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Its not worthless. Its still a degree. I got into all the grad schools I applied to with my Philippine degree, all I needed was to have my transcript validated by a foreign company and my grades converted into the US equivalent. I did not need additional courses. St. Paul is a good school too. I am not sure how easy it is to get a job in her field but she is still a college grad no matter what.

wow.. lol.
Btw, Darren, I am offended by your post that most Americans pay for the medical. The K1/CR1 is just one of the many visas processed there, there are plenty of other immigrant petitions there (like the family-based ones that take a long time) and they pay for their medicals with their hard-earned cash. I paid for both my medical and visa fee, as well. And when I did my medical my fiance was sleeping and I just told him how it went afterwards.. I look like a foreigner but I was not hounded by peddlers, if you are kind to them and not act obnoxious they will even give great advice as they know the process by heart. You need to learn to take things with a grain of salt, seriously! This kind of behavior will not give you a happy life. Relax, be grateful for your blessings and let go of the nuances. It all worked out for you, you are so blessed, so count your blessings and move on. I wish you a happy married life!

agreed! that was why i left!

wow.. lol.
Btw, Darren, I am offended by your post that most Americans pay for the medical. The K1/CR1 is just one of the many visas processed there, there are plenty of other immigrant petitions there (like the family-based ones that take a long time) and they pay for their medicals with their hard-earned cash. I paid for both my medical and visa fee, as well. And when I did my medical my fiance was sleeping and I just told him how it went afterwards.. I look like a foreigner but I was not hounded by peddlers, if you are kind to them and not act obnoxious they will even give great advice as they know the process by heart. You need to learn to take things with a grain of salt, seriously! This kind of behavior will not give you a happy life. Relax, be grateful for your blessings and let go of the nuances. It all worked out for you, you are so blessed, so count your blessings and move on. I wish you a happy married life!

Im in too

Im in too

Get his orders or a letter from his CO should suffice if its not available yet. Call up the military hotline and have it expedited for deployment reasons, be ready to fax the orders if they ask you too. I did this and it worked! Hubby is also deploying soon!

