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  1. Hey Girl all is well were set till ROC trying to see if we can go vacay in PAP How are you??

  2. Back on the grind it's AOS filing time feeling like a k1'er again : )

  3. It wouldnt be testimony worthy if you didnt have a story to tell about all the trials and tribulations all the yield signs the U turns along with the speed bumps and the every changing face of the obstacles that you will face and lets not forget about the rainy days.

    1. LAGOSLOVE

      LAGOSLOVE

      You know I totaly agree. There is no growth in standing still. People seem to think that "perfection" is expected. But I'm here to balance the scales. We are all human subject to fall to the human conditions of life. All the twists and turns can turn into beautiful hills and valley's. Love it work! And that work is a worthy tesimony with a sweet pleasant ending in 50+ years. :)

    2. Olomi_811

      Olomi_811

      I don't know why I'm just seeing this today, but I guess at this appointed time I needed this! Thank you!

    3. Olomi_811

      Olomi_811

      I don't know why I'm just seeing this today, but I guess at this appointed time I needed this! Thank you!

  4. lol! he is not getting on my nerves life is tho! you funny!

  5. A lot people seem to think the title wife is just about inheriting a new last name. Well think again to be a wife is to be a jack of many trades. It's not only about the title or the "bling" its about the selflessness , submissiveness, kindness, tenderness, loving through the tears, a fighter and not quitter, his helper, his inner and outter strength when he feels he no longer possesses it. The uplifter when things are going the encourager when he feels like he just cant ..a prayi...

    1. wissnan4ever

      wissnan4ever

      a praying and virtuous woman when the devil want to destroy your family and your home. Being ready to hold it down when its going down etc etc... My question is are you ready?

    2. LAGOSLOVE

      LAGOSLOVE

      you better say all of this BECAUSE IT SO TRUE.

  6. Your quite welcome I feel like I can write a book. I should journal because this is truly life changing experience. I thought I was grown before HA! I'm just starting to grow up.

  7. Homesickness well does it really go away. It decides when and where it wants to strike your SO . Are you going to feel helpless absouletly although you can't transform yourself into the person(s) their missing you can hold their hand and look in their eyes and let them know you will be there no matter what some things don't need to be said just a rub on the back or hug maybe just a peck on their forehead.

    1. wissnan4ever

      wissnan4ever

      Homesickness has no expiration date no time limit.Selflessness is defintely the key.

    2. LAGOSLOVE

      LAGOSLOVE

      No cure for homesickness. No phone calls, skype, messenger,letters or even going home for a while will take it away. Imagine, leaving our country and not financially able to travel back when we feel like it or due to life conditions you have to stay. I try to get others to see that this process is tender, it can be so very painful eventhough we are grateful for the decision to come here to us. We must handle it gently with understanding. The only way it can become overwhelming is if the perso...

    3. LAGOSLOVE

      LAGOSLOVE

      can become overwhelming is if the person then chooses to leave and not come back. I pray this not happen to any of us. Listening with loving and understanding ears. My husband misses Nigeria but it's not in our card to go back until next year. Until then I'll try my best. Thanks for this post.

  8. your quite welcome anytime.

  9. yoooooooo Eb! love the profile pic.

  10. intentionally left on my car seat with each line screamed an out pour of emotions. It clicked for him and for me We love each other and this yet another wave we have to ride together so to all of you at there feeling like you want to give up communicate with one another and it can make a world of a difference *jumps off soap box*

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    2. Bobbie12

      Bobbie12

      I love your suggestions on communication. It's really the key to success. Being sincere, showing respect and understanding each other.

    3. LAGOSLOVE

      LAGOSLOVE

      I can't preach communication, listening and reasoning enough. I can't talk about learning thru cultural differences and embracing them. I will say argue thru it because emotions are valid and once you let your lover know what moves you they will make sure its in a positive direction. Hugs!!!

    4. Mochamich

      Mochamich

      Yes the vj is ongoing in many ways. Days like this can test the relationship. Glad you guys were able to survive the bump and makes me feel truly at home here knowing we are going through it together. I'm praying for us all.

  11. Communication COMMUNICATION ComMunIcATiOn is the key and a serious open hearted honest talk yesterday. We all love the praises but cant take it when someone is telling us about ourselves especially the people we love but its needed how else will one union progress. Walked to my car this morning not knowning whether what I said made an impact and when I got to my card there was a 4 page letter

  12. Ready to file this AOS -___-

  13. MANNNNNNN... WOOSSAHHH I asked myself why in the heck they have these people on the CS list and when I call they don't know what the hell Iam talking about OMG!

  14. I can always count on you for some positivity. You know I will post a picture for you all :) Thank you sis!

  15. No problem Im here for ya if you have any questions I will be more than happy to help.

  16. Time to get married... Have to set a date and find something to wear.... Time waits on no one

    1. Rujby

      Rujby

      hum oh happy day

    2. LAGOSLOVE

      LAGOSLOVE

      YOU ARE GOING TO BE SIMPLY BEAUTIFUL. PLEASE POST WEDDING PICTURES SO WE CAN SEND YOU LOVE!

    3. Bobbie12

      Bobbie12

      This is so true. Your 3 months will pass by pretty fast.

  17. Hey... well I always say no news is good news. Just hang in there because after the NOA2 things go by really fast buckle up and get ready for the ride :)

  18. Hello dear How you doing? Everything is good on my end. Where are you in the process now?

  19. It sure is cant wait till I have a break from all this immigration stuff. I feel like a walking immigration book lololol these days enjoy your sweety and safe travels!

  20. That Iam.. How are you and the hubby?

  21. Nothing shaking just chilling and enjoying having a man in the house. What about you I see you about to make that trip to see your love good to see yall are going strong

  22. Hey just stopping by How are things going?

  23. Just stopping by to say hello!

  24. lololol... Twins!!!! ****faints***

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