sea-monkey

Let her return first, tell her to get a house, find a job and then tell her you will join her thereafter.
Then wait and see how fast she comes running back to the states

Do you have internet in the house at least?
I would just use Skype on the pc or skype app on a smart phone or iPod touch.
I use this package:
400 Minutes
$13.99/month
$.06/sms sending
Other skype packages:
60 Minutes
$2.79/month
120 Minutes
$5.49/month

I can only imagine the influx of mother in law visits

I suppose if you really want to see corruption in San Jose drop city workers salaries in half and then see how things are.

While I hate HOA's just as the next guy, she is 85% or more to blame in this situation. You can't just stick your head in the sand and ignore real life.
The guy should have asked a sibling or parents to keep tabs on the bills if he knew she was irresposible.
I'd have second thoughts about spending the rest of my life with someone like that...

Its time to cut your loses and move on. There is nothing to discuss with her anymore. You are not her lover, she has a boyfriend back home she loves.
Buy that 1 way ticket ASAP and get her out of your house before she ruins anything or steals anything.
Your head has probably been throbbing, body numb from the events and probably can't think straight. Listen to all of the advice here and start over.

Its time to cut your loses and move on. There is nothing to discuss with her anymore. You are not her lover, she has a boyfriend back home she loves.
Buy that 1 way ticket ASAP and get her out of your house before she ruins anything or steals anything.
Your head has probably been throbbing, body numb from the events and probably can't think straight. Listen to all of the advice here and start over.

Its time to cut your loses and move on. There is nothing to discuss with her anymore. You are not her lover, she has a boyfriend back home she loves.
Buy that 1 way ticket ASAP and get her out of your house before she ruins anything or steals anything.
Your head has probably been throbbing, body numb from the events and probably can't think straight. Listen to all of the advice here and start over.

Its time to cut your loses and move on. There is nothing to discuss with her anymore. You are not her lover, she has a boyfriend back home she loves.
Buy that 1 way ticket ASAP and get her out of your house before she ruins anything or steals anything.
Your head has probably been throbbing, body numb from the events and probably can't think straight. Listen to all of the advice here and start over.

Use that schooling money on a new wife instead. Try a different country next time. Get some variety. You are a option giver, not her.
This current one will suck you dry and leave you asking "what have I done?"
She is already plotting to leave you. Wants education so she can be self sufficient. Hoarding her salary away and seeing her parents taken care of on your dime. You're nothing more than a roof and ticket to citizenship.
If you're miserble each day and wake up miserble, you know what needs to be done.

Use that schooling money on a new wife instead. Try a different country next time. Get some variety. You are a option giver, not her.
This current one will suck you dry and leave you asking "what have I done?"
She is already plotting to leave you. Wants education so she can be self sufficient. Hoarding her salary away and seeing her parents taken care of on your dime. You're nothing more than a roof and ticket to citizenship.
If you're miserble each day and wake up miserble, you know what needs to be done.

I say buy a one way ticket for her back home when you plan that vacation in Jan. Pretend you bought 2 RT tickets, then the day before, tell her you have to stay behind for work, something came up.
Shanghaiing her will teach her a lesson

Sounds like the family thinks they won the lotto with marrying her off to an American. Everyone wants a hand in your cookie jar
$681 is all that it would cost to make your troubles go away. 1 way flight back to PI from LAS.