Hi everyone,
I thought I would share my experience to others so that it will hopefully help you guys as well. I know that the k1 process is stressful and getting the visa is a true victory. Sadly though, the stress will not end there because after POE there is another journey, but it will be better because you get to experience it with your loved one. I know a lot of people here have already successfully accomplished AOS so feel free to chime in and comment as well.
First and foremost, read up on the following:
VJ Link to AOS for k1/k2
Vanessa and Tony's guide
Here is what I did from POE onwards..
1. POE
Don’t forget to bring the brown envelope from the embassy and hand it to the immigration officer, together with your i-94. Make sure all details on the i-94 are written legibly and correctly. Also, do not leave the airport without checking if all the details on your i-94 is correct (Your name, alien number, date of stamp etc) and DO NOT LOSE YOUR I-94.
2. GET A MARRIAGE LICENSE
Check your state laws for the requirements to get married.. Go to your local town clerk to get the license. Some may need a SSN, some won't. So you can interchange #2 and #3.
3. GET A SSN
K1 visa holders are allowed to get a SSN as long as they still have a valid i-94. It is recommended to go 10-14 days upon entry so that by then you should already be registered in the database. Now I have been told that there are some SSA who are clueless about k1 visa holders and refuse to give them the SSN until you have your green card. This is FALSE, and if this happens, ask for higher management and demand for it, because you are entitled to one.
Things to bring: Passport, I-94, NSO Birth Cert, SSN Form (you can get one there). If you go when you are already married, bring your MC.
Proof that k1 can apply for SSN
SSN Form
It should arrive in 1-2 weeks.
4. FIND A CIVIL SURGEON
Only if your DS-3025 is marked “incomplete” is a I-693 required to be completed. If it is marked as such (incomplete) you are required to complete certain portions of the I-693 and have a Civil Surgeon certify the form (and seal it in an evelope). Specifically, you will complete Part 1 (Information about you) of the I-693 and provide both the form and your DS-3025 (if you have it, proving your vaccination history) and any proof of required vaccinations that were completed prior to entering the US. If you do not have a copy of your DS-3025 you will need to provide sufficient evidence of your vaccination history to the Civil Surgeon (talk to the civil surgeon’s office to discuss what vaccination records they accept as proof). If you do not have proof of your vaccination history the Civil Surgeon may insist on re-administering all the required vaccinations prior to completing the I-693. Once the Civil Surgeon has has verified that all required vaccinations have been performed, they will complete form I-693 Part 2 (the vaccination section) and Part 5 (the Civil Surgeon’s Certification). They will then seal the form in an envelope and return it to you.
So this part is a little confusing because I have all the complete age-appropriate vaccines, and yet some people claim to have gotten RFEs for not having their I-693 transcribed so we decided that were gonna do it anyway to avoid any complications The trick here is to call around and find a civil surgeon who will not require you to do another medical, because your medical exam should still be valid for a whole year!
5. GET MARRIED AND GET THE (certified) MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE
The marriage certificate is important for AOS, so make sure you grab copies of it!
FILING FOR AOS:
AOS DOCUMENTS
1. Cover letter
In the checklist above it is recommended that you include a Cover Page with your application. While this is optional, filing a cover page will help the USCIS understand what benefit you are applying for and specifically what items you have included in your package. Again, make sure the cover page includes:
– the applicants contact information (name, address, phone number)
– A description of the benefit you are applying for ( Family Based Adjustment of Status Application)
– A table of contents listing the major items in your package (i.e. I-485 and evidence, I-765, I-131, etc)
– A line with the applicants signature and date
2. G-1145 – Form for E-notification of Application/Petition Acceptance
3. Payment in the amount of $1,070.00 payable to U.S. Department of Homeland Security (personal cheque)
4. I-485 – Application to Register Permanent Residence or Adjust Status, signed & dated
5. Copy of birth certificate
6. Photocopy of passport biographical details page
7. Copy of K1 visa in passport
8. Photocopy of USA entry stamp dated
9. 2 passport photos (US passport size) – name and alien number printed lightly on back in pencil or felt pen
10. I-693 Filled up by Civil Surgeon (Bring DS-3205 and Vaccination Records)
11. G-325A – Biographic Information, including residence and employment attachments
11. I-864 – Affidavit of Support (TIM) +tax returns, employment letter, bank statement, pay stubs and proof of citizenship
12. I-864 – Affidavit of Support (Co-Sponsor) + Most recent tax returns and proof of citizenship
13. Copy of I-797 – Notice of Action, Approval of K1 petition, dated ##### (front & back) - AKA K1 NOA2
14. Copy of Marriage certificate, dated ##### (front & back)
15. Copy of I-94 – Arrival/Departure record (front & back)
EAD DOCUMENTS
Cover letter
1. G-1145 – Form for E-notification of Application/Petition Acceptance
2. I-765 – Application for Employment Authorisation
3. 2 passport photos (US passport size) – name and alien number printed lightly on back in pencil or felt pen
4. Photocopy of passport biographical details page
5. Copy of I-94 – Arrival/Departure record (front & back)
6. Copy of Marriage certificate (to show name change)
AP DOCUMENTS
Cover letter (EXPLANATION FOR ELIGIBILITY)
1. G-1145 – Form for E-notification of Application/Petition Acceptance
2. I-131 – Application for Travel Document (Advanced Parole)
3. 2 passport photos (US passport size) – name and alien number printed lightly on back in pencil or felt pen
4. Copy of K1 visa (to show present status)
5. Photocopy of passport biographical details page
6. Copy of Marriage certificate (to show name change)
File at:
USCIS
P.O. Box 805887
Chicago, IL 60680-4120
For courier/express delivery:
USCIS
Attn: FBAS
131 South Dearborn – 3rd Floor
Chicago, IL 60603-5517
PAYMENT
Personal checks must be pre-printed with the name of the bank and the account holder. Also, the account holder’s address and phone number must be pre-printed, typed or written in ink on the check. All checks must be typed or written in ink.
1. Write the date you are filling out the check including: day, month and year.
2. On the “Pay to the Order of” line write: “U.S. Department of Homeland Security.”
3. Write in numbers the exact dollar amount of the fee for the service you are requesting. In the example, the amount is “$595.00.”
4. Spell out the exact dollar amount of the fee for the service you are requesting. The “cents” portion of the amount should be written as a fraction over 100. In this example, the amount is “Five hundred ninety-five and 00/100.”
5. Write a brief description of the purpose of your payment. In this example, it is “N-400 application fee.”
6. Sign the check using your legal signature.
IMPORTANT!
Make TWO copies of the entire package before you send it in. This includes the money orders too. You want to have a perfect replica of the package you are sending in. All Forms that you submit must be originals with original signatures. Supporting Evidence that you submit may be photocopies. Retain ALL original supporting Evidence since the USCIS has the right to check them by issuing an RFE (Request For Evidence). If you receive an RFE, follow the direction exactly, and make two copies of what you sent back. During any future interviews the USCIS may also want to examine the original supporting evidence.
Once you send it in, here is what to expect.
You will receive a NOA1 for all 3 applications, followed by a biometrics appointment. After that you either get an interview date or you get transferred to CSC and you'll be approved with no interview. But don't worry, I heard that the interview is not hard at all, so don't feel bad if you get one!
That's all, hope this helps my fellow kababayans and goodluck! Here's to hoping you have a happy life in the US, and have a smooth and RFE-free AOS journey!

