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Wohow.. Thats good to hear..

Thanks thanks.yeah im trying to gather all possible evidences. At the same time, fix my finances coz with all the bills I pay for for us, id be lucky to find $100 in my account. It will still be a long sacrifice divorce alone wont just cost me just $100

Mr and mrs, let me know how i can make up to your being helpful to me. Thank u very,much

Thanks thanks.yeah im trying to gather all possible evidences. At the same time, fix my finances coz with all the bills I pay for for us, id be lucky to find $100 in my account. It will still be a long sacrifice divorce alone wont just cost me just $100

Mr and mrs, let me know how i can make up to your being helpful to me. Thank u very,much

No. I have a job and earn enough to support myself.,she doesnt. I dont financially rely on her,while she would,even ask me for a dollar to buy herself a gum. Thanks to all of you. i really appreciate you guys helping me. Being somebody who doesnt know anything about your immigration rules here, i thought i gotta suck everything up to save myself from somebody who tortures me. worse is my own wife. Its not,easy waking up not knowing what to do and feel helplesss coz im just an immigrant. You guys have no idea how there were times where i could not buy myself even $1 burger coz i would see -$300 -$400 in my account. My money i worked hard for all,went to her clothes,etc etc. when marriage gets shaky, u cannot complain if you dont wanna hear ”didnt i petition you?”

Thank you very much to both,of u. can somebody tell me what that waiver is about? is that the VAWA(?) ?? or somethng against violence against women? Sorry im really not,familiar with,immigration terms. Since i can say shes mentally and emotionally abusing me

This, perhaps, is my second post and im asking for any help or opinion you guys can offer. Im married to a USC wife last february 2011 and got my GC october 2011. Things turned out not as good as we wanted between us due to of alot of issues. Right after i discovered her cheating on me, inviting guys over when im not around, pot and alcohol (not to mention my financial status became really bad after getting negative accounts all the time because of her) she abandoned me and would not wanna come back. i tried working things out with her many times, but she would just ignore me/hide from me all the time,mentioned divorce, and threatens me. because im defenseless coz im just the immigrant, ifeel trapped. This has been stressing me out so much and ruinign my life bit by bit. i dont have alot of friends here in the US i can talk too. nor anyone knows whats goin on.

My question is, whats gonna happen to me if she wont cooperate with me in filling the tax next year? as from what i understood, tax documents are, if not important, required when filing ROC (due june 2013). as i assess my situation, im thinking if i should just wait til june 2013 come, regardless if she cooperates and help me with the requirement and just explain it to the IO later on , but the fear that we might be called for an interview and she will just abandon me again? or divorce her now, and save my self at least. a friend mentioned something about the waiver that i can file. Supporting me are the negative account bank statements, pictures of alcohols at bottles of marijuana, saved emails and messages, doctor psych appointments. isnt this a form of mental/emotional abuse?

i appreciate any help. however, if youll just insist that this smells fishy or #######, id rather not you comment. i dont have time to explain myself and argue. thanks

Yeah we did..in good faith. But what do I need to do? With whats goin on between us, theres no way shes coming back and fix things between us. I doubt she will help me. of course,i would like that to make this work but she wont cooperate. So im thinking before it gets worse, and she gets worse, I wont disagree if she offers divorce. whats shes been doing to me is too much. I just wanna save myself too.

Hello everyone. Im new here and I just wanna see if I can get any suggestions and any opinion about my status before, or If I even need, to get an atty. Im married for almost a year now

(got my GC good til oct2012) and everything was running smooth and ok until I discovered my wife talking and messing with others guys. Worse part is she started using pot, which she knows is my number one not-to-do rule. Money issue was tolerable and she would always use our debit card for shopping and buying stupid stuff. Like any other normal couples, we would have petty quarrel once in a while, but things got worse after the cheating and pot issue. i tried working things out with here a lot but I guess things wont get better anymore as she moved back to her parent’s house (who feed her all these crazy suggestions as they don’t like me) and has no interest in coming back anymore. She acts crazy all the time and has mentioned divorce or abandoning me many times.

My question is, she is the usc but if she gives up on me and would file a divorce by next year and doesn’t wanna file tax with me as a married couple..what is the possible scenario that can happen when I file roc? Isn’t tax documents required to self support or can continue this ROC process and just file tax without her? Or divorce her and just do the waiver myself. I have pictures of her pot accessories, pictures of alcohol, saved text messages and bank accounts of numerous overdraft fees because of her.

kindly please help me.