staceluvyou
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staceluvyou got a reaction from velrich in DHL
yes you can tell them you want to pick it up. If you are in Kingston you will pick it up at the DHL office in Kingston. They also have an outlet in Montego Bay. You pay at the embassy after your visa is approved. They have a DHL office inside there, and there is where u can tell them you rather to pick it up from their office. I think the cost is about $1,200ja.
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staceluvyou got a reaction from LIFE'SJOURNEY in HAVE YOU EVER SMOKED CANNIBUS...THAT IS THE QUESTION...COULD THIS MEAN THE END
he is going to get a one year ban, whether his test is neg. or pos. I know bcuz i am going thru the same situation
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staceluvyou reacted to sus in HAVE YOU EVER SMOKED CANNIBUS...THAT IS THE QUESTION...COULD THIS MEAN THE END
Admitting to having smoked, even with a clean test, can possibly trigger a ban - it is a one year ban, so he would have to wait one year, retake the medical, and reinterview for his visa - Definitely be honest and prepare yourself for all possibilities.
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staceluvyou reacted to nessmj77 in I-134 or I-864 for K1 visa interview?
My fiance is from Jamaica too and his checklist asks for the I-134 form. I think you'll be fine with that form and the supporting documents.
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staceluvyou reacted to Therealworld in People make up your mind before bringing someone here!!
Why is it that everytime I turn around I see someone bringing a person over to the states on a K1 visa and then decide not to get married. Although I am a US Citizen I hate the fact that this is happening. People you need to make up your mind before making this commitment and spending all this money. Must be nice to have money to play with. Even more playing with peoples emotions and dreams. I am well aware that everyone does not come over in all honesty, but those that do and left to believe they are loved by the person who petitions for them to only be left in a bad situation. I feel sorry for those that come here have no family or friends only to be told I DONT WANT TO GET MARRIED ANYMORE so I guess you will have to go back. Why could you not figure that out before going that far!! Some people come from really bad living situations and really dont want to go back. There was enough love to start the situation! Geesh I just dont know what to say. Just to clarify I am married to a wonderful man from another country. We have been married for more than a year. I am glad I did not file for him till 7 months later because it made me even more sure to want to be with him and to be with him more in his environment.
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staceluvyou reacted to UK_Fan in Husband doesn't want to file papers
get off her case, gary, if you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all, dang, you're so evil, don't you have anything better to do then monitor who writes what and play "inspector gadget" on here. geez
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staceluvyou reacted to Harpa Timsah in Husband doesn't want to file papers
Many abusive people don't want to file for a GC because they fear that by keeping the spouse "un-free" will force them to rely on the USC so the immigrant can't leave. Many men also fear "independent" women (there are a million on this board) so in an extreme version, keeping them chained keeps them dependent on the USC. That way they get a wife at home that depends on them totally no matter what they do.
I find it despicable to attack the OP's use of English as a reason to attack her or her story. The question of her English shouldn't be answered by someone who "lives with a Russian" but by people who actually speak at least two languages. Someone who speaks only one language is not capable, in my view, of understanding what it is like to learn a second language and what is possible. When someone gets attacked they would naturally get flustered and probably reply faster and make more mistakes. For a second language, speaking is not easier than writing for all people.
The OP is very possibly a hurting abused person who needs help, and is making all kinds of excuses because that is what an abused person does. USCIS can make an appropriate determination regarding her story (if she goes that route). It's not up to us.
OP - you got some good info on your options at the start of the thread.
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staceluvyou reacted to AstaMarisa in Husband doesn't want to file papers
Because I don't like anybody else anyway and why wouldn't I be with him if I have my papers done? If I have it done he will be more respectful to me, he will be afraid to lose me, he will love me more, if I'm independent. What is wrong if I wanna stay with my husband? I came here for him, I came to marry him, and not divorce him. I know he was always afraid that I might run away, that's why he didn't give me much money, just a little and checked me spending them right away so I couldn't save any. And if you are russian go keanu.ru. I been seating on that site since 2008, I have same name there and you can see how my English grew month by month.
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staceluvyou reacted to AF-Wife in Husband doesn't want to file papers
and I am wondering. aren't we suppose to help people & not judge them? I feel like, that's what you are all doing right now ...
OP, you have 3 options:
1) talk with your husband about everything and maybe he's willing to change so you can make it work
2) go to his squadron commander. they will help you for sure!!! this will have serious consequences for him.
3) leave him, go back to Russia & start a new life
good luck on whatever you decide!
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staceluvyou reacted to Inky in Wife's Name Change
Ours did not ask that and it does not list my married name anywhere on the certificate. You simply use the certificate to show you want to change your name to married name.
Going to legal courts and dealing with legal name changes is for when you are changing your first or middle name permanently and changing your birth records or when you are changing your name after a divorce. You do not have to go to court to change your last name to married name.
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staceluvyou reacted to kstrozyk in I-485 RFE (INITIAL) RECEIVED , I-864 RELATED - PLS ADVISE !
It was confusing for me at the beginning as well, but the form specifically states not to count same person twice. I followed the sample on this forum. It was kind of strange to put "0" after "if you are married" question, but my wife was already counted as a beneficiary.
