siyonri

Thanks for your prompt response. I get it now. One more question though. I do not have a joint bank and phone accounts with my wife... will that be a problem? and can i send a copy of personal phone bill instead? thanks

Hi everyone,

I wanted to know if I need to add passport photos to my I-751 documents. If yes, how many? Thanks

Hi everyone,

Does anyone have a sample of the affidavit from relatives i could send with my i-175 package? I would need your help ASAP.

Thanks

Hey vjs! i have not been a regular contributor but have been a very good reader. but allow me to introduce myself. i am daniel and my lovely wife is rose.

we know this long wait wasn't what any of us ever anticipated. but as far as i know the wait is worth it. this is a very small sacrifice, compared to others in the future, we have to make for love. true love knows no distance barrier and its not racial. if it was, i and rose wouldn't have been here in the first place. so it is with most folks here too. i used the word "most" cos i can only boastfully speak for myself and my wife...no offence.

i want every Vj to realise that they are sailing on a "life-time" boat. come to think of it: why embark on a journey one wasn't prepared for in the first place? i know one cannot tell the end from the beginning but we ought to know why we started the journey in the first place. afterall there was no gun placed to the head before one made this life-time oath u know. i told rose some time ago that i wasn't expecting a perfect woman for a wife. i want everyone here to also know that one's spouse can never be like u. u are two different people. in fact two different people from two distinct nations. so why get irritated when ur spouse isn't acting civilised or puts up a crude attitude? why nag when situations aren't turning out the way u want it temporarily?

however, folks, this is how i see and have always seen coming-together: the spouses putting theirs flaws in a basket. the flaws are shaken together in that basket, and the spouses in turn make a pick. of course u know what that means don't u? so when u pick ur spouse's flaws or ill-sides, appreciated and embrace them cos they are urs now. i would recommend u romance them lol. this is the policy i and rose have adopted from the very beginning of our relationship. and i must confess, we have really been so attached before and after our wedding, both emotionally and spiritually. although most of our conversations have been thru phones, emails and chats, we have really come to be one even across this huge distance. of course we all know that relationship thru internet isn't anyway near the one that exist when under thesame roof. but u folks would concor with me that when two people have had long, sincere, and heartful conversations even across a great distance, living actually with each other under thesame roof would be blissful.

let me tell something i have come to realise between rose and i and its so unique. WE THINK ALIKE! u know thats something i could term as telepathy. and u know this isn't common in most relationships. its something i have come to realise exists in true relationships. rose tells me thats scary :)lol

on a final note, we Vjs should take this wait as a journey to being with our spouses. and its a wait that is worth it cos no journey is too long as long as it leads u to ur spouse.

CONGRATS TO THOSE THAT ARE ALREADY RE-UNITED WITH THEIR SPOUSES. AND WE HOPE FOR AN EXPEDITED RE-UNION FOR THOSE YET TO BE.

Siyonri

hi everyone,

congratulations to those that have got their hubbies and wifeys by their sides. and also i want to congratulate those that have got interview dates too. i will not leave out those that are on the way to getting their dates as well. i know the road is kinda long. but do not forget that any road that leads to ur spouse is not long at all cos u would eventually meet

i have one question tho for my k-3 recepients.

i have a friend thats about to go for his k-3 interview soon. i was helping him out with his ds156 forms and we were stuck. he is married tho but he is going on a k-3. there is a part of the form that said something about if one is married he not fill the form. i think i got that correctly tho. but i know u know what i am trying to say here.

question: is he suppose maintain the single status or he needs to fill in that he is actually married since k-3 is actually meant for fiancee and fiance. pls i would want anybody to tell me about how to go about this form. if its also possible to upload a sample of the filled form for us to have an idea of what to fill ok. and any other info would be immensely appreciated.

thanks for ur contributions .

daniel

hi everyone. happy valentine to u all alright.

our case has just been completed on the 26th of january. and we are waiting on nvc to forward our case to lagos consulate.

question: how can we track our pack. is there a way we can know when the pack arrives lagos after its forwarded? i had asked optimystic tho, but i wanted to get more detailed answer. i remember i read something about how one could track his pack. i have lost it now.

pls we would need ur help ok. thanks everyone.

daniel