ALABANGGIRL

My fiancé got this in her email this morning. I'm just wondering if it's been approved or denied?

Dear

Your document(s) have been collected from the US Embassy/Consulate.

The passport number being returned is XXXXXXXX and the AWB for tracking is XXXXXXXX.

You have chosen to have your documents delivered to the following location:

2GO Pampanga, Betterdays bldg,, San Fernando, Pampanga 2000

If you have any issues or concerns, please contact us at www.ustraveldocs.com/ph.

during the medical, st. lukes asked ur passport and deliver to embassy along with the medical result...now, that they approved your fiance, they returned back to your fiance her passport and to be sure that its the correct pp, they have to write the pp number. Nothing to worry about, 3-4 days, she will receive the visa, pls tell her not to open it, take out the pp only, because the envelope has 2 opener, special one for the passport and another one for the immigration that will be opened only by I.O at the POE...Congrats!

I'm not philhome.

user name of your wife is philhome and not you... go and search her post, am sure she's your wife and both of you were believable, dont know who is talking the truth

Hello,

I am writing broken hearted as my wife of 4 months left for her home country 2 days ago without warning and claiming abuse. I am devastated and deeply hurt. I am not a newbie as I created this profile to avoid any more hurt and embarrassment.

Here is my story.

My wife was disappointed with my house, it's condition and the town I live in when she arrived. It is in town, but a rural retirement community. Narrow streets, no sidewalks, poorly lit at night. No stores near by. She wanted to walk alone but I told her it was not safe to do so. Rarely do you see people walking or riding bicycles and you NEVER see women alone. She refused to go with my sister-in-law anywhere who volunteered her days off to help her. My children (3) did not have a lot to say to her and she took it personally. They are teens and don't even talk to me!

To make the story short, problems I did not solve with my ex-wife bothered her, we have 3 children we were taking care of and she resented any contact. The children got tired of her DEMANDING they speak to her and started not coming over. This bothered me as their biological mother did nothing but encourage it. My wife did not even want her to pick them up at my mothers' house. She did not want to go to my mothers' house any more.

She began to complain about the smallest things that eventually led to arguments and verbal fights. She told me that she did not like my children and would not look after them. She said they were lazy and my daughter was a pig. This was coming from someone who got up an hour after they did. She would not even open the door when they were dropped off or even get up. She would then complain to her friends and daughter. They began encouraging her to come home. She was extremely jealous of my ex-wife and even thought there as something going on between us. When there are children involved, (one entering university) you HAVE to communicate.

To make this story short, she left 2 days ago claiming I abused her. She called a womans shelter and they took her to the airport and she went back to her country. I don't know where she got the ticket from either. She said she was afraid of me and that I was starving her with and did not have food in the house. She said I ran around the house with a gun and was afraid of me. She said I called her bad names and that I pounded my fists on the table. The only thing that as true was I called her a lazy fat A$$ and she did not like hearing the truth. I told her I was sorry over and over but like everything else, it was not good enough for her. This woman actually GAINED weight while she was here so I don't know where the starvation and lack of food came from. She complained there was no toilet because the water was turned off due to a leaking pipe in the yard. It took 3 days to fix and was an inconvenience, but it was not a permanent problem.

The bottom line was, she got here and America for her was not what she expected. She did not adjust at all and never felt like she fit in. Also, I am not wealthy. I work 6 sometimes 7 days a week for small money and money is tight. She expected all new furnishings and could not wait. I even paid for her house and utilities while she was here. She had no concept of earning and spending money. She wanted a rich man and only got me.

I could go on and on, but I have said enough. I did my best for her and it ws never enough. Nothing warranted involving a womans shelter involvement and all the false accusations. She took the marriage license to divorce me claiming one of the children took it. I am wondering if she is doing this to get some kind of benefit from me... At least I ill not pay for her house and utilities any more.

I am just venting my hurt and frustration, but would appreciate any kind words and advice.

Thanks

I already read the side of your wife, philhome, the one who posted "unhappy while am here" go to search because I dont know how to insert a link but i am 99% that you are husband and wife...and i believed her more than this post, but u are believable too, just an opinion MOVE ON!

hi! my bf wants to file for a fiance visa for me. he just got divorced and it's finalized already...that means their marriage in US is divorced but their marriage in Philippines is not annuled yet. what happened is that they first got married in Phils few years ago, then my bf got back to US then petitioned his then wife. can he file for a fiance visa for me or he still has to annul their marriage in phils? please please help

The first marriage of my friend husband was held in Phil 20 yrs ago, both of them are USC, (guy is pinoy and girl is white) after 15 yrs, got divorced because of incompatibility and culture differences. My friend met his husband in 2003 and petitioned her a year after. They are here now in US...only problem is, they cant get married in Phil because his husband first marriage was not yet annuled until now...

sorry but that is incorrect. you have to pay first or else your passport number (which is your receipt number) will be invalid.

I received my NOA2 last August only...my fiancee (now my hubby) called for my interview date which was set last Oct 10th 2011 without paying first the visa. I pay my visa at BPI when I went to Manila for my medical and a week after was my interview date.

I met my fiancee last year between May and July in the Philippines. I did not go to Pinas to just meet her.

At first she thought I was a playboy because I told her that I wanted to date other filipinas to see which one I liked, you know filter them out.