wow.. lol.
Btw, Darren, I am offended by your post that most Americans pay for the medical. The K1/CR1 is just one of the many visas processed there, there are plenty of other immigrant petitions there (like the family-based ones that take a long time) and they pay for their medicals with their hard-earned cash. I paid for both my medical and visa fee, as well. And when I did my medical my fiance was sleeping and I just told him how it went afterwards.. I look like a foreigner but I was not hounded by peddlers, if you are kind to them and not act obnoxious they will even give great advice as they know the process by heart. You need to learn to take things with a grain of salt, seriously! This kind of behavior will not give you a happy life. Relax, be grateful for your blessings and let go of the nuances. It all worked out for you, you are so blessed, so count your blessings and move on. I wish you a happy married life!

wow.. lol.
Btw, Darren, I am offended by your post that most Americans pay for the medical. The K1/CR1 is just one of the many visas processed there, there are plenty of other immigrant petitions there (like the family-based ones that take a long time) and they pay for their medicals with their hard-earned cash. I paid for both my medical and visa fee, as well. And when I did my medical my fiance was sleeping and I just told him how it went afterwards.. I look like a foreigner but I was not hounded by peddlers, if you are kind to them and not act obnoxious they will even give great advice as they know the process by heart. You need to learn to take things with a grain of salt, seriously! This kind of behavior will not give you a happy life. Relax, be grateful for your blessings and let go of the nuances. It all worked out for you, you are so blessed, so count your blessings and move on. I wish you a happy married life!

wow.. lol.
Btw, Darren, I am offended by your post that most Americans pay for the medical. The K1/CR1 is just one of the many visas processed there, there are plenty of other immigrant petitions there (like the family-based ones that take a long time) and they pay for their medicals with their hard-earned cash. I paid for both my medical and visa fee, as well. And when I did my medical my fiance was sleeping and I just told him how it went afterwards.. I look like a foreigner but I was not hounded by peddlers, if you are kind to them and not act obnoxious they will even give great advice as they know the process by heart. You need to learn to take things with a grain of salt, seriously! This kind of behavior will not give you a happy life. Relax, be grateful for your blessings and let go of the nuances. It all worked out for you, you are so blessed, so count your blessings and move on. I wish you a happy married life!

wow.. lol.
Btw, Darren, I am offended by your post that most Americans pay for the medical. The K1/CR1 is just one of the many visas processed there, there are plenty of other immigrant petitions there (like the family-based ones that take a long time) and they pay for their medicals with their hard-earned cash. I paid for both my medical and visa fee, as well. And when I did my medical my fiance was sleeping and I just told him how it went afterwards.. I look like a foreigner but I was not hounded by peddlers, if you are kind to them and not act obnoxious they will even give great advice as they know the process by heart. You need to learn to take things with a grain of salt, seriously! This kind of behavior will not give you a happy life. Relax, be grateful for your blessings and let go of the nuances. It all worked out for you, you are so blessed, so count your blessings and move on. I wish you a happy married life!

I know how you feel. I wanted a nice wedding too, so I really planned it. I think what you can do is do some research on your area, and already find a dress there. If you present to him all the details, cost, and have it all planned out already and tell him everything in exact terms, maybe he would consider it. The key here is to be proactive, and also to know your limits. When I planned my wedding, I covered all bases, he did not have to do anything but show up! I was also upfront about all expenses, and I already knew how we would pay for it. I know it seems hard, but if you really want it, you can do your own research, maybe he is worried about expenses and having to plan it. All I know is you can have a beautiful civil wedding, or a garden wedding in someone's home for a couple of hundred dollars. You just need to be creative. Tell him how you feel, and also ask his reasons why he wants it right away. Maybe it's a religious thing, like not wanting to live together without being married? Lastly, like others said, you can always get married twice, but to me, I did not like that idea. I wanted one special day, and for that to be it. If that is what you want too, talk to him. After all, it is your special day!

