Adarenda

What do you guys think?

I am so sick and tired of people friends, certain family members, even strangers talking about the high divorce rate among Nigerians who come to America whether male or female. I hear it from everyone its really starting to annoy me and I felt like using this outlet to let out my steam. Like I tell them if you both know you love each other and trust each other then what’s the problem. I agree it will not be easy when they get here, we all know that. There is the culture shock and everything else that comes with entering a new environment. But is it impossible? NO!! Can it work? Of Course!!

This stereotype that all Nigerians just come to America for papers is annoying. Ok ALOT of them do, but then again some don’t. That’s why you take time and get to know the person you are dealing with. I have known my fiancé since 2005; we met at my cousin’s traditional wedding. I used to go home to see him, visit with his family, and know him from inside and out and once I felt this way it was then that I decided to file for him to come here. How do you guys handle this when people tell you "Oh he or she will change when they get to the states?" OR “The marriage will not work out?” Or “No matter what you know about him, he will leave you once he gets his green card”. I know that everything at the end of the day is in Gods hands, but I wanted to see what other people thought.

I have called USCIS several times and have been highly irritated because they are seriously no help! Have you noticed when u ask a question they never can just give u an answer. They always say something like "ok give me a minute". They are scripted. They answer your questions from a script. I use to work for an insurance company that answered questions from a script.

I doubt it, financial support is shown through check stubs and yearly tax forms. The real affidavit of support is when you do your AOS. Just show the interviewer at your k-1 interview that you have income and pay taxes. Make sure you are above the poverty line, but taking a new position wont hurt you.

Also you can have other supporters if you dont meet the poverty guidelines