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He had one friend whose wife was a Canadian divorced a few months ago(just 3-year marriage). His friend lost one house after divorce. That's why he's worried that we might divorce also.

I asked him before why he applied K1 visa for me if he didn't want to sign this paper. He said he had never known there would be a contract between him and government which threated his finance once we divorced in future. He just hate that federal government's law but not me.

He once said another way to avoid him to sign it was when there was an amnesty issued by the president some day. But I didn't agree that idea.

I talked with my husband again tonight. He said he would sign it after we lived for 1 or 2 years because he wanted to make sure if we would divorce or not when we live together longer. He's an honest guy. So I should trust him. I think w he will sign hen he feels comfortable.I'm still free and I can fly back to China any time I like if I don't want to wait for him to sign. Now I have to be patient. I hope I won't be arrested by ICE.

Just checked the website of DMV here, no need to submit the green card when apply a new driver's license.

Thank you all and god bless you all.

Thanks for all of your reply.

Maybe I can open an account in the bank here because I've gotten my SSN.

I still can support this family in finance monthly without working because I have enough savings in China to do so. I'm so lucky for this point. I came here and married with him was not for his money, just because of love. In fact we've signed pre-marriage agreement which indicates his money is his and mine is mine if we divorce. I even agree to sign a post-marriage agreement to avoid losing his properties or money once he signed Form I-864. But after consulting with some lawyers, the risk still exists because the federal law is above all other law. So we can do nothing to avoid his worry. He said I would be so selfish if I asked him to sign that uncomfortably. He checked online(I don't know which website) and told me that my stay was legal because I marriage within 90 days after arrival. Even the police couldn't arrest me or deport me. He said I could still get my driver's license without green card and I still could get my green card after he signed it in 1 or 2 years. The penalty from immigration was to take a longer time to be approved. He asked me to decide to leave here or to go back. I decided to stay here and see what will happen in 1 or 2 years. But I feel upset if I don't have a legal identification.

I came here last August and got married last November(within 90 days). I've prepared those documents to submit the application of green card. But my husband doesn't want to sign the form I-864 because he feels uncomfortable to sign the contract with federal government(part 8 in Form I-864) now. He said once he signed, he might have a risk to lose money if we divorced in future. He's decided to sign it in 1 or 2 years. I'm afraid I'll become to stay here illegal if I don't change my status in 1 or 2 years. I've been to travel in many countries and never stayed illegal in any country. So I don't want to be an illegal resident here. What shall I do now?

Hi All,

Would you please share your knowledge or provide the answers to some of these questions regarding the interview.

1. Should I make a trip to Vietnam and come to the interview with my fiancee?

2. If I come to the interview, would they interview me also?

3. Do you get higher chance of approval if you come to the interview with your fiancee?

Thanks

If you met your finacee just once before,it might be helpful to go to see her again before interview.But there is not much help if you are there because you can't go into the interview hall with your fiancee. The visa officer will only interview her but not you. The higher chance of approval is to let your fiancee study your case well and prepare all answers for those questions the visa officer may ask.

Good luck!