I know how you feel. I wanted a nice wedding too, so I really planned it. I think what you can do is do some research on your area, and already find a dress there. If you present to him all the details, cost, and have it all planned out already and tell him everything in exact terms, maybe he would consider it. The key here is to be proactive, and also to know your limits. When I planned my wedding, I covered all bases, he did not have to do anything but show up! I was also upfront about all expenses, and I already knew how we would pay for it. I know it seems hard, but if you really want it, you can do your own research, maybe he is worried about expenses and having to plan it. All I know is you can have a beautiful civil wedding, or a garden wedding in someone's home for a couple of hundred dollars. You just need to be creative. Tell him how you feel, and also ask his reasons why he wants it right away. Maybe it's a religious thing, like not wanting to live together without being married? Lastly, like others said, you can always get married twice, but to me, I did not like that idea. I wanted one special day, and for that to be it. If that is what you want too, talk to him. After all, it is your special day!

I know how you feel. I wanted a nice wedding too, so I really planned it. I think what you can do is do some research on your area, and already find a dress there. If you present to him all the details, cost, and have it all planned out already and tell him everything in exact terms, maybe he would consider it. The key here is to be proactive, and also to know your limits. When I planned my wedding, I covered all bases, he did not have to do anything but show up! I was also upfront about all expenses, and I already knew how we would pay for it. I know it seems hard, but if you really want it, you can do your own research, maybe he is worried about expenses and having to plan it. All I know is you can have a beautiful civil wedding, or a garden wedding in someone's home for a couple of hundred dollars. You just need to be creative. Tell him how you feel, and also ask his reasons why he wants it right away. Maybe it's a religious thing, like not wanting to live together without being married? Lastly, like others said, you can always get married twice, but to me, I did not like that idea. I wanted one special day, and for that to be it. If that is what you want too, talk to him. After all, it is your special day!

I know how you feel. I wanted a nice wedding too, so I really planned it. I think what you can do is do some research on your area, and already find a dress there. If you present to him all the details, cost, and have it all planned out already and tell him everything in exact terms, maybe he would consider it. The key here is to be proactive, and also to know your limits. When I planned my wedding, I covered all bases, he did not have to do anything but show up! I was also upfront about all expenses, and I already knew how we would pay for it. I know it seems hard, but if you really want it, you can do your own research, maybe he is worried about expenses and having to plan it. All I know is you can have a beautiful civil wedding, or a garden wedding in someone's home for a couple of hundred dollars. You just need to be creative. Tell him how you feel, and also ask his reasons why he wants it right away. Maybe it's a religious thing, like not wanting to live together without being married? Lastly, like others said, you can always get married twice, but to me, I did not like that idea. I wanted one special day, and for that to be it. If that is what you want too, talk to him. After all, it is your special day!

I know how you feel. I wanted a nice wedding too, so I really planned it. I think what you can do is do some research on your area, and already find a dress there. If you present to him all the details, cost, and have it all planned out already and tell him everything in exact terms, maybe he would consider it. The key here is to be proactive, and also to know your limits. When I planned my wedding, I covered all bases, he did not have to do anything but show up! I was also upfront about all expenses, and I already knew how we would pay for it. I know it seems hard, but if you really want it, you can do your own research, maybe he is worried about expenses and having to plan it. All I know is you can have a beautiful civil wedding, or a garden wedding in someone's home for a couple of hundred dollars. You just need to be creative. Tell him how you feel, and also ask his reasons why he wants it right away. Maybe it's a religious thing, like not wanting to live together without being married? Lastly, like others said, you can always get married twice, but to me, I did not like that idea. I wanted one special day, and for that to be it. If that is what you want too, talk to him. After all, it is your special day!

So after reading all of this.. there seems to be no verdict! I think I will not bring it with me.. I'll stick with my DL, military ID, and school ID.. Thanks for the interesting read

My school accepted me but would not let me enroll without a GC. It depends on the school. You should talk to the international students office. Luckily I got my GC with plenty of time to spare and I start grad school in a week!

