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FINAL: Wow, was i wrong! "Olga: .... I quickly disappointed in the men and they grew did not interest me." (and now me.) After she left, she DID ask I send the laptop (wedding gift)! Then i told her of a 2nd gift. 5.2 acres near D.C. I even sent her the $1,160,000 contract. Olya then wrote:"Ольга: You should try to stop me is still there. Your grand plans you had to tell me before coming to America !" (so, love can't overcome ...
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complained to the manager about my profile! - then, wrote yet another nasty email, condemning ME for looking for a new wife!, instead of hopelessly loving her ?!? ...simply insane. ...i am lucky she left me! - i DO forgive her. i hope she grows up, and has a happy life, and finds a good Father for Matvey. (he needs one!)
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FINAL: Wow, was i wrong! "Olga: .... I quickly disappointed in the men and they grew did not interest me." (and now me.) After she left, she DID ask I send the laptop (wedding gift)! Then i told her of a 2nd gift. 5.2 acres near D.C. I even sent her the $1,160,000 contract. Olya then wrote:"Ольга: You should try to stop me is still there. Your grand plans you had to tell me before coming to America !" (so, love can't overcome ...
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before I sleep ... and telling a story as for little girls!" (i wanted a wife. not an immature daughter!)-
so, i went back to my old dating site. Olya then sent me a rose e-card, with a nasty message saying i'd never find a wife! http://www.123greetings.com/send/view/11316711704743634756/
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then, she followed me to MY dating site, and made a fake profile there !!!
http://www.russian-bride-dating.com/gal/details/501205057
and then SHE co...
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FINAL: Wow, was i wrong! "Olga: .... I quickly disappointed in the men and they grew did not interest me." (and now me.) After she left, she DID ask I send the laptop (wedding gift)! Then i told her of a 2nd gift. 5.2 acres near D.C. I even sent her the $1,160,000 contract. Olya then wrote:"Ольга: You should try to stop me is still there. Your grand plans you had to tell me before coming to America !" (so, love can't overcome ...
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immature homesickness, but $1.16M can?)
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but now, like an immature child, she refuses to talk. (even blocking my child's Skype.)
yet she continues to immaturely send emails calling me "liar", without any specifics.
(i should have gotten a clue, when before she came, she wrote this:
"[10/5/2011] Балабанова Ольга: yes ... I want you to call me every day be...
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PLEASE?, ANYONE who reads this, please don't underestimate the homesickness, etc! i was stupid !!! ...during that week, she changed her mind many times: · Oct 28 Olga: yes ... I admit my mistakes and I am really very Olga: Now, I think clearly ... I agree to try again to start all over again. Do you want to start all over again and keep me here? I can go with you Ocean City? I want this! Olga: I agree to be patient and try again ... because I love you!
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[27.02.2011 2:01:02] Olga: The last time I had a relationship with a man 8 months .... sometimes it lasted for 3 or 6 months. With his father Matt, I was 5 months. You ask me why it is so long .... I quickly disappointed in the men and they grew did not interest me
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"forever"? ...I didn’t even break the record. I only tied it, at 8 months…
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PLEASE?, ANYONE who reads this, please don't underestimate the homesickness, etc! i was stupid !!! ...during that week, she changed her mind many times: · Oct 28 Olga: yes ... I admit my mistakes and I am really very Olga: Now, I think clearly ... I agree to try again to start all over again. Do you want to start all over again and keep me here? I can go with you Ocean City? I want this! Olga: I agree to be patient and try again ... because I love you!
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: ... and I hope and believe that you understand that you have an angelic patience. ...... my love for you is stronger than all obstacles and problems! I promised you and God. You are special. I want you to believe! (H)
I love you very much! I hope you understand it. And as proof that I belong to you alone I constantly wear your ring .... let many people do not know what it means to me ... but you know what that means - I belong to you alone and it is foreve...
