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One of my friends was sent 'voluntary deportation' letter.He want to sign it. But want to know if he can enter America again in the future?

thank you every one, appreciated.

@ john & mari, i went to the court with her,and i testify in her favor. i told the judge we are still in love and what happened was due to the love we had for each other. i told him, i wanted to go out and she preventing me from going out [we both mastered the story]. also, i begged the state prosecutor not to show any evidence against her [crime lab guys came to the hospital to take some photo of me]. though the judge was convinced enough that was why he gave her probation before the judgement and the fines of $350.

unfortunately, my wife NEVER believe she got that because of what i said at the court. she said the judge just have pity on her and that be her first offence. i was really mad, but nothing i can do.

now she is begging me to go to the court for her deportation....

Thank you guys once more....i find so much relieve in all your comments.

@Denio, you are right my brother, not ordinary..not until i ran away from her. thanks.

@ Harsh_77,I have already written to USCIS to stop the processing the day after the interview.After she came from interview she was "bragging" the interview was smoothly and she going to get her GC in the mail soon. The interviewer was so nice to her and i am the one in trouble now with USCIS. From one of my friends that visited my house that day told me she threw up party and started cursing me so seriously and sayin"shame on him", "God have giving her the GC" and she is not going to give me "divorce" as a punishment for not going with her to the interview. She went on my Facebook and wrote all sort of lies about me and told people i am bad person. Since then, i have deleted her from my Facebook and yahoo messenger. we only communicated through email and phone[block number from me]. Few days later, i received letter from USCIS putting stop to the processing.

Her 30 days voluntary deportation will expire on June 23rd. and her court day was slated for June 30th.

Waooooo! i am so impressed with the type of responses i got. I just want to thank everyone who have taking their time to helped me out of my problem.Thank you one more time and appreciated. One good thing about the responses i got was that everybody say the same thing and almost what all other people having been telling me[friends, relatives, co-workers]. i am more convinced now that i should let her be for good, and follow up with my divorce process instead.

I spoke with her yesterday after i finished posting [usually with a block number, because i have changed my number to the state i am right now, and i dont want her to have my present number]. There was nothing much to say.

About the person that say, i am not in love but in lust i think you might be right. But when you are in "true" love you will find it hard to let it go easily.The The reason why i was toleranting all of her assults on me was because i assumed she will change and realize her mistakes, but it only get worst.

Thank you all....

thank you.

the letter sent to her is for her to appear in court for the deportation. we have gone to court for the assult, that was where she given probation before the judgement.

you are right...she has taking me for a ride for too long. and she never care anything about me or our relationship. i knew all these long time ago, when she started beating me. she will be telling me not to mention the guy's name again because she loved him more than me.

the reason i want to see if i can still save her from being deported is because of the love i heard for her in the past. i am filing divorce soon. but i just want to her to remain in this country, if possible.

we started living together for two months before we decided to get married

Hardly enough time to really get to know someone before marrying them.

she has been sent a court letter to appear.

Are you referring to a court letter to appear for the 2nd degree assault charges?

From your letter and the way I am reading it, Why are you wanting to save her from deportation? She said and I quote, "she is going to set me up". There are many stories of women claiming abuse to get their green card and you will go to jail for Criminal Domestic Violence. (also there are many men who abuse women) Which happens to be a big deal lately in the States with all the advocate programs out there.

she was told to leave USA within 30 days When was this?

Anyhow, sounds like you are being taken for a ride. Wake up and smell the coffee. She beat you and was guilty but given probation, She continues to talk to this guy even though you say less, which means she is probably hiding it better. You have fled the relationship. Sounds like you are headed to a divorce. What is it exactly that you are trying to save?

I am a USC,i met a lady who is on F-1 visa and we fell in love. we started living together for two months before we decided to get married. But the moment we got married, she started misbehaving. she started calling one guy in UK and telling him how much she loved him and she cant wait as soon as she got her GC to come and be with him. i was so furious and mad when i discovered the secret affairs between them.Instead for this lady to apologize and stop the secret affairs, she started cursing me and telling people i dont want her to talk to her old friend. i was so depressed and could not do any thing. Because of my insistency, she started beating me up. she beat me several times that at one point i have to call police on her, after i dislocate my shoulder and my face was full of blood. she was arrested and charged for second degree assults.

soon, the letter for the interview came, i saw it and i hid it from her. after the interview date has passed, USCIS wrote us [both us separately]. she was told to leave USA within 30 days. i was told reasons why her i-485, was denied and options left for both of us. because of the love i had for her i went to court with her and she got probation before the judgement for one year. there after we got another lawyer and reopen the case.

after this letter, she was alittle bit sober and reduce the number of time she talk to the UK guy.But she never felt remosed for her actions. she kept cursing and threatened me to retaliate. i later over heard her telling one of her friend " she is going to set me up". that day i moved away from to another state. on the day of second interview i didnt show up. later i received later form USCIS that all our application had been stop and no further action.after that she told my friend, she has been sent a court letter to appear.

my question now is;

1.what is going to happen to her at that court?

2.is there any thing i can do to save her from deportation as my wife?

3.can she still get the GC,can i file an appeal letter to USCIS?

thank you.