DazednConfused31

I think that you have made it a little harder by getting married while on a tourist visa. sometimes the consulates give you a hard time because it can be considered Visa fraud to use a visa for something other than it's intended purpose.

i did all of the above, i even let him know that we could still be friends. i don't hold grudges but he's too embarrassed about being caught to accept my offer.

Thanks everyone. The petition will be invalidated February 1, 2013. He knows what he's lost only he won't realize it until he's here and can't live the life he wants because he doesn't know anything, he or his wife. I was the best thing to happen to him but he let his family come in between us. His lost.

No,I'm not trying to make troubles for him. I don't take vengeance into my own hands because my Father always takes care of me. I think that Delvy is doing a fine job making a mess for himself. I'm just wondering what is going to happen.

well everyone knows my story about my fiance dumping me on my birthday. It was really hard on me and we decided to remain friends. Well somehow, our emotions got mixed back into the equations and we decided to resume our relationship. Well I didn't trust him and I found out recently that he got married to a Dominican girl who lives in the same state as me! He would never admit it but I knew that he dumped me because his family was not accepting of me because I am not Dominican and can not speak Spanish very well. When I came to visit, his father asked him why did he bring me there if I couldn't speak Spanish. And he was constantly asking if I learned anymore Spanish. He also was saying if we were to get married, that he wanted to do it here. Anyway. He lied to me and told me that he had to go away and I saw the wedding photos on his mom's Facebook page. I haven't spoken to him since. What I want to know is that, when he applies for the K3, will he be investigated for fraud being as how our petition was never stopped and was approved October 2, 2012. I didn't stop it because I figured I paid my money so why not let it go all the way through. I really think that he brought the red flags on himself because he's filing a k3 with a different person less than one year after filing a k1 with me and also in the same state.

Update:

He said we would talk last night, we didn't and he is completely ignoring me. I didn't think that he could be such.a jerk bc he was so sweet. It still hurts but i have to move on bc obviously our relationship didn't mean anything to him.

Thanks everyone, I feel so much better. I know that everything will be fine, I have faith. It's his loss bc I have so much to offer.

Thanks everyone for all of the support and kind words. He is 26 and not ready to be a man, I guess. He may have realized that a real woman requires a real man and wasn't ready. But once I get over someone, I never look back. He offered to be "really good friends". How could I be really good friends with someone who has no regards for my feelings. He needs to grow up.

Thanks, he said we will talk tonight.

God is the only one that really knows what is good for us eventhough we sometimes cant figure out why things happen. Dont be afraid or embarased to tell your family because it is better now then later when your have gone thru marriage. In my opinion you should wait a couple of days before you break the news to everyone. You never know if he woke up on the wrong side of the bed today. Hope everything works out and im here if you need to talk.

I'm sorry to hear that you've been dumped. That sucks! And on your birthday, too! Still, it's better to know now, then to make the biggest mistake of your life.

Takis, I think you're missing some key information. She applied for the K-1 visa. My guess is that their plans were that she come to America and marry this man. He ended the relationship, though, and if there is no relationship, then she cannot exactly just move to the US. Not without due process or some other way.

I am the U.S. citizen, he is from the DR.

I'm sorry to hear that you've been dumped. That sucks! And on your birthday, too! Still, it's better to know now, then to make the biggest mistake of your life.

Takis, I think you're missing some key information. She applied for the K-1 visa. My guess is that their plans were that she come to America and marry this man. He ended the relationship, though, and if there is no relationship, then she cannot exactly just move to the US. Not without due process or some other way.

I honesty think now that he is afraid. I have 16 hours before I graduate so I can't leave now. We didn't discuss all other possibilities but he said Yw would think about everything today and tell me tonight. I do love him enough to consider it but I've seen how his family lives and it would best if he came here.

wow but if you guys REALLY loves each other WHY NOT move there???? i mean if you love this guy either u or him will make way..why give up?

goodluck!!!!!!!!

Thanks everyone. I have spent my 30th birthday in my bed crying my eyes out. I really thought that I had my happily ever after. I don't deserve this.

Thanks and you're right bc he didn't even tell me happy birthday.

Thanks, it hurts but I will be fine.

I have been dumped. And what's even worse is that today is my birthday. He gave me excuses about his family was starting a business and he was the only one who could run it and someone here can make me happier and his family doesn't want him to come here. I think he has someone else but he insists that he doesn't. My heart is really broken. So I think I will be alone for awhile. What's crazy is that I wss reading messages from the beginning of this months and it was the opposite. I was the one telling him how hard this was and he was assuring me that it could work if we love each other. I'm just so sad. I'm too embarrassed to tell my family and friends. Everything was fine until he went their annual family vacation. He has been back since Friday and picks my birthday to break up with me. But God knows best. I hope I will soon find that person that he has made just for me.

Congratulations. You are very blessed and God continue to bless you with many more happy days as.such!

We are.close.with dates, I sent mine off march.19 and got noa1 on April 2. I really think by October is when my baby will be here but I'm praying it will be sooner. I miss him like crazy.

HELLO EVERYBODY,,,

IM NEW AT ALL THIS BUT WILL LIKE FOR EVERYBODY TO HELP ME WITH THIS JOURNEY. I JUST FILLED FOR MY K-1 ON 03/17/12 AND RECENTLY RECEIVED MY NOA1, JUST WANT TO KNOW HOW LOOK DO I WAIT FOR NOA2. IM WITH IN USA AND MY MAN IS IN DOMINICAN REPUBLIC, MY PAPER WORK IS BEING PROCESS FROM TEXAS...

ANY HELP WILL BE APRECIATED!!!!!

Thanks.

While I'm waiting, I want to get an early start on the next step. Can someone please tell me what I need to be preparing to send to him bc DR postal service sucks, it takes 16 days for me to receive mail from him.

While I'm waiting, I want to get an early start on the next step. Can someone please tell me what I need to be preparing to send to him bc DR postal service sucks, it takes 16 days for me to receive mail from him.

I mailed mine on March 19 and I got no text or email but my letter (NOA1) was dated for April 2.

Thanks, I'm praying for everyone.

Thanks everyone , patience really is a virtue. I was worried also because I filled out the form to get text/email notification. I never expected to receive my mail NOA before my text. I am just glad I got something. What a Blessing!

I am soooooo excited. I finally got my NOA 1 by mail today( I didn't check it yesterday). I sent the package off March 19 and was disturbed bc I had not heard anything. The receive date says April 2. I am ecstatic and relieved. Everyone enjoy your Easter and stay blessed.

Thanks for those kind words. I decided to stop driving myself nuts about it. Whatever will be will be.

I hope everything works out for you. The best way to be sure is to track your package through USPS and see if it got there. If you go to their website you can enter the tracking number. It it got there then do not worry because it does take some time for them to send you a confirmation receipt. Pray to God as he is the only one that knows when you will be with your loved one again.