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PLEASE?, ANYONE who reads this, please don't underestimate the homesickness, etc! i was stupid !!! ...during that week, she changed her mind many times: · Oct 28 Olga: yes ... I admit my mistakes and I am really very Olga: Now, I think clearly ... I agree to try again to start all over again. Do you want to start all over again and keep me here? I can go with you Ocean City? I want this! Olga: I agree to be patient and try again ... because I love you!
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PLEASE?, ANYONE who reads this, please don't underestimate the homesickness, etc! i was stupid !!! ...during that week, she changed her mind many times: · Oct 28 Olga: yes ... I admit my mistakes and I am really very Olga: Now, I think clearly ... I agree to try again to start all over again. Do you want to start all over again and keep me here? I can go with you Ocean City? I want this! Olga: I agree to be patient and try again ... because I love you!
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PLEASE?, ANYONE who reads this, please don't underestimate the homesickness, etc! i was stupid !!! ...during that week, she changed her mind many times: · Oct 28 Olga: yes ... I admit my mistakes and I am really very Olga: Now, I think clearly ... I agree to try again to start all over again. Do you want to start all over again and keep me here? I can go with you Ocean City? I want this! Olga: I agree to be patient and try again ... because I love you!
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Olya told me, from Russia, "Ольга: You should try to stop me is still there .... "
...but, we don't "force" women in America!
it was HER decision to leave, if she wished. ...but i never stopped loving her. and each time, she changed her mind, i forgave ALL, and was happy.
(but then, her Parents and friend, pressured her into changing her mind again.)
again, i only pray now, Matvey will get a n...
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PLEASE?, ANYONE who reads this, please don't underestimate the homesickness, etc! i was stupid !!! ...during that week, she changed her mind many times: · Oct 28 Olga: yes ... I admit my mistakes and I am really very Olga: Now, I think clearly ... I agree to try again to start all over again. Do you want to start all over again and keep me here? I can go with you Ocean City? I want this! Olga: I agree to be patient and try again ... because I love you!
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And when I said I still loved Olya, she wanted to marry me in Russia
[11/2/2011 Olga: I do not break the plans! I have an idea! You want to know it?
[11/2/2011 Olga: I LOVE YOU!
[11/2/2011 Olga:. we can register our marriage in Russia
Now, there is NOTHING i can do. i know there was confusion and misunderstandings.
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PLEASE?, ANYONE who reads this, please don't underestimate the homesickness, etc! i was stupid !!! ...during that week, she changed her mind many times: · Oct 28 Olga: yes ... I admit my mistakes and I am really very Olga: Now, I think clearly ... I agree to try again to start all over again. Do you want to start all over again and keep me here? I can go with you Ocean City? I want this! Olga: I agree to be patient and try again ... because I love you!
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[11/2/2011 Olga: ".... I know (now) that all this could have been avoided .... and you envisioned it. I am very sorry. but most of you do not take me back ... right?
(/// ? take her back? I never wanted her to go! It was honest homesickness and misunderstanding! But, her VJ "friend" (who Olya HELPED when they had "homesick" problem), made things worse!).
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PLEASE?, ANYONE who reads this, please don't underestimate the homesickness, etc! i was stupid !!! ...during that week, she changed her mind many times: · Oct 28 Olga: yes ... I admit my mistakes and I am really very Olga: Now, I think clearly ... I agree to try again to start all over again. Do you want to start all over again and keep me here? I can go with you Ocean City? I want this! Olga: I agree to be patient and try again ... because I love you!
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PLEASE?, ANYONE who reads this, please don't underestimate the homesickness, etc! i was stupid !!! ...during that week, she changed her mind many times: · Oct 28 Olga: yes ... I admit my mistakes and I am really very Olga: Now, I think clearly ... I agree to try again to start all over again. Do you want to start all over again and keep me here? I can go with you Ocean City? I want this! Olga: I agree to be patient and try again ... because I love you!
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Olga: "I will not forgive you the lies that you wrote about me on the site ... at our profile.“
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(i have many faults. but i'm not a liar. she refused to give one example.
and the only thing i wrote below that is a lie, was that it was all my fault.
...because i did ALL i could, to give a wonderful life to Olya and Matvey.
God knows, that IS the truth.
