Sookiely

Absolute waste of time to worry about touches--the data is not up to date and the more you look at it, the more it will drive you crazy. Forget you ever heard the word and you will be much happier--REALLY !!!

Congrats.

I think that perhaps people come here to share their hurt about the wait because they have an expectation that others here will understand their frustrations where our friends and families don't (for the most part) understand the difficulties we're all going through.
I'm surprised at the amount of time someone here says "What is going on... why is it taking so long... I'm frustrated" and they're met with sharp tongues and rudeness or a bit of belittling because they haven't waited the amount of time others have deemed acceptable to complain. I complain all the time to my fiance about not being together yet. I knew the wait time going into this but I still get little frustrations out because he understands and feels the same way. So do we all here. I like reading the posts about people being frustrated because it reminds me that I'm not alone in how I'm feeling.
I agree with the above comments, it's not one of us over another - long waits or not - it should be more about supporting each other, not "My wound is bigger/more important than your wound." We're all hurting here while we're in the wait.

Waiting to be with the one you love when you should be together is painful. Waiting is hard. But my point is that it doesn't matter how long you wait, whether it's one day, one month or one year, we all have to wait, so we're all in this together. YOU were the one that in your first post said that you were more deserving because you've been waiting longer, when the OP hadn't said anything about her own wait. You misunderstand, and yes, you do appear to be spiteful of others that haven't had to wait as long as you have.
Is it fair that you've had a long wait? No, not at all. No one in here was saying that at all. No one was saying that they needed to be approved before you. No one was saying anything other than the fact that VSC seemed to be slowing down. You're the one that brought up the whole timeline thing.
And to repeat what the OP said again, when it's raining, we all get wet. I'm sorry you've had more rain than others, but you're not the only one here.