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C'om dude have a heart. I just hope he does it like I would. The gentleman and respectable way.
My 2 cents

For some reason the process does not cause any problems between my fiancee and me.

NO
For one thing, you are not applying for a visa. Your fiancee will do that later at her interview. YOU are filing a petition. It is not required for the petition. The petition requires that you prove you are a US citizen, that you are both free to marry and that you have met in person at least one time in the past 2 years. Moneygram receipts are not evidence of anything required for the petition.
In some high fraud consualtes (HCMC is one of those) any type of money transfer is seen as a very BAD thing.
In other words, they cannot possibly help you and they can very possibly hurt you. Keep quiet about it.

Are you thinking correctly? Why get the police involve when they can communicate like couple do? If they can not have a nice communication it is up to her to judge the marriage.
-enufsaid

I am confused. Before you came to USA he looked young for you. After you came here you find him old? Is that what you are saying?
Go figure
-enufsaid

I am glad you don't see anything wrong with it.
But some people are making wrong assumption including a MOD agreeing them. They just got too out of hands their comments. GROSS AND DISRESPECTFUL.

I raised so many questions and they are ignored.
I will ask a simple question.
For those who have bird feeder, do you bring your bird feeder out in the spring or in the winter.?
PS. I love the kid !!! regardless.

I feel pity for those who lost the sense of humanity and the are of forgiving. Good luck nailing your nail.

Two ways to handle things in life:
We let our ego control us or we control our ego! I feel pity for a man when his ego dictates his life. The more your scratch your rash the more it will itch. (Ego in action)
My 2 cents!

What was the point of this post? It did nothing to bring any light to the OP's situation. You really should refrain from posting replies is you are going to be judging their motives.

Are you advocating illegal activities?

Topic has been moved from Immigration News Discussion forum to General Immigration forum as it is not a news related story.
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Lila,
I'm not familiar with any programmes that would work for you. I'm sorry that you have so many problems at home, but I am also not sure that moving to the US would solve them for you. In spite of its many attractions, the US can be a very difficult country in which to live, especially if you do not have the support of existing family or work colleagues. Going to school here would be different than living here when you are no longer a student and you would probably find it less supportive than you would like.
The US is very stringent on its immigration requirements. If you do not qualify for a family or work based or investors visa - which you are right, don't seem to fit for you - there really isn't any other option, unless you are in one of the countries that has the Immigration Diversity Lottery (I don't believe Germany is included) or qualify as a refugee from a war-torn or politically unstable country. Unfortunately, there are no 'leaks'. The US is incredibly rigid in its enforcement of its immigration policy so that even many of those who are able to come on a legitimate type of visa are denied entry.
You say that coming to the US is your last hope. I understand that life in Germany is very unhappy for you, but I wonder if there is another solution that you may not be seeing. It appears that changing your environment has helped you, so why not look into some of the overseas employment programmes offered by other countries around the world? These would not be permanent relocations, but specific work projects for a specified period of time. You may find that you will have wonderful experiences somewhere else where you can get some sort of a visa.
I am sorry I don't have a list of such programmes available, however I do know that some countries have reciprocal programmes such as the 'working holiday' programme Canada and Australia have with each other. It will involve some research on your part, but is a more likely option than finding a way to come to the US in your current circumstances.
The best advice I can offer if you wish to come to the US is to find some way to continue your education to gain skills that the US wants and is willing to hire workers from outside of the US to get; or to develop one of your talents or skills - such as photography - to an excellence that makes you unique and in demand. There is a visa for those with an outstanding talent that would also allow you to come to the US.
I'm sorry that I have nothing more positive to offer, but please do try to explore other options. While environment contributes to what makes a person happy or unhappy, it won't make an unhappy person happier unless they can learn how to find happiness within themselves first. People can be unhappy in the best and most supportive environments just as much as people can find happiness in what appear to be the worst and least supportive of environments. I know this isn't what you want to hear, but our problems don't always get left behind when we move away to somewhere else. Maybe you can find another supportive environment in Europe (maybe even elsewhere in Germany) that will allow you to be the person you want to be. If you really need to get away, maybe looking for work on a cruise ship might offer you enough changes of environment that you will feel more able to deal with daily stresses?
Regardless, good luck to you.

After reading so many post of USCIS mail getting lost etc. I say this step is a huge improvement.
USCIS Improves Delivery of Immigration Documents through Secure Mail Initiative
May 2, 2011
WASHINGTON—U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) has fully implemented the Secure Mail Initiative (SMI), which uses U.S. Postal Service (USPS) Priority Mail with Delivery Confirmation to deliver certain immigration documents in a safe, secure and timely manner....( Read Full Story)

technically, you would have about nine months to plan for it. you actually have six months to use the the visa and the ninety days only starts at your point of entry. so i guess if you wanted longer to plan it you could

After I read the link I changed my mind. The hugs and comfort I sent to him, I want it back.
They are meant for each other. They play for the same team (C-team).

After I read the link I changed my mind. The hugs and comfort I sent to him, I want it back.
They are meant for each other. They play for the same team (C-team).

Excellent advice, worth following.

While I'm sorry for what you're going through Al, I personally don't believe it's right or a good idea to air out all the dirty laundry of a relationship to strangers on the internet once it's over. It's not going to make you feel better. It's not going to fix anything. It's simply going to get responses that you don't want to hear/read. If my fiance did to me what yours did to you, I'd cut them out of my life, thank my lucky stars that I dodged THAT bullet before I moved my entire life for him, and wash my hands of the whole thing. I'd be upset and betrayed, but the internet is not where I'd turn to for comfort. Nor would I feel the need to plead my case to a bunch of strangers about how I was the good guy. It's just not important.

Easy to say but hard to do. Thumb down for you!

Many of us at VSC is bordering on 5-6 mths for our approval . So get used to it --expect the best and prepare for the worst

:thumbs: Absolutely.

I'm sure you're totally excited!!
(but) Seems best advice....hold off buying the tickets until interview is passed and the visa is in your fiancee's hand.

Too bad you did not use an expensive camera to take those pictures. Other than that they look okay.

"Eventually, the bird would have to leave the nest you know"