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OK. I would not want it to seem as if he were paying me to get him here. Yes, that is the norm in a Muslim marriage, for the husband to provide financially for the wife.

If anyone else has any insight on the financial aspects I would appreciate it as well.

Thanks!

OK. Thanks for all the input. We have discussed it and I must travel to meet him. In S.A. He assured me it is okay. I was the one with the doubts.

I have a new question. He wants to pay for my expenses, but it could be frowned upon like it is a scam. It is no scam. He can afford it better than me. If he wants to send me the funds, how do we do this without later problems?

Thanks!

The reasons shown in USCIS information are hardship and religious/cultural restrictions. I am beginning to prepare the I-129F.

I, as a single woman, would have extreme difficulty traveling to and visiting my fiancé in a Muslim theocracy. We wouldn't be allowed to spend time together alone. We will have a traditional Muslim marriage, delaying that time until after the wedding. Plus, I have been unemployed for several months.

We keep saying "Insha'Allah" (God willing), but we must deal with USCIS too. Any advice? Thanks!