy go call the us embassy then cancel it,thats easy way right!

if u like cancel it then cancel it anytime u want thats all.