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I will do, Thank you a bunch for the advice and answers

Ok everyone, I'm not attacking anyone here so no one misunderstand my tone, many of you guys are trying to help but your mixing lots of things up.
Here is the thing. If you signed the contract for your current apartment alone then you are fully obligated to pay that rent your self, if she signed with you then 50/50. In both situations if you can't pay for it and you can't financially support your self, she will have to pay all that but its a long process and a pain the butt to get her or whoever sponsored you to pay for it because you will take them to court but its still an OPTION!!!
Her threatening you of paying for her apartment and s***t, Tell her to do w/e she can do and let me tell you this, She can't do anything unless she divorces you and then the judge decides IF she gets your place or half of it n same for car n money or not. Your wife is obviously from a certain type of women and judges knows them very well i promise, they are at the courts everyday, my opinion she won't be getting so much if none specially because you don't have kids.
Now pay attention to this : If your wife got pregnant she will say its yours. I would not TOUCH her anyways for 2 reasons 1- disease 2- So she wouldn't get pregnant. If she got pregnant from YOU !!!, YOUR SCREWED SIR....and if she just got pregnant tell her sweet then get DNA test..pretty easy and then she will be in a BIG TROUBLE because thats a proof she cheated on you and you won't pay child support and she won't take your house for sure.
What you need to do now is to stay calm, patient and cold like an ice, let her stay with you( if you have a friend, keep him close if you have an enemy keep him closer) ...If she went far from you, you won't be able to know much about her, keep her close and gather evidence, record conversations, take pictures of her with other guys, I would even act like am ok with it even if she wants a threesome and take pictures of them.
Your wife will most likely either get pregnant or get a disease, Im not a psychic but trust me i know, just wait for it, she will make the mistake and then she will totally change with you and will be so nice and will say sorry and s***t again because she messed up, DON'T fall for it but play it along.
I wouldn't go and divorce her now, the more time you have with her, the more proof you have on her and the more proof you have for the greencard self petition.
Your wife won't divorce you, You make good money, she aint worried about no bills or food or anything, she seems to be the type that doesn't work and want yo just drink or do w/e and enjoy life so just suck it up for now for your own good, she NEEDS you, The more she is threatening you, the more scared of you she is, don't show her that your up to anything, stay upset but don't show any weakness because there is no reason !!! .... even if she thought about divorcing to get money, she knows that most likely your will renew your green card on your own and the little money she will get will be spent and she will have nothing...you DON'T have kids so she won't try to get child support to spend on her self till your kid is 18 so she would loose you, your place, food, everything basically then she will have to work or something.
Man, you are in the strong situation, gather your proof and have patience.

If i were in your place, I woulda have told her off that it wasn't her business specially if she commented on my child not me.
I'm generally a patient forgiving person but if it comes down to my baby, A hell gate would open on you.
And no your not being over sensitive but not too many people would really wear your shoe and none of us were there with you so don't expect much of understanding...No offense meant to no one..Just reality either you agree with me or not !!!

If i were in your place, I woulda have told her off that it wasn't her business specially if she commented on my child not me.
I'm generally a patient forgiving person but if it comes down to my baby, A hell gate would open on you.
And no your not being over sensitive but not too many people would really wear your shoe and none of us were there with you so don't expect much of understanding...No offense meant to no one..Just reality either you agree with me or not !!!

If i were in your place, I woulda have told her off that it wasn't her business specially if she commented on my child not me.
I'm generally a patient forgiving person but if it comes down to my baby, A hell gate would open on you.
And no your not being over sensitive but not too many people would really wear your shoe and none of us were there with you so don't expect much of understanding...No offense meant to no one..Just reality either you agree with me or not !!!

Did you guys even ask where was she from ? ...Well ..Since am Arabian am going to tell you this...Virginity for Arabian Muslim girls is something very very important and sensitive and it isn't that easy to just give it away..I know everyone is thinking but she is his wife...I understand and thats why i think there is more behind it...If she is Arabian..she prob told him that she wasn't going to do that unless she makes sure that he takes marriage seriously and he sees her as a wife....because if she get divorced, It would be so bad because of the virginity thing.
On the other hand...I need to be fair...I also need to ask the question..What if she is USING him and is going to marry someone else from her country and she doesn't want to lose her virginity because of that person and she is just waiting for her 10 years GC then she will get a divorce and she will marry the other guy and apply for him.
Am not going to judge any of them...But we would like to know more about whats going on.

