JohnAireen

i arrived here sept 29, 2011 with my 13 year old daughter i experience a lot of abuse physically, mentally, and sexually. I cant believe this would happen to me here coz i thought my husband truly love me but i found out that he didnt love me, and he just need me just for sex. Our age gap is 18 years but i didnt think that he is older so much than me coz of the years we been together. So sad, im going to give up and wants to go back in the philippines even its hard to get the greencard to come here. I dont care about the green card or US citizen if am not happy here. I think im gonna die or will become crazy here living with him. A lot of friends telling me not to leave USA and need to sacrifice or understand my husband until i become a US citizen, For me, what is the the VISA FOR? if your unhappy. I ask him a favor just find us money for our airfare back to philippines then i will not bother him anymore, but he said if we want to go back to PH then we need to find money for ourselves, it means he will not help us for our plane ticket. sounds like he wants us to suffer here in america. I have so much regret of coming here. But ill try to find money to go back to my country, i dont let him step down on me by many many years.. one year is enough. So right now i am struggling to work a 3 part time job until i could finally save for my airfare. if i be in the Philippines, i want to forget all those bad memories from here, i will just put on my mind it just a dream.

Hello

This is very sad news. I am sorry this happens to you or if it happens to anyone. I think you can call uscis and explain to them that the marriage is not real through no fault of your own and they will help you go home. He is responsible for you so he may have to pay your ticket. My girl is coming here soon I could not imagine her being treated like this. No one deserves this.

After the interview in manila and you are approved how long before you can pick up your visa and where do you go to pick it up?

Calm down this is the united states government. They have never been accused of doing anything quickly. In my opion they should not take 5 months or even 2. How difficult is it? LOL United states government at its finest. Biggest waste of money.

She did not enter the marriage in good faith. There is a lot i did not include (Rushing me to get married fast, rushing to get her green card, etc). Definitely not a marriage in good faith. that is why i want to divorce her! I just want her out of my life and i don't want to be responsible for her. She is impossible to deal with. If i have to go before a judge, they will see how difficult she is. I can prove that she is full of ####### and that this marriage was a sham. She has a few friends who have married Americans and have just left after a few months to go back to China. We have only been married a little over a year. Things have been shaky from day one. I don't want to be her legal sponsor anymore because she is fraudulent.

If it is fraud on her part they would strip the greencard. But has to be fraud. I have looked up similar cases and there has been some that have been stripped of citizenship due to fraudulant marriage years later in their second marriage. you can do a search in google you can check with INS. Look up Nada Prouty that is a popular one she was fbi star officer stripped of her U.S. Citizenship due to fraudulant marriage. You lie to get citizenship you can lose it no matter how long they have had it.