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sam357

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    sam357 got a reaction from MedRoni in Marriage failing.. what do I do?!   
    Ask yourself this: Do you love her enough to loose everything you have worked for? I just retired a few years ago and have seen this story played out again and again. You want to make it work but if you read what you have written in your OP you will see that she really doesn't. It is starting to affect your career and when she is gone that is all you will have left. If you keep letting her she will ruin your career and get you in trouble. If she is really gone, she did you a favor. Divorce her, pull your support paperwork with USCIS and move on.
    People on this forum will try to tell you "try your best for love". Love won't do you any good when you are sitting in the brig or when the Navy wants to get rid of you because you can't deploy. You tried your best to do the right thing and it didn't work. Have no regrets but watch your "six" and "protect yourself at all times".
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    sam357 got a reaction from TBoneTX in Marriage failing.. what do I do?!   
    Ask yourself this: Do you love her enough to loose everything you have worked for? I just retired a few years ago and have seen this story played out again and again. You want to make it work but if you read what you have written in your OP you will see that she really doesn't. It is starting to affect your career and when she is gone that is all you will have left. If you keep letting her she will ruin your career and get you in trouble. If she is really gone, she did you a favor. Divorce her, pull your support paperwork with USCIS and move on.
    People on this forum will try to tell you "try your best for love". Love won't do you any good when you are sitting in the brig or when the Navy wants to get rid of you because you can't deploy. You tried your best to do the right thing and it didn't work. Have no regrets but watch your "six" and "protect yourself at all times".
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    sam357 got a reaction from fil01 in am I cheap?   
    You are being used in the worst way and being robbed. I am fortunate that I live close to the PI and I go every month and have an apartment with my fiancee. You are spending more money in a week than I spend all year to have an apartment, electricity, cable and Internet access along with food for my girl. I grew up in the PI, but I am not Filipino, and have been going back for years. I see this happen to many men who don't listen to good advice. Once you get her to the States you will be in for serious heartbreak, she will dump you as soon as she gets the chance to get somebody that she thinks can provide a little more. You should just cut your loses and move on...
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