Tahlisha

You don't extend your visa nor do you get a 10 year visa. You file to remove conditions in order to obtain a 10 year green card.
If you get divorced prior to the time that you file to remove conditions and you can show that you entered into the marriage in good faith, then you can file to remove conditions on your own.

If she really wants a separation, and is initiating divorce, then your visa is void. It is for you to go an dbe with her as husband and wife, so if there is no reconciliation, you should not be travelling to the USA and thus which house the greencard goes to is a mute point.

I was a little concerned that the OP didn't sound as concerned about the relationship as he was about the greencard. Take care of the relationship first, then there won't be GC issues. I think that's what most posters are focusing on. But the bottom line is, the visa is relationship based. If the relationship is over, it doesn't make sense to immigrate, unless that is the real goal. If you are only looking to immigrate, and the relationship isn't the primary reason for it, I see a problem with the visa. If the relationship is the only goal, and it falls apart, so does the visa. If it doesn't fall apart there is no visa issue.
I don't know where there is any question about where the GC is mailed. If you're together, it will be to your address. If you're not together why are you still coming? Is the relationship really the reason for the visa, or is the visa the goal and the relationship only the means?
Good luck with that.

If this is the case, I suggest his wife try and contact the embassy/consulate/NVC whatever it is that she contacted and try to explain her mistake.
Regardless of the fact that they won't re-issue the visa, the least she could do is try to undo the allegations against him.
OP, honestly, I don't think being in a relationship with someone that accuses you of such a thing, and then slanders you is a good thing, but that's your decision to make.
This wasn't just a rash decision, it was an INSANE decision.
Make sure you two both spend some time together and talk about this and work through your issues before you try to move forward filing again.
You don't want to go through that happening a second time, it would DEFINITELY be a no forever if it happened again.

this process is extremely stressful
stressful situations bring out the true nature of the person inside
you might want to ask yourself if this really is the right kind of relationship for you.. I couldn't imagine what would happen in the future.. this claim was false - yes? what other false claims might be in your future??? abuse? adultery? green card accusations?
sorry to hear about this unfortunate situation, but better to know now than later

I am sorry you are going through this. I can't really help you with the same experience. Perhaps if she moved there for an extended period of time to develop your relationship. Sounds to me like there isn't any trust on her end. Also, not sure how much I would trust a person like her, and I am American. She doesn't sound very stable.

Muslims can eat the meat from people of the "book" ie: Christians and jews.... So since this is a christian country the meat from most major store chains is fine.... Some prefer halal but it is ok if it is from a jewish store or Giant, safeway, weggmans, ect, ect..... Meat from muslim butchers is much more exspensive in my area so I only buy it for the Eid....

Muslims can eat the meat from people of the "book" ie: Christians and jews.... So since this is a christian country the meat from most major store chains is fine.... Some prefer halal but it is ok if it is from a jewish store or Giant, safeway, weggmans, ect, ect..... Meat from muslim butchers is much more exspensive in my area so I only buy it for the Eid....

They wanted the employment information (salary, employer, etc) from me last month when I got married in Fes. You should have your fiance ask his adoul about your situation and what you should bring. However, I would bring more than what is asked for, as some things get lost in translation...LOL I sent my papers early, as well, so they could be translated and they could pick-and-choose what they wanted. That way, if they needed something that I didn't send, I could bring it with me. Granted, the package was "lost" for about a week, but it did arrive unopened well before I left.
Good luck and Congrats! May this year be a good year for us all!

re: that member.
sheesh - i had some open dialogue with him for a week - something's twisted on most levels.
Unsure what it is, but at this point? I care not.
Mods? You banning his account? Purty Please with poutine on it?

I don't usually get involved in others disputes or posts in this site. I come to get information to help me get my spouse into the country doing things the right way and without stupid errors that could make this transition longer. There is a new poster in this site, who has started a few very skeptical and obvious issues that would point towards someone who is asking far out questions to get answers to beat the immigration system. Working on using situations to pull heart strings to make people feel bad to help with ways to get around immigration and while you are using your best intentions, you are unintentionally helping that person to be fraudulent with immigration. I was banned from one of the posts for stating the obvious, I was called a troll and stupid, when I stated it was indeed the opposite I was the one removed ???
I could sit back and just let that person repeating turn out "hot" posts without responding but while I'm in this process I can't overlook the fact that this process takes this long because of people like this who ruin it for the rest of us. Just please , please , please don't get sucked into this person like I myself did!!
Let's pull together and if you go into the posts recently added by this vjer you will see that every advice is turned down in order to gather more information so that they can do things fraudulently. STOP helping!!!

You should be blaming the parents who came here illegally with their children in tow. Children who grew up here, went to school here, and are here by no fault of their own. These children want the opportunity to remain in the only place they know as home. Our government has a conscience...I find no fault in that. Obviously you don't know the first thing about this legislation. You are being selfish because it may take your case a month or 2 longer to get through USCIS, oh boohoo. Your case and check being lost has zero to do with Deferred Action.

It's clear you don't know anything about the Deferred Action Program. Go learn something since you will be waiting, waiting, waiting (like all the rest of us) you have time on your hands: http://www.dhs.gov/deferred-action-childhood-arrivals .
FYI wait times are long from a combination of factors, not just this new program. It is mostly because USCIS has laid off half their employees and dramatically cut funding in the last 2 years. That you can thank Congress for.