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staceluvyou reacted to Redflame2012 in I-94
This is a bit off topic...I didn't even know about I-94 until I found this site.
Thank goodness! For as soon as I got onto the plane heading for the US
on my K1 visa, I asked for one.
THANK YOU, VisaJourney users! I learnt so much from you all during my journey.
Red
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staceluvyou reacted to kevin@anna in id like to see k1 process made harder
we have allready done the k1 etc etc.we are now removing conditions.i for one would like to see this whole process more stringent than it already is.we have our circle of friends whom are all k1 holders and ive closely watched all of them and there marriages.first,i would like to see more up front than just meeting 1 time within 2 years.second,this 90 day to marry must be extended to at least double (180 days)third,i believe that the income levels of pationers should be much higher than 125% of poverty level.we all have to admit the process is already long.uscis can only do so much when it comes to paperwork and background checks.but in all reality it is up to the petioner and the k1 visa holder to make a marriage that will last a lifetime.im gonna stick my neck out here and say i personally believe that only 40% of these marriages last any length of time.dont get me wrong i am happily married to a wonderful women and weve been together now a full 2 years.but looking back it sure was very tough.any comments welcome?
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staceluvyou reacted to Used to be broken in K-1 VISA denied.. Next steps??
That is not "normal questions", they is preverse and inappropriate questions. There is no reason for this when there is a thousand other questions they could ask.
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staceluvyou reacted to TBoneTX in K1 divorce
From your entire description -- and solely from the statement that she thought about killing you -- she is mentally unstable. This plus her unemployment plus the seemingly irreconcilable religious differences are no foundation for a healthy or viable marriage. At this stage, it's doubtful that marriage counseling would make a meaningful difference.
The posters who suggest that you apply for AOS are misguided. Even if your wife agreed to apply (which she will not, given that she wants to divorce if not kill you), she would have to attend any interview with you, and the chances are slim that you would pass.
If I were in your situation, I would cooperate with the divorce and leave the U.S. (the only option), whether to go back to my home country or to any other. Your situation is untenable and potentially dangerous. I recommend that you begin making these plans. Contact your friends, relatives, and former associates in your home country -- you're only a few "contacts" away from finding a job and a better situation for yourself.
This is a shame, but not all relationships are meant to be, and everything happens for a reason. There's a whole world out there and a better place in it for you.
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staceluvyou reacted to Inky in k-2 question
Yes I get that but i'm telling you that the baby CANNOT MOVE TO THE USA ON A VISA if the child has claim to US CITIZENSHIP. Thats the fact. If the child has claim to US CITIZENSHIP they REFUSE HIM A VISA because he is a USC. Then he has to apply for US PASSPORT to enter the USA.
Maybe it is in your best interest to stay in your country until the child is older and then decide if you want to move to the USA.
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staceluvyou reacted to Inky in k-2 question
He cannot use a visa to enter the USA. He cannot move to the USA without the US passport because he will not be granted a visa.
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staceluvyou reacted to clarence954 in Our government is full of it
wow you got approved in less then 3 months and you''re complianing.. geez I would hate to think what you would do if you were on of the many on this board that have been waiting for 6 plus months and still don't have an answer
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staceluvyou reacted to ecce in Our government is full of it
I agree with you...but looking at your timeline I don't really understand what you are complaining about.
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staceluvyou reacted to nurse1967 in Interview
What you need to realize is that if you have "mental problems" you could be denied for your petition.
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staceluvyou reacted to sus in K-1 visa interview
No, it's not possible to schedule an interview before NOA2 - it's not even possible to schedule an interview right when getting NOA2 - you have to go through the NVC, then they send it to the embassy, then the embassy will tell YOU when the interview is on their schedule - unfortunately you have no control over it.
Second, having or not having a lawyer will not speed up / slow down the process or avoid a request for additional evidence.
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staceluvyou reacted to Edrotar in Did you send in your whole Divorce Decree
Thanks for your professional response!
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staceluvyou got a reaction from gigi_a in Stop my Application
i don't have an answer for you but i just want to say i am sorry things work out this way for you.i think it's a very wise and courageous decision you are making. i don't know him so i'm not gonna condemn him but as for you maybe it is the best thing for you because you will never trust him and you r gonna be suspicious of every little thing he does. like if he's out late r not answer his phone etc. so you are sparing yourself a lot of stress and pain. that's just a part of life, i hope you will be able to forgive and move on with your life, all the best.
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staceluvyou reacted to extremerecluse in I- I 29F petiton got denied. Should we submit appeal or file another K-1
I feel for you man. I think you are stuck between a least costly cancellation of the current I-129F and a refile or the more costly and more time consuming appeal. Please, please, please thoroughly study this website for a minimum of one week before proceeding with the new K1 petition. I went solo just like you and I thought I would get denied, but at least I had the basic documents which saved my rear. There is a wealth of knowledge here and you would be foolish to ignore it again. Take my advice; start over. At least this time, you will have peace of mind, knowing that you have crossed all your Ts and dotted all of your Is. But, you can appeal, and it will most likely take you just as much time as a refile and cost you plenty.
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staceluvyou reacted to LookyWhatIFound in Problems, Maybe?
I think it could possibly cause a problem, you never know. I would contact your Embassy ASAP, they should correct that.