simpleLady

I agree, some people here in this furom didn't understand what they are talking about. just making a comment with out thinking.. lol

I would advise just cooling down and waiting.
1. She may come back...some ladies just need to have some time to reflect on the relationship.
2. You haven't got your interview appointment yet so you have no idea how long you have to wait it out...you're jumping the gun a bit.
If she does come back to you I would advise being a little more easy to get a long with. . You obviously need her to stick with you if you would like to remain in this country. Relationships work and it's not over till the fat lady sings.
The people saying its over just because she has taken off for a few days may not understand the dynamic of your relationship or her specific personality...even in the worst of circumstances relationships are still reconciled with time and effort.
The reason the divorce rate is so high is because not enough people understand that marriage is not all roses and is nothing like dating or the honeymoon. Marriage is about making a decision that this is going to be your companion forever...if you have an argument you work it out. You don't quit your marriage...what do you think till death do us part is all about?
Hope that she comes back and try to work things out.

And here is how the story will end. You will be married. Things will be so bad, that you both think a baby will fix it. After the child is about 1.5 years old, she will be demeaning you in front of your child, calling you a loser. You will take expensive vacation to try and work things out, and leave the child with grandparents. During the vacation things are so bad, she is throwing things at you in the hotel room. Finally she calls security on you because you raise your voice and stick up for your self for the first time. Originally the security wants to remove you from the room, but after talking to both parties, they remove her. You can't sleep. You are up all night. in the morning you take first flight home and plea with the police for help. It is sunday, so the officer calls a judge and he issues you a 24 hour restraining order. The police pick her up on the way home and take her to hotel. The next day you meet in court. The judge orders a 1 year restraining order against her, and grants you custody of the child... The judge also awards her a retaliatory restraining order against you. After 2 months you are finally served to appear in probate court to answer her complaint... move out of the house, grant her custody, pay the mortgage, pay her child support, and pay her alimony, as well as her legal fees. Now it's time for a visit to the doctor for some Anxiety medication. The Department of Social Services is already all over your case based on the mandatory reporting of the police officer. She is granted a neglect charge from DSS based on interviews with the child's daycare. The probate awards her supervised visits. At the supervision center, she curses out the staff in front of the child... This is actually good because they call the police and permanently evict her from using the center. Finally a bit of relief the you may win custody of the child to protect him... Later you both meet with the court appointed GAL (guardian ad litem). She is so out of control in his office, he must notify her lawyer to appear with her next time to either witness her behavior or try to control her. After paying $325 a weel in alimony and receiving no child support you finally divorce, granting her 2 hours unsupervised visits just to make the deal go through. She uses these visits to continue to demean you and curse at you in front of the child.......................... best of luck to you!!