So it's Obama's fault the post office lost your petition? Lolz. He's only one out of a long line of recent presidents who have supported gutting spending on federal agencies, like the post office and USCIS. Are you even sure it got lost? What information has USPS given you?
If it is in fact gone forever then YES you should cancel or put a stop payment on your money order and send a new packet. This is why the guides say to make a complete copy of the petition packet in case something like this happens.
Chill out and try again. Chances are this is not going to be the last time this immigration process frustrates you.

I agree 100%. Good post Darnell. And I didn't even have to read it twice.

my suggestion for you is NEVER EVER stay alone with your wife, not even for 30 seconds, she just needs to be alone with you and call the cops and say you slapped her, or try to strangle her or you or hit her on the face hard and pushed her in the chest etc, when she realizes she doesn't have enough prove to ROC she can try to be alone with you just to call the cops and make her case strong to file I-751 waiver based in domestic violence. Report her to ICE.

sounds like she had a coach for her immigration fraud or a series of coaches.
2 weeks in country and she does this? All was planned, prior.
Cut yer losses, file for divorce on Monday. Change the locks, change yer telephone number, do not contact her further.
She's setting you up for a VAWA claim, but she's stupid - she not need to adjust to a 10 year card later down the road with VAWA - a divorce, instead, will be helpful for her in filing the ROC bit.
Seriously, change the locks today, change yer # on Monday, file the divorce on Monday.
You've been had. You can certainly file a report with ICE, if you want.
To any one of the faithful VJ readers who want to say, "Wait! There's always 2 sides to the story!" - uhm, sorry, I get to disregard you, this one time.

Never ever purchase your ticket prior to having the visa in hand.

Hello everyone....
I have been asked to post a description of my husbands CR-1 inteview experience, There is not a whole lot to say... The day was a bit nerve racking for the both of us and some details have been lost amongst the chaos....
My husband said he was interviewed by a woman (sorry no description) he said she was nicer than the woman who interviewed him for the K-1.... He was asked questions about
1. my children their name, ages and birthdates and how far away my older children live from me
2. My job, where, I work, how long I have worked there, How much I am paid and how long it takes me to get to work.
3. How many times I have visited him and length of each stay
4. Why I did not visit him last year
5. My parents names, where they live and work
6. My ex husbands name, how long we were married, when we divorced
So far these are the only questions my husband remembers being asked... I kinda comes to him here and there... LOL..
Anyhoo.... I started this new job in September and thought we would not need a sponsor because my income is over the guidelines, but I found out that because my income from 2011 was below we would need a sponsor, this was a few days before the interview that I found out about this.. So his sister who lives in the states said she would be his sponsor. So her husband sent me all her doc's, but I was like I think we need from both because you are married and file taxes together, but her husband said no just her info will be fine. So I emailed a copy to the Consulate and also to my husband to print and take with him to the interview. When his interview was done he was told he needed the original signed page for the I-846.... Just so happens his sister had arrived in casa that same day at 9:20 am... So my husband had to go to the airport to pick her up go to print the page needed have her sign it then take it back to the consulate.... So that gets done... But 30 min into the long train ride back to Fes he gets a call from the Consulate saying that they now need his sisters husbands info So I call her husband tell him what we need and send him the $$$ to express mail it to Morocco ($126 DHL) % days later I get the email that our case was approved and my husband can pick up his visa the next wed afternoon
Finally done with the craziness ALHAMDULILLAH!!!!!!!

If you havent immigrated to the US yet then based on the events youve described and youre desire to obtain a divorce, there really is no reason to. Unfortunately the man you married seriously misrepresented himself to you and in some ways you were lucky to have discovered it now before you made a significant life change like relocating. So you gave up a job. Sometimes when one door closes another one opens.
I would suggest though you consider contacting child protective services and file a complaint against him, or ask them to perform a welfare check on the girls, you can even do so anonymously in the US. This comment " he treats her almost as a lover ..that’s hard to describe)" is disturbing as well as the fact that the children get in trouble and are prone to running away. Its a symptom of abuse in the home, and IMO its wrong to just walk away and leave two young girls in a bad situation. Theyre just helpless victims and deserve a chance. Choosing to remain silent and not report something is 'off' in that household when it clearly is- is irresponsible.

Well, you need to divorce him and rather quickly. Being that you've not immigrated to the US yet, would it not be better to just stay put in Canada and find another job? I know that is hard, but being stuck in America without a safety net and then perhaps facing immigration issues is going to be pretty stressful.
His behavior is beyond abnormal and totally not ok as I'm sure you've realized. You've got all the red flags and you need to pay attention to them and never speak to the man again, really.
A real man provides for his family to the best of his ability, tries to be as independent as possible, and treats his daughters with respect and an air of fatherly protection.
You deserve a decent man who will treat you, your children, and his own children with respect and love. You also deserve a partnership in which both people try equally hard to make it through life together. Don't settle for anything less.

Awesomesaucesome! Congratulations

Proof at this point , from just about everyone's experience is not taken or even looked at. Sad but true, with the fiance visa as I learned a bit too late , at the beginning when filing is the time to give it ALL.

Honestly, and without trying to be disrespectful, you should try to figure out what to do with your current situation- finding out that you have a child- and make sure that is taken care of. It's not your fault that you didn't know and whatever happened before can't be changed, but what you decide to do from know on is your responsability. If that kid is your child, then you are responsible for him/ her. Pal, you seem to have bigger issues now that meeting your russian girlfriend and getting her a visa. Kids first.
Good luck.

Its 3 sides to every story, yours may be correct , no one knows but stop the hate, she had 2 kids with you, make her life miserable
the kids will be too, marriages break up, if counselling cant help wish her the best, let her stay here and continue to take care of
your kids in a lifestyle that will afford them a life as yours.May be hard but move on .