Deb R

Thank you so much INhistime. Stay blessed

I am so sorry to hear this Hannah. I too had a similar incident. I married my husband back in Dec 2008 in Ghana. I could not go back to visit him because of finances. He was finally approved for his visa like May 2012. Arrived in the USA on Sept. 3, 2012 only to find out a few months while he was here he has a girlfriend back home for how long I have no clue and also a few emails that i saw that were exchanged between him and his uncle stating me as THAT WOMAN OR THAT LADY HELPING HIM..... and he never had intentions of staying here with me very long I have proof in the emails...He could not find work here so he moved away to where his cousin lives and said she has a job already for him....but to make a long story short.....I showed him all that I found out about him but of course denies it all and it means nothing.....he moved away Jan 15, 2013 to Maryland. I will be filing for divorce very soon.

Just keep your head up Hannah and all will work out for the best....I sure know how you are feeling. Praying for you!!!!

I totally understand why people think a 26 year old male can not be in love with a 55 year old female, but every case is different. Does the USCIS consider all these cases as high fraud? Has anyone on VJ been approved with this big of age difference with the female being older?

Thank you for your reply.

Well my dear I sure know I am in the same situation my husband is 27 and I am 49. I have no idea what our outcome will be. But to me age is only a number and they should not see it as nothing more. Love come in all sizes, shapes, ages and so on. I wish you the best of luck and I pray we all have our loved ones with us very soon. Take care...