ok well i'm gonna be very honest here but honey, just the fact you posted your question on this forum asking for advice from strangers, means you already know what's going on.
My advice - run. Don't walk away from it all, but run.
You're missing one of the two huge,main things you must have to be able to go through this process - trust in your significant other.
Second thing would would be patience
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