sevilla1926

Tip for the future you shouldn't call ppl bad words if you need them to do something for you. Bc frankly that doesn't help the situation at all. And don't blame your husband for everything. I know of several ppl who sent the right documents the first time but NVC made them send it again saying that they were mistaken. I know one couple who went through this for almost 4 months until finally the US embassy in the fiance's home country contact NVC directly and told them it was the right document. I understand its hard trust me everyone here understands its really hard. Try your best to be patience and remember a marriage is supposed to be forever just a few months in the long run isn't so bad. Once you pass NVC it'll be much faster.
Good luck and I hope for your sake NVC approves your application quickly.

It's ok to vent, but please don't play the blame game. When you do you only hurt your marriage and you can never take back anything you say in anger to him. This process is hard on relationships. Make some friends that you trust to help you stay focused. My husband said last night, "I think having a drivers license for ID is the best way to go." I gave his stubborn behind the driving manual 3 months ago! I kept doing what I was doing and I didn't even acknowledge that he said it! Sometimes they have to realize things on their own and you can't spoon feed them everything.
Hang in there soon everything will come together.

Seriously, if this is a major struggle for you, you probably should rethink the whole marriage and immigration thing. It only gets harder from here.
Sorry you're having a rough time. We're all along for a similar ride.

If this hiccup along the road of life is causing you to want to end your marriage maybe you need to reconsider what you are doing.