My story can be found on the blog linked above. My blog includes both my personal story and visa-related events along with information on this whole CR-1 process. Please check it out, it might help you :)For my complete timeline as well as important links, just look above under 'About Me'!
It's unfortunate They really need to make their system soundproof. Some people get it, some people don't. Oh well. Is there at least an SSA office in your town?