DCFAMS

I don't think anyone wishes ill of anyone on this site, but I do think that some of the 'colder' responses come down to the following:
For the petitioner or beneficiary this is a very harrowing, anxious, nerve wracking emotional process that is fraught with danger and setbacks are sometimes very hard or difficult to absorb and process. Most of us want nothing than to be reunited with our loved ones, spouses, family, or simply want to ensure that we succeed in acquiring the papers that we need to forward what we each feel is our destiny in life. That being said the people on the other side of the isle at the DOS and DHS are just doing a job, like it or not, for them this is a daily routine of analyzing forms and interviewing people and doing what their training has taught them is the proper course of action.
I think that some of the less emotional people on this website want to constantly remind us that you do really need to leave your emotions regarding immigration somewhere else, because they have no place here. This is a process, a highly bureaucratic (and sometimes very frustrating) process, with rules, regulations and quite significant penalties for failing to properly follow instructions. I honestly do not think that anyone wishes ill upon anyone else on this site (although sometimes you wonder what some people posting were thinking when they describe their situation) and want to constantly remind people that in this process there is a fairly clear cut way to succeed and that you need keep your wits about you, remain logical and rational you will succeed and that doing what your emotions tell you to do is not always the best way.

I don't think anyone wishes ill of anyone on this site, but I do think that some of the 'colder' responses come down to the following:
For the petitioner or beneficiary this is a very harrowing, anxious, nerve wracking emotional process that is fraught with danger and setbacks are sometimes very hard or difficult to absorb and process. Most of us want nothing than to be reunited with our loved ones, spouses, family, or simply want to ensure that we succeed in acquiring the papers that we need to forward what we each feel is our destiny in life. That being said the people on the other side of the isle at the DOS and DHS are just doing a job, like it or not, for them this is a daily routine of analyzing forms and interviewing people and doing what their training has taught them is the proper course of action.
I think that some of the less emotional people on this website want to constantly remind us that you do really need to leave your emotions regarding immigration somewhere else, because they have no place here. This is a process, a highly bureaucratic (and sometimes very frustrating) process, with rules, regulations and quite significant penalties for failing to properly follow instructions. I honestly do not think that anyone wishes ill upon anyone else on this site (although sometimes you wonder what some people posting were thinking when they describe their situation) and want to constantly remind people that in this process there is a fairly clear cut way to succeed and that you need keep your wits about you, remain logical and rational you will succeed and that doing what your emotions tell you to do is not always the best way.