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yes I totally understand that I have to meet and establish a relationship before I apply. I am just gathering facts so I can better prepare myself before I commit myself into a relationship.

I'm just trying to find if my relationship succeeds what steps I will take to apply for k1 visa. Trying to be proactive i.e if we end up liking each other after meeting in real life.

My goal is that I was honest in first K1 visa application and learned a lession. Now I am being careful, and if I have to go this route I want to make sure I take the right steps. Proof of relationship, visits, and time spend, wait 2 years in between K1 application.

Is it much safer to marry her outside USA and then sponsor her?

So you applied for a K1, got married, separated, divorced. and are now in love with another woman. You must have travelled to meet her, in order to qualify for a K1. And you would like to get her to the USA, and marry her. And all within two years? There are a few red flags there! I think its two years between applications, so you will need to wait a bit longer.

I haven't met her yet, just speaking to her on skype. Our marriage broke up withen few months of her arriving in USA so filed seperation and divorce. Should I consult a lawyer or forget about knowing someone overseas since I applied for 1 k1 petition?

I'm getting confused on how to calculate if 2 year's have passed from my last k1 application. What date should I use the first NOA was received, or the date USCIS approved the petition, or the date ex spouse was issued the K1 visa?

Is there a need to mention in I-129 F visa application that the previous marriage did not work out and also I found out that the true intention of spouse was to marry for green card. I gracefully left the relationship and withdrew the I864 petition.

Is two year time from the date I applied my last K-1 petition or the date USCIS accepted the I-129F petition or is it the date embassy issued the K1 visa?

I have applied for 1 K1 visa before almost 2 years ago and everything was legal and applied for AOS but withdrew my I864. My ex spouse is still living int he USA and not left. There was no abuse or any arrests or any trouble, convictions with the law or any authorities.

Is it a good idea to take the K1 VISA route?

Will they make the 2nd fiance visa difficult because of 1st spouse still in usa or will they ask me her status? I have no idea of what her legal immigration status is.

well they send a leter in mail saying your case is being transferred to CSC for faster processing.

I have applied for AOS through my USC spouse. My question is the case got tranferred to California Server center for faster processing. The reciept starts with MSC.

Is this normal one office tranfers cases to CSC but they don't change the receipt number to CSC. Does this mean now that CSC owns the case and will stay there till they make a decision?

Thanks,

Where do you file the withdrawal of affidivat letter? Will they give any kind of reciept or letter saying that they recieved the letter of withdrawal?

I mean there is no application for this so I don;t think they give any proof.

VAWA based on extreme creulty. I'm reading online that a person can file extreme creulty and win VAWA. BAsically it is all verbal just staing things like your husband was controling, he called you names, no bank accounts were opened together, husband listening to her phone calls to family....and treatening to call the police deport her.

My concern is doesn't INS know these type of things are easy to make up for any human in their idle mind and get affidivits from family members and file for extreme creutly.

Every one can just make all those things and tell INs hey I was victim of extreme creulty.

Need input.....IF this thing is just making those statements then I think everyone qualifies for it and should win the case.

VAWA is just a tool for spouses to grab and look for green card if marriage don't work.

Could you please list all the steps you took to withdraw your support? what type of letter? how did you post it? what office did you send it to?

Did you get any confirmation as to when they recieved your letter?

If the spouse seperates in order to file for divorce...Does immigration consider this as abandanment of support of not fulfilling the affidivat of support obligations? The petitioner is willing to provide living room and board till the divorce happens.

My spouse came on k1 fiance visa got married withen 90 days, submitted I485 and I864. Marriage didn't work out. send a notarized letter to the service center processing the case (case still pending) to disavow my affidavit of support i-864.

My question is do I have to send a letter to the center that approved her I-129F application to disavow any thing? Please help or advice? Or is sending a letter to the center processing AOS I-485 form enough?

Does I-129 F hold any weight or it's a visa that is already used and expired and thus no need to withdraw/disavow?

That's what my lawyer also advised to leave soon becuase in his experience he has found all people who came with the interest of getting a green card will abuse themselves and have no intentions of making the marriage work. There anger takes over the saving or keeping marriage intact becuase there mind is only thinking of green card.

