josandme

@TBoneTX, wish I could format my response to you as purdy as was yours to me.. lol
 

I Opened this site for the first time in years to write a post, offering advice based on some experiences i have had in the last few years. I was sidetracked  when i opened the site and began reading several posts. I quickly realized if i did post soemthing it will be assumed i am talking about the same person i referred to in posts from years ago, and most likely the advice I was intending to give would be de-railed into a explanation of irrelevant comments or questions having NOTHING to do with my actual post. How sad. 
People here when i last posted a question, really tried to give genuine advise. Many comments i read today were hateful, and rude. Even more were Judgmental and/or insulting. 
You "old timers" look into past posts to "ascertain the entire story". They may be relevant, or they may not. But everyone assumes they are all linked and it becomes a beat down instead of a helping hand. 
Folks, I submit 99% of new members join this site to receive advice and help. Dont beat them down with insults. Even bad or negative information can be given in a considerate manner. 
I also see many people that offer NO ADVICE about the actual original question, but only critique the person that wrote it. Does that make you feel somehow superior to be-little another that is not as "good" as you? 
Many times i see advice or opinion is given that is completely wrong. That is not factual or worse, 100% contrary to law, as it relates to a particular type of immigration topic. To be clear i am NOT a lawyer and dont profess to know all the subtleties of the law. I have however read much of the actual law, as its written in the code, to have a better understanding of it. Most recently In particular  Sec. 212. [8 U.S.C. 1182] , in case you were curious. 
The thing that most surprised me however was the fact that this site has now taken away my constitutional freedom of speech rights. Thats right folks. I read this on several posts. 
"this thread is locked and is not to be reopened or referred to elsewhere."  Not to be referred to anywhere else????  Really??? I cant even mention it ??   Is it not a violation of my freedom of speech rights, to tell me what i can, or cant talk about. And was that in itself a referral to one of those topics, making me subject to some sort of punishment??
While i am very curious how this post will be received i am not too hopeful honestly. Stop and remember a time when you yourself were worried, hopeful, concerned, excited, and even fearful of the unknown future.  We here can be kind and honest at the same time. Giving truthful and hopefully helpful advice even if such advice is contrary to what the OP wanted to hear. 

If you were offended by this,. I can only ask you take a minute to think about what i have written before you reply. 
 
My 2 cents. 

read again what I actually wrote. I was accurate in what I said. 
 
 

Ok, what year?  was he ordered removed? It will say that also in his passport more than likely.
 
 

You went into a lot of detail to say that her mom is your cousin 

Rather than quoting an entire post, highlight the sentence of your choice.
Hit the "quote selection" pop-up box.
Quoted sentence appears in your reply message.  Comment underneath it.  Repeat the procedure.  Pretty cool.
 

@TBoneTX, Here is a perfect example of what I was referring to in my other post. This is HORRIBLE advice!!!!!  
It will result in a deportation and a ban, affecting them for years, making the situation substantially worse. 
"see how it goes"...….  like maybe the officer would feel sorry for them and allow them in????  

People, please!! Give them CORRECT advice.  You can not attempt to enter on a b2 with immigration intent.  PERIOD. 

^^ Yes to this as well. It seems like your family has plenty of easily-documentable proof of valid fear and intimidation by the government. Utilize this...the worst that can happen is that they do not expedite, but it definitely seems to be worth the try in your case.

The reason I said temporarily was so you & your family would be out of danger while waiting for the spousal visa process to run its course. I understand the goal is being together in the US.

Sure. All I am trying to do here is provide OP with options; instead of choosing to believe that OP had the intention of circumventing US immigration laws. Most people are not aware of that. It would be more helpful if those who do know how it works, simply explain that coming on a B1/B2 visa is not OK, and also offer options/solutions; instead of requesting to close down the thread because OP wants to commit fraud. It seems to be a theme around here.
That's all I'm saying.
 

I Opened this site for the first time in years to write a post, offering advice based on some experiences i have had in the last few years. I was sidetracked  when i opened the site and began reading several posts. I quickly realized if i did post soemthing it will be assumed i am talking about the same person i referred to in posts from years ago, and most likely the advice I was intending to give would be de-railed into a explanation of irrelevant comments or questions having NOTHING to do with my actual post. How sad. 
People here when i last posted a question, really tried to give genuine advise. Many comments i read today were hateful, and rude. Even more were Judgmental and/or insulting. 
You "old timers" look into past posts to "ascertain the entire story". They may be relevant, or they may not. But everyone assumes they are all linked and it becomes a beat down instead of a helping hand. 
Folks, I submit 99% of new members join this site to receive advice and help. Dont beat them down with insults. Even bad or negative information can be given in a considerate manner. 
I also see many people that offer NO ADVICE about the actual original question, but only critique the person that wrote it. Does that make you feel somehow superior to be-little another that is not as "good" as you? 
Many times i see advice or opinion is given that is completely wrong. That is not factual or worse, 100% contrary to law, as it relates to a particular type of immigration topic. To be clear i am NOT a lawyer and dont profess to know all the subtleties of the law. I have however read much of the actual law, as its written in the code, to have a better understanding of it. Most recently In particular  Sec. 212. [8 U.S.C. 1182] , in case you were curious. 
The thing that most surprised me however was the fact that this site has now taken away my constitutional freedom of speech rights. Thats right folks. I read this on several posts. 
"this thread is locked and is not to be reopened or referred to elsewhere."  Not to be referred to anywhere else????  Really??? I cant even mention it ??   Is it not a violation of my freedom of speech rights, to tell me what i can, or cant talk about. And was that in itself a referral to one of those topics, making me subject to some sort of punishment??
While i am very curious how this post will be received i am not too hopeful honestly. Stop and remember a time when you yourself were worried, hopeful, concerned, excited, and even fearful of the unknown future.  We here can be kind and honest at the same time. Giving truthful and hopefully helpful advice even if such advice is contrary to what the OP wanted to hear. 

If you were offended by this,. I can only ask you take a minute to think about what i have written before you reply. 
 
My 2 cents. 

wow, i never knew that.
so when they denied you for "petitioner failed to disclose information in the petition",   how did you discover exactly what that was for?

interesting. thanks for comments