Renee and G

This is one of the greatest topic I've ever read!You think you know other's experience but we have no idea jajajaja. But is funny how we all identify with our experience about having long distance relationships. Sometimes it sucks, but the distance has taught us how much we love each, and appreciate every single second we can share together, made us appreciate our relationship even more cause we basically had to fight for it. There's a saying in spanish that basically says the good things in life are the ones you have to work your #### for. JAJAJAJAJAJA we see other relationships, normal and regular ones and I feel like we are not like them, we are so closed to each other, we love each other so much and we never take anything for granted. I learnt that is not about how much time we spend together is about quality time, choose well our battles and fights.
Maybe sounds crazy but I think we all here are pretty lucky about finding our real soulmates, and fight for been together. I think we are all bless despite all the wait, anxiouness, all the sadness we feel everytime we miss our loveones.
A week ago OUR visa was approved by the embassy and the only thing I'm waiting for is my passport. My fiance left 2 days ago, with all my clothes and some of my belongings. And he's waiting for me at home. It's weird start packing your stuff, I quited my job yesterday and I work til friday. I still can't believe that we finally made it after 7 month of long waiting. I know that we're gonna fight and argue, sometimes good days, sometimes bad days...but we both know our way back home, and he's my home. Everytime you'll fight, remember all the things we all had to go through and think about all the people who were denied and they are still fighting.
I've seen tons of couples who basically live in the same place, but they're NOT together...being "together" is not about 2 persons in the same room, means 2 people that love each other, share, talks, support each other everyday. I don't need to be in the same room with my fiance to feel that we are together, cause we already are. Like a song in spanish says: "Uno no esta donde esta el cuerpo, sino donde mas lo extrañan" I 'll try to translate :"We are not where our body is, but where they (our loveones) miss us more".
I hope you all make it, and finally be with with your loveones. God bless you all
Andrea & Henry

awwwww that is so sweet, I absolutely LOVE that idea! more importantly, HE would LOVE it so much!!!
thanks for the ticket advice too. I am going to do some looking tonight. there would be no better feeling than to find a cheaper flight option! congratulations to the both of you on a successful interview!!!!!