He said take your essentials and leave the house and leave a note on the kitchen table saying that I tried to work out the marriage but this is my last resort to seperate myself. He said make a photocopy of your note and also send an email and leave the house.

What will happen if she goes to woman shelter after I leave the house? I'm also deciding to stay in a hotel so I have proof CCTV showing me entering the hotel and me scanning my card to enter the room. (trying to cover my back)

What if she starts making false allegatsion or files VAWA? (Will VAWA care to check police records?)

Just concerned.

I'm in a relationship where my spouse is just waiting for time so they can get the green card. The spouse is very rude and doesn't want to compromise in any matter. Always get mad, and has mood swings. My spouse never showed this behavior before marriage.

The spouse is awaiting AOS and have withdrawn the affidivat of support becuase the spouse clearly used me for a green card with no intentions of making marriage work.

I'm afraid to live with my spouse becuase she might abuse herself and call the police and file abuse and VAWA etc.

I'm just saying yes to everything she says and passing time so there is no ripples in the marriage but this marriage is not working for.

I spoke to my attorney and he advised to seperate myself and start the divorce process.

Please can you guys give input as to what is the best route? divoce or just wait for denial of AOS based on my letters requesting to withdraw my I864?

Thanks

I called them yesterday and found out that it is 5 to 6 months for CSC to process AOS. It is a long wait.

What I'm noticing is people whose fiances are from europe are getting AOS approved. Maybe background checks/investigations slowing it down for people applying AOS who come from under developed countries.

Do you all think this is what is slowing things down?

How easy is VAWA? I'm reading online that even canceling I864 can be considered abuse because you are manipilating the beneficiary? The spouse could file vawa based on withdrawn I864?

Also reading that the spouse can just walk up to a shelter, register, and request them to help in VAWA process becuase they listen. Can anyone be upset with their husband and just walk into a shelter?

Can just spousal argument (no touching or hitting or abuse) and the spouse calling police to manipulate the petioner also can be made to appear as abuse by the beneficiary?

IT sounds like the beneficiary can blackmail a USC to be submisive or else she will call police be enough for the spouse to qualify for VAWA.

I'm in trouble living in a relationship where I am being manipulated to be submissive and let them get green card. All I'm doing is just being calm and listening to spouse blackmail that she will get me in trouble. I have send my request to withdraw I864 since AOS is pending and have been patiently waiting each day for my fate.

What is best recourse? I have made an appointment with a divorce attorney for advice?

Thanks for all advice because I want to be fair even relationships dind't work

After the I864 is withdrawn and decision is made by USCIS where the AOS requested by beneficiary is denied. Can this couple resend the AOS application and explain that they never filed for divorce and would like to adjust again? Is this allowed or the beneficiary has to leave US and petitioner has to start over the processing of visa so she can come back to USA?

Let's say her spouse decides to have a change of heart and wants to mend bridges and re-sponsor her. Since she is out of status, what visa would her spouse apply for her to enter USA? Would it be easy if she never left for canada and stayed in USA? Is it better to stay in USA during AOS so if she is in USA she has more options to work things out with her spouse who pulled support? Would her husband just resend the 1080$ I864 and I485 again if they were inside USA ? or is she is out of status and she can't reapply from inside US because her k1 expired?

Doesn't USCIS see foulplay on petitioners part of withdrawing I864 after signing it? My friend called USCIS the person answering the phone said that the officer still has to look at the file and signing the i864 is taken very seriouisly. The person on the phone also said that beneficiary is married to a US citizen and that itself is very important point and has rights.

Just wanted to add some points mentioned by 1-800 people answering.

how much time do you have left to live in this country after you received the denial notice?

Can I ask you did you receive any notice from CSC about the action your spouse took>?

Can I ask why your husband pulled I864? I know you mentioned out of spite. Doesn't US law give you any rights that you were married in good faith? Are you saying that the officer at California service center just took the request for withdraWAL? Is there anyway he can responsor you if he has a change of heart?

Hellenew:

Can you share what you did to cancel AOS when you found you were duped....I'm in similar situation. I'm trying to relate myself with people who are in similar situation.