Your allowed to come to Egypt but they advice you not to, Don't worry its not very unsafe like they show it on Tv.I promise you that the economy crisis and prices going high are the most things that we feel right now.Clashes and shooting is always by the demonstrations which you must stay away from.Come to Egypt.If you think that you been waiting for too long, We have been waiting for longer..Its been 4 years and am still in AP..be patient...things are getting better.

Your allowed to come to Egypt but they advice you not to, Don't worry its not very unsafe like they show it on Tv.I promise you that the economy crisis and prices going high are the most things that we feel right now.Clashes and shooting is always by the demonstrations which you must stay away from.Come to Egypt.If you think that you been waiting for too long, We have been waiting for longer..Its been 4 years and am still in AP..be patient...things are getting better.

I don't think that a consular could accuse your husband of cheating on you or even tell you this if your husband does. Your husband could SEW him harshly and get you the visa and get him self a big compensation and even screw the consular career.

Anyone would have some trouble adapting to the new way of living so the most important thing they are going to need is PATIENCE from you

You know what . am really out of words, Your a great understanding man. What upsets me is that i rarely find a good people like you or Ebunoluwa , Even when you speak , You sound educated , the others really sounds ignorant and whats so unfair is that you guys can visit us when ever you want but we can't do the same , that makes me feel that they don't think that we are humans like you . I feel like i want to protest but there aren't many immigrants that have problems here so i mighta protest alone lol. I really wish the best for those people that wishes the best for the other people.

You know what . am really out of words, Your a great understanding man. What upsets me is that i rarely find a good people like you or Ebunoluwa , Even when you speak , You sound educated , the others really sounds ignorant and whats so unfair is that you guys can visit us when ever you want but we can't do the same , that makes me feel that they don't think that we are humans like you . I feel like i want to protest but there aren't many immigrants that have problems here so i mighta protest alone lol. I really wish the best for those people that wishes the best for the other people.

He would be ignorant if he thought that way without putting expectations before taking that decision or thinking that way and who ever would think the same would be ignorant too because 1- he knew the circumstances but he still thought same way 2- he doesn't know that sometimes people take hard decisions because they are brave and good enough to take it 3- he is jealous as ###### because he isn't as loved as my wife from his spouse or gf or whoever else.
maybe huh

Thank you a lot for your open minded response , I wish other people wouldn't just judge or think the worest of other people .
I'm going to go for the DV and will refile too , so i would have more than a chance , am just waiting for my wife to come here in a couple of weeks so i could see my newborn little cup and then we would wait 6 months and apply throught the embassy also we can do that sooner because my wife have problems with her heart , she had heart failuer but thank god she is a life. anyways thanks alot for wishing me the best, you too have the best life

You know what . am really out of words, Your a great understanding man. What upsets me is that i rarely find a good people like you or Ebunoluwa , Even when you speak , You sound educated , the others really sounds ignorant and whats so unfair is that you guys can visit us when ever you want but we can't do the same , that makes me feel that they don't think that we are humans like you . I feel like i want to protest but there aren't many immigrants that have problems here so i mighta protest alone lol. I really wish the best for those people that wishes the best for the other people.

Very wise !!
Sam

HEY HEY HEY
Why do you just believe him and keep advicing him without knowing anything from her ?....he might did something ..who knows ...she might seen him betraying her or something and of course he would NOT tell you guys that he betrayed her..there are many circumstances ...BUT not because he is AMERICAN so ohhh he is one of us ..damn her ...BE FAIR ...what if you were her ....what if he did something...many questions ......iam not defending her neither accusing him of doing something ...but i hate being unfaired so i wouldn't want anyone to be in that place...listen to both of them if you can guys ...or just keep keep your tongues in your mouths .
Regards
Sam