I just stated the fact. You didn't even get my point, It's not about adjusting from Visitor visa. It's just not a lot of people got married after only knowing each other for 6 weeks. I am not attacking the OP, If I were, I wouldn't even answer her question! What's wrong with telling her be more prepared? And this is a public forum, I can say whatever I want as long as I am not violated any rules. So can you please leave me alone? The point is helping the OP not attacking other member's comments.