I was married to a filipina before so I was very careful about seeing the signs of a good or bad filipina.

Well me and my fiance got together and it was great until my ex-wife's sister found her on Facebook and started to harass her.

Be+

*ause of the doubts and harassment, she broke up with me and didn't talk to me for 4 months, but then she finally came to her senses that I wasn't "that guy!"

Because she just recently wanted to get back together, I had filed the K-1 when we were still together but then we broke up. I thought she didn't want to come be with me anymore

so I didn't save up all the crazy fees that the embassy needs for her to get a K-1.

Now she is freaking out because I can't give her money on demand to get her the medical or pay for other small feels like police clearance right at this moment.

I told her that I just had a big bill for my school, I had big bill for insurance and then I just sent almost $400 dollars to pay for the visa application.

then now I have to save up for a plane ticket, for medical and to send documents to you. She doesn't understand that money doesn't a+ppear magically

Told her that if you didn't believe the other girl and we were still together then those months we lost, then I would have had all the money needed.

$950 for one way ticket, $350 for Visa App, $250 for Medical, $160 for DHL shipment. Stuff adds up, money doesn't grow on trees.

I had to make her understand that because of your decision, you have to suffer the consequences.

Now she is coming after me because I don't have a job and I am still going to school full time even though I have VA disability.

I am trying to explain to her that my mom is helping and it takes a few months or her to start working so YES!

family does have to help a little, that is what they are there for.

Ironically explaining this to a filipina. They are the ones with the big family. You know 8 generations of family living in a 2 bedroom house.

Just that American families are a little different than the Filipino ones.

But she is trying to tell me that we must live on our own, we are both adults, yada yada. I told her! I know about being an adult, I have bee one for almost 10 years now.

I think she is doing this becuase she is afraid of leaving her "known" life in the Philippines and coming to a whole new country which is getting her all worked up.

Any way to calm her down?

ANd you have to add, when she arrives another 1,070 for AOS...explain to her when she is in good mood, am sure she will understand that life here in US is not easy. good luck!

Dear VJ members, PLEASE PRAY FOR MY HUSBAND HARVEY KEYSER LESHER, I have been awake now for more than 48 hours... Last August, my husband started to complain about now being able to fold the middle finger of his left hand, we went to his primary physician and he referred him to a hand doctor thinking that it was a ligament issue, the hand doctor does not see anything wrong with his ligament referred him to a neurologist... the neurologist ordered two MRI and CAT scan two weeks apart and he saw a mass on his head, he referred us to a neurosurgeon and he was biopsied last October 13, 2011, and it was found out that he has brain cancer anaplastic astrocytoma. the sample that they get indicate its a grade 3, but it might be grade 4, its inoperable since its in depth of his right frontal lobe... we had a combination of chemotherapy and radiation that ended last dec. 31, 2011, we were ask to meet the doctors again for a month for the result, we did meet him last monday and they said that there is a lot of swelling on his brain... so they plan to reduced the swelling, but this afternoon he was having some seizure and I cannot wake him up... so i called 911, until now he is still in a comma.. I am not really naive... I LOVE HIM SO MUCH, but i also know the possibilities... can you just please pray that he will wake up again so that i can say my goodbye properly... i do tell him several times a day that I LOVE HIM and he said he knows it... I am so lost... but i am always brave... your prayers will be very much appreciated... Thanks!

you made me cry...my prayers to both of you, esp to you that you'l be able to accept and handle everything. Everything happens for a reason, keep praying.

Just read it today

http://www.abs-cbnnews.com/video/global-filipino/02/03/12/pinay-marrying-us-chat-buddy-ends-dead

Pinay marrying US chat buddy ends up dead

02/04/2012 1:49 AM

Trahedya rin ang sinapit ng isa pa nating kababayan sa Amerika. Bangkay na nang iuwi sa Pilipinas si Christine Bolor matapos pumunta sa Amerika kasama ng kasintahang Amerikano na nakilala niya sa internet chat. Pinaiimbestigahan ngayon ng pamilya sa embahada ng Pilipinas sa Amerika ang nangyari sa kanilang kaanak. Magba-Bandila si Cris Zuñiga. Bandila, Pebrero 3, 2012, Biyernes

so sad i watched this news and felt sad of what happened to one of our kababayan, for those pinay who are staying here in US and no GMA pinoy and kapamilya channels...do watch at www.kaibigantv.com u can watch abs-cbn, gma and tv5...so useful esp like me na nagtitipid its not 1 day late and no commercials!

GOOD DAY to all VJ members..!! were preparing to gather all the docs required in filing AOS..hope you will have time to answer my questions.

i had my medical last April 2011 in St.LUKES..how many months does the medical result will expire?is this ok if i will just submit the result i have now from st.lukes last year? or I must go to a surgeon here in US and do another medical?

and my husband didnt file yet for the Federal tax now..is it ok if we will just pass his 2011 income tax?or we must submit the income tax this year?coz since he didnt file this time..

hope to hear your comments guys..have a good day to all!!!

you dont need anymore your vaccination result from st.lukes...you have to have it here in US again and submit, if you dont submit it now, the CO will ask it from you on your interview...be sure to have done it before your interview. Mine was $320...goodluck!