jamkay

It was something we were planning to do after the wedding anyway. If you love someone and want to be with them you should not put your life together onhold. and whether or not they can get a visa to the u.s. should not change the way you feel about them. Especially if you are getting married for the right reasons. Which is because you love each other and want to spend the rest of your lives together. No Matter Where U R!!!

we do not know the reason it was denied. YOU need to know that and YOU need to correct the problem. Doing anything before you know those things is very risky.

Some things it was NOT...

1. Lack of a baby

2. Lack of income (if you make more than the poverty guidelines)

So stop in any efforts toward those "solutions" However if you are going to be close enough to him to MAKE A BABY then I suggest you get even more photos and evidence to prove you have a relationship. That COULD be the problem as it often is with these cases. What is "enough" depends on the consulate. You have far more than enough to get a fiance visa in Kiev.

I strongly suggest you do NOT do anything that will result in a long term committment until you know the problem. Making a baby or getting married would be among those things, UNLESS you havea fail safe plan to live with him and raise your family (ultimately) in some other country

My fiance and i were denied but did not receive a slip of paper. CO just stated we would receive a letter in the mail. Have you heard of that?

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As some of my friends on here will know that my fiance and I were denied the K-1 visa. The CO was very upfront about questioning the validity of our relationship. We were even moved into the interrogation room for questioning. We answered all of those questions the same.

CO questioned us after the interrogation and then determined on his own that we could not be in a relationship because I had only visited my fiance for 3 days in the last 2 years.

I explained to him that we had been together for much longer than two years and brought all the evidence to prove that. I also explained that I had lost my job in 2009 and had since started a new job and have been employed for about 2 years now. The circumstances under which we could meet were limited and brief because of both of our jobs. I filed in June and interviewed in Dec. We were given a white slip and he circled the option that said " relationship was for immigration purposes"

What can I do-- I was thinking maybe we could motion or appeal the decision-- but I'm thinking we may have to just get married in the DR and petition him with a CR-1 visa.

Thanks for all you help!!!

Did they hand you a letter after they informed you that you were denied at the interview? My fiance and i did not receive anything. How long did it take for you to receive a letter in the mail?

Hi I was recently denied and given one of those white paper. It took 3 months for USCIS to recieve the case back and once they recieve it it takes them another 180 days to response. I wish you the best of luck.

He was a crewmember on a cruise line that pulled in to port every Sunday. We meet up every Sunday to go out to lunch and go to the beach for about 3 months. He meet my sister and my niece before he left after his 1st contract. When he went home i went to visit him for a week. He came back for a second contract. Made 2 trips to visit him while he was in New Orleans, LA. After he completed this contract went on a second trip to visit. Have plenty of photos, phone calls, emails, and plenty of pictures with his family. What more do we need? We are thinking of having a baby now. And support is not an issue. I make way more that the average american makes in a year.

And on what basis can you possibly comment on the validity of the relationship.

No she did not hand us any sheet. Does that mean anything?

Did the interviewing officer hand one of you anything? Typically it is a white or blue sheet.

While uncomfortable, those questions are occasionally asked in visa interviews.

Thanks. My thoughts exactly. If we get married will we be denied when we file again.

You need to find out WHY it was denied. Correct that problem. Re-file.

Getting married is NOT the problem if you filed a fiance(e) visa and is not the solution. Lack of evidence of a relationship COULD be, but if you get married then you need to prove that you have a bona fide marriage. Getting married, itself, does not solve the "problem"

There is no good answer until you know why it was rejected

Yes i was there!

Were you there?

No she did not state why he was unquallifed. She asked very intimate questions like: Do you use condoms? If you are not using condoms why have you two not gotten pregnant? Is there a problem? When was the last time u were intimate?

Sorry to hear that...

I don't know the answer to your question but do you know what made her say she was not qualified for the K-1 visa?

My fiance K- visa was denied on 4/17/12. Anyone have any words of encouragement? The immigration officer was very rude to use during the interview. She stated my fiance was not qualified for this kind of visa and that we should get married in the Dominican Republic. Does anyone know how long it takes to receive the letter stating why the visa was denied?