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PLEASE?, ANYONE who reads this, please don't underestimate the homesickness, etc! i was stupid !!! ...during that week, she changed her mind many times: · Oct 28 Olga: yes ... I admit my mistakes and I am really very Olga: Now, I think clearly ... I agree to try again to start all over again. Do you want to start all over again and keep me here? I can go with you Ocean City? I want this! Olga: I agree to be patient and try again ... because I love you!
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(i DID take her to vacation in Ocean City, even after she said she was leaving me! see our happy photo!, and drawings by MY son Matvey!)
but she got pressure from Parents, bad advice from friends, and refused to talk to me.
Now, below, before today's update, i had written it was ALL my fault (and her parents). that i did NOT blame Olya.
yet on 14 Nov she shocked me, when she wrote:
November Olga: "I will not forgive you the lies t...
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Her Godmother, Dr. Mila (who introduced us originally), just confirmed all the Parents did. Dr. Mila was never contacted, or she would have fixed it quickly. Olya still says she loves me and wants to return, and also asked me to go there, and marry her. ...Sadly, i can't. i hocked, mortgaged, and spent all i had, to bring her here...
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while you want it ..."
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She laughed about homesickness in USA. she said it woudn't be a problem for her.
Olga: ----- I do not want to be alone! I want to be with you! I will not leave you in 2 years and 20 years later! (Hug)
We were wrong. she cried for the 1st 2 days. I gave gifts, i cooked and cleaned, i slept alone.
i did all i could. but i am sorry, obviously, i didn't give her, what she needed. i'm sorry.
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Her Godmother, Dr. Mila (who introduced us originally), just confirmed all the Parents did. Dr. Mila was never contacted, or she would have fixed it quickly. Olya still says she loves me and wants to return, and also asked me to go there, and marry her. ...Sadly, i can't. i hocked, mortgaged, and spent all i had, to bring her here...
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and, i am NOT blaming Olya.
i accept ALL the blame!
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i had all i desired in life - my wife Olya, and our 2 sons. Olya wrote:
"Monday, October 3, 2011 9:15 AM
Today I thought about you all day! I miss you .....
I never cease to thank God for that I met you! You are very tender, affectionate and caring. No one for me so did not care .... like you! I am very grateful to you for your love and care!! I'll be with you while y...
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in fairness, i don't blame Olya. Her Parents talked to her for hours each day on Skype, encouraged her to return to Russia, and sent her the $400 to change the return ticket date immediately. Olya has ALWAYS lived with them, never independently. The "umbilical cord" was never cut. So she was simply too immature and not ready for this. (I had realized part of her immaturity, but i thought she would trust me, to take care of her forever. ) I still truly love her, and p...
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in fairness, i don't blame Olya. Her Parents talked to her for hours each day on Skype, encouraged her to return to Russia, and sent her the $400 to change the return ticket date immediately. Olya has ALWAYS lived with them, never independently. The "umbilical cord" was never cut. So she was simply too immature and not ready for this. (I had realized part of her immaturity, but i thought she would trust me, to take care of her forever. ) I still truly love her, and p...
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thank you! Today she wrote, that she still loves me, and wants to come back. (but she's not my wife. she left on our wedding day.) i should have asked her to spend time with me, instead of Skype. Many couples have problems with homesickness the first week. But her Parents...
...life goes on. but sadly this was financially my last chance. (plus now i'm a 2 time Visa loser - the 1st kept the ticket money, and never came.) ...But Best Wis...
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"God-Willing, OUR sons will be in costume together for Halloween this October... "/// Our sons were ! they had a wonderful time. but, 2 days after Olya arrived, she said her son wasn't happy here, and she was returning to Russia. She left today. leaving me and my son with thousands in high interest loans. (she had promised to God, she'd never leave us, for any reason. that promise lasted 2 days.) ...so, i wish all of you the best. we all wanted our wait...
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Bill: Olya is a devoted mother, and a pharmacist (works 50+ / wk). And, she's shy, and doesn't speak english yet. But she'd welcome any friends, especially speaking Russian.
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