Hi everyone,
I thought I would share my experience to others so that it will hopefully help you guys as well. I know that the k1 process is stressful and getting the visa is a true victory. Sadly though, the stress will not end there because after POE there is another journey, but it will be better because you get to experience it with your loved one. I know a lot of people here have already successfully accomplished AOS so feel free to chime in and comment as well.
First and foremost, read up on the following:
VJ Link to AOS for k1/k2
Vanessa and Tony's guide
Here is what I did from POE onwards..
1. POE
Don’t forget to bring the brown envelope from the embassy and hand it to the immigration officer, together with your i-94. Make sure all details on the i-94 are written legibly and correctly. Also, do not leave the airport without checking if all the details on your i-94 is correct (Your name, alien number, date of stamp etc) and DO NOT LOSE YOUR I-94.
2. GET A MARRIAGE LICENSE
Check your state laws for the requirements to get married.. Go to your local town clerk to get the license. Some may need a SSN, some won't. So you can interchange #2 and #3.
3. GET A SSN
K1 visa holders are allowed to get a SSN as long as they still have a valid i-94. It is recommended to go 10-14 days upon entry so that by then you should already be registered in the database. Now I have been told that there are some SSA who are clueless about k1 visa holders and refuse to give them the SSN until you have your green card. This is FALSE, and if this happens, ask for higher management and demand for it, because you are entitled to one.
Things to bring: Passport, I-94, NSO Birth Cert, SSN Form (you can get one there). If you go when you are already married, bring your MC.
Proof that k1 can apply for SSN
SSN Form
It should arrive in 1-2 weeks.
4. FIND A CIVIL SURGEON
Only if your DS-3025 is marked “incomplete” is a I-693 required to be completed. If it is marked as such (incomplete) you are required to complete certain portions of the I-693 and have a Civil Surgeon certify the form (and seal it in an evelope). Specifically, you will complete Part 1 (Information about you) of the I-693 and provide both the form and your DS-3025 (if you have it, proving your vaccination history) and any proof of required vaccinations that were completed prior to entering the US. If you do not have a copy of your DS-3025 you will need to provide sufficient evidence of your vaccination history to the Civil Surgeon (talk to the civil surgeon’s office to discuss what vaccination records they accept as proof). If you do not have proof of your vaccination history the Civil Surgeon may insist on re-administering all the required vaccinations prior to completing the I-693. Once the Civil Surgeon has has verified that all required vaccinations have been performed, they will complete form I-693 Part 2 (the vaccination section) and Part 5 (the Civil Surgeon’s Certification). They will then seal the form in an envelope and return it to you.
So this part is a little confusing because I have all the complete age-appropriate vaccines, and yet some people claim to have gotten RFEs for not having their I-693 transcribed so we decided that were gonna do it anyway to avoid any complications The trick here is to call around and find a civil surgeon who will not require you to do another medical, because your medical exam should still be valid for a whole year!
5. GET MARRIED AND GET THE (certified) MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE
The marriage certificate is important for AOS, so make sure you grab copies of it!
FILING FOR AOS:
AOS DOCUMENTS
1. Cover letter
In the checklist above it is recommended that you include a Cover Page with your application. While this is optional, filing a cover page will help the USCIS understand what benefit you are applying for and specifically what items you have included in your package. Again, make sure the cover page includes:
– the applicants contact information (name, address, phone number)
– A description of the benefit you are applying for ( Family Based Adjustment of Status Application)
– A table of contents listing the major items in your package (i.e. I-485 and evidence, I-765, I-131, etc)
– A line with the applicants signature and date
2. G-1145 – Form for E-notification of Application/Petition Acceptance
3. Payment in the amount of $1,070.00 payable to U.S. Department of Homeland Security (personal cheque)
4. I-485 – Application to Register Permanent Residence or Adjust Status, signed & dated
5. Copy of birth certificate
6. Photocopy of passport biographical details page
7. Copy of K1 visa in passport
8. Photocopy of USA entry stamp dated
9. 2 passport photos (US passport size) – name and alien number printed lightly on back in pencil or felt pen
10. I-693 Filled up by Civil Surgeon (Bring DS-3205 and Vaccination Records)
11. G-325A – Biographic Information, including residence and employment attachments
11. I-864 – Affidavit of Support (TIM) +tax returns, employment letter, bank statement, pay stubs and proof of citizenship
