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not that it matters too much at all, but i did he said "ok", just "ok"

so thank you all for yoru advice and support and i wish you all the very best. i regret that my petition for k1 may have delayed any legitimate application.

Thanks

lol, he cheated at least 6 times that i knwo of with 6 differnt women, one of them even married. i have no choice. i cant be looking over my shoulder and pretending everything is fine for teh rest of my life while he is always looking fo rteh next pretty gal to entertain him...i dont really have a choice here....thsi has been going on for over a year...

If your timeline is accurate, cancel the petition. It's extremely easy to get out at this point, since it's pre- interview.

will he be notified that i terminated teh petition?

Ive been trying very hard to be forgiving and walking around with a smile on my face. he has no idea i want out. at this point i can easily ignore his calls and emails, but i want him to know i quit. not because im cruel, but because...actually i dont know. i sound like a nut...geez

Tons of info here on VJ about how to cancel a petition. Just search it, and a bunch of info comes up. Sorry that you're experiencing this, but on the bright side, it's early enough in the process that you don't have to deal with him being here, etc. Good luck.

yes i know how to cancel the petition. i am asking for personal advice on how to end this. im ata complete loss...email? text? just ignore him?

our entire relationship is built on lies, he is a master deceiver, a mega cheater and/or i am just naive...whatever the case...i just cant go through this. i need to end it before its too late. how?

i always suspected, i had reason too but mostly i just had a gut feeling. i would ask him and we would fight and finally, i know the absolute truth. even with evidence he denies it all...

i dont need sympathy, i need advice. i need to know hwo to end this with teh shred of dignity i have left...ok, now im a liar, my dignity is long time gone.

Ive never ended a relationship, in fact, ive never had a relationship. ive always been very cautious...now what?

advice?

Great Topic!

Although I cannot contribute in response to your initial question I will say that as the date nears for my fiances interview I have a MILLION jitters. will he be lonely, will he have regrets, will he be able to work, go to school and Ihave thsi other very very deep rooted fear that I cant overcome (and also wont mention). Im older than he is and my opportunities for having children are winding down, also another huge concern...anyhow, really great topic, i hope to see a lot more responses.

I am not sure if he can refuse the series of Hepatitis B shots. I read some people start the shots in egypt and finish in USA but when he comes here I doubt he will have insurance to cover those shots and they are VERY expensive in USA. Shots are really cheap in Egypt.

He cannot refuse those that USA says are mandatory or he does not get to come here unless he is pregnant and gets a doctor excuse. lol

I believe some people get one shot with 3 vaccines in it

If he has records of getting his shots from his childhood doctor then he doesnt need shots

Most people do not keep records that far back so they just get the shots again

hmmmm...if I find out hes pregnant this whole thing is OFF, that would be a deal breaker for sure!

I forgot to mention that I sent in my bank statement (with a significant amount) with packet 3 because my income barely fit the requirements. Also your w2 forms. Dont take any chances give more than they ask for. You dont want any delays at this point.

Thanks, I think we will go overboard on this packet instead of taking the "less is more" approach we took when we iunitially replied...now i have another question. On 134 it asks exactly what you intend to provide for your fiance and for how long? Is this a trick question? what did youwrite?

Mumps, Measles, Rubella, Polio, Tetanus and Diphtheria Toxoids, Pertussis, Influenza Type B (HIB), Hepatitis A, Hepatitis B, Varicella, Pneumococcal, Influenza, Rotavirus.

Each vaccines he needs can cost up to 150 pounds extra.

So plan on 600 pounds for the medical and if it only costs 220 pounds be happy

If any of this information is inaccurate I appologize. It was up to date information in December.

Follow information at your own risk

Thanks. Do you happen to know how the Hep B vaccine would be administered? Its VERY expensive even in US and is a series of 3. It would be pointless to receive only one and would take montsh to complete the series...so hwo does this work? Is there an opt out option for certain vaccinations due to side effects? If he refuses a certain vaccination will hsi visa be denied?

We checked USCIS webite daily in hopes of seeing a "touch" or update, none, not even one. Then one day, it said it had been forwarded to NVC.

After that you can call the NVCs automated system to see if they have received it or made changes, updates. NOTE: NVC, like USCIS, does NOT update their automated system regularly so if after a couple of weeks it is still saying they have not received your file, CALL them and talk to a human! They have long hours and are very friendly

Fo rmonths I have followed visajourney and read a lot of helpful information and a lot of misleading info. Im going to post the K1 application process as it is for US Citizen applying for Egyptian beneficiary. I do have some questions and will post them at the bottom.

1) Application filed with USCIS. (we did not follow visajourneys recommendations. We sent our applications (129s, 325 etc, 5 personal pics and a 2 emails, my flight tickets from y visit,letters of intent. our app packet was very slim and to the point. we did NOT include passport typer photos)

2) We tracked our app process on the uscis website. Forwarded to NVC after 5 months.

3) I contacted NVC after 2 weeks (NOT 30 days as visa journey recommends) They were able to give me our ccase number and the date that is was sent to the Embassy in cairo. I did confirm this by using the dhl search that some of the members recommend, it was accurate)

4) After 1 week I contacted the Embassy in cairo via email and they responded immediately. They were able to email me the expected contents of packet 3 so we could begin completing the forms.

5) three weeks after NVC sent the packet to the embassy my fiance received packet three. DHL called his mobile and advised him he could pick it up. I have not seen anyone mention that when packet 3 is delivered there is a fee for the beneficiary, so be aware, 37 EGP to pick up your packet. INSIDE THE PACKET IS A LETTER ADDRESSED TO EVERYONE DHL SENT PACKET 3 TO. YOUR NAME WILL NOT BE ON THE DHL PACKAGE, EVERYONES ADDRESS IS LISTED ON IT THOUGH.

6) The dhl packet i will send him from teh US containing all our documents from Packet 3 (I downloaded them and we completed them online now i send them back to him also with my 134-NOTARIZED and tax forms, W2s. SENDING THIS TO EGYPT WILL COST 74 USD)

7) we have begun completing the paperwork as required. when MY FIAnce receives the dhl package i am sending him he will put it all together and then send back to the embassy, it will cost 50EGP

8) Then we will wait for the letter, Packet 4, which will inform him of his interview time and date. This will also be sent via dhl so expect another 37EGP

Now for my questions:

When does he submit his physicla results? When he returns packet 3 OR at the time of his interview?

Packet 3 does not request my pay stubs or bank records, but I see many visa journey members send them in packet 3 back to the embassy. do I or dont i?

As for the letters from my employers, will my employers be contacted via phone for confirmation? I work a professional job but with irregular contracts and schedules so I am worried that if the employers are contacted the Embassy might not be provided the proper information.

How much is the physical?

Which vaccinations have Egyptian benficiaries been required to have? how much?

what exactly should he take with him to his interview? can I attend his interview ith him. The embassy site says NO, but i see a few k1s that say they went in teh embassy with their fiance.