I was going through a divorce. Looked on a dating website, thinking I was just finding someone who could lend an ear when I need to talk. Len's profile went through LOTS of details on the guy she wanted to find, and said, "sorry if I'm picky" or something like that. She was describing me! I answered, of course. It didn't take long for us to fall for each other. I was dealing with the depression caused by so many years of unhappiness, so I frequently had trouble being motivated. Len would give me just the right amount of praise and push to make me feel better and get me moving! Finally the divorce was done, so my next step was to go meet my Dream Girl! This lady was always pushing me out of my comfort zone, so it didn't take long for me to realize that with her by my side, I could do anything! Turns out I do the same for her! She also had just gotten out of a detrimental relationship. I went to meet her last month (September) and had the time of my life! Her family is wonderful! I must have met more than 40 relatives! I tell her that she'll have a similar experience, since I also come from a family where most of us have stayed in the same area.
I'll be updating this with more details as time goes on.