12. I-864 – Affidavit of Support (Co-Sponsor) + Most recent tax returns and proof of citizenship
13. Copy of I-797 – Notice of Action, Approval of K1 petition, dated ##### (front & back) - AKA K1 NOA2
14. Copy of Marriage certificate, dated ##### (front & back)
15. Copy of I-94 – Arrival/Departure record (front & back)
EAD DOCUMENTS
Cover letter
1. G-1145 – Form for E-notification of Application/Petition Acceptance
2. I-765 – Application for Employment Authorisation
3. 2 passport photos (US passport size) – name and alien number printed lightly on back in pencil or felt pen
4. Photocopy of passport biographical details page
5. Copy of I-94 – Arrival/Departure record (front & back)
6. Copy of Marriage certificate (to show name change)
AP DOCUMENTS
Cover letter (EXPLANATION FOR ELIGIBILITY)
1. G-1145 – Form for E-notification of Application/Petition Acceptance
2. I-131 – Application for Travel Document (Advanced Parole)
3. 2 passport photos (US passport size) – name and alien number printed lightly on back in pencil or felt pen
4. Copy of K1 visa (to show present status)
5. Photocopy of passport biographical details page
6. Copy of Marriage certificate (to show name change)
File at:
USCIS
P.O. Box 805887
Chicago, IL 60680-4120
For courier/express delivery:
USCIS
Attn: FBAS
131 South Dearborn – 3rd Floor
Chicago, IL 60603-5517
PAYMENT
Personal checks must be pre-printed with the name of the bank and the account holder. Also, the account holder’s address and phone number must be pre-printed, typed or written in ink on the check. All checks must be typed or written in ink.
1. Write the date you are filling out the check including: day, month and year.
2. On the “Pay to the Order of” line write: “U.S. Department of Homeland Security.”
3. Write in numbers the exact dollar amount of the fee for the service you are requesting. In the example, the amount is “$595.00.”
4. Spell out the exact dollar amount of the fee for the service you are requesting. The “cents” portion of the amount should be written as a fraction over 100. In this example, the amount is “Five hundred ninety-five and 00/100.”
5. Write a brief description of the purpose of your payment. In this example, it is “N-400 application fee.”
6. Sign the check using your legal signature.
IMPORTANT!
Make TWO copies of the entire package before you send it in. This includes the money orders too. You want to have a perfect replica of the package you are sending in. All Forms that you submit must be originals with original signatures. Supporting Evidence that you submit may be photocopies. Retain ALL original supporting Evidence since the USCIS has the right to check them by issuing an RFE (Request For Evidence). If you receive an RFE, follow the direction exactly, and make two copies of what you sent back. During any future interviews the USCIS may also want to examine the original supporting evidence.
Once you send it in, here is what to expect.
You will receive a NOA1 for all 3 applications, followed by a biometrics appointment. After that you either get an interview date or you get transferred to CSC and you'll be approved with no interview. But don't worry, I heard that the interview is not hard at all, so don't feel bad if you get one!
That's all, hope this helps my fellow kababayans and goodluck! Here's to hoping you have a happy life in the US, and have a smooth and RFE-free AOS journey!

It matters to some people.. I am the only girl un my family, my hubby is the only son, I am the first among my cousins to get married and my grandma is already old so our families all helped to give us a good wedding, and my family and grandma all flew to the US for it. We are not in debt for it, and it really was an amazing and memorable day.. we had a church wedding military style, and a reception at a tiny hotel in Vermont. I am not saying everyone should spend for his wedding, but everyone has his or her own reasons for choosing what kind of celebration to have ours was not by any means lavish but you know what I mean

I would really suggest meeting first not only for k1 purposes, but because I think meeting him and spending time with him physically even just for a while is an important factor before you decide to be engaged with someone.. do not rush into this, marriage is a serious matter..

I would really suggest meeting first not only for k1 purposes, but because I think meeting him and spending time with him physically even just for a while is an important factor before you decide to be engaged with someone.. do not rush into this, marriage is a serious matter..

I would really suggest meeting first not only for k1 purposes, but because I think meeting him and spending time with him physically even just for a while is an important factor before you decide to be engaged with someone.. do not rush into this, marriage is a serious matter..

I would really suggest meeting first not only for k1 purposes, but because I think meeting him and spending time with him physically even just for a while is an important factor before you decide to be engaged with someone.. do not rush into this, marriage is a serious matter..