It is not bad to take care someone's child but not to the extend that the marriage will suffer in the end. And the ex-live in partner daughter is no longer a child. For heaven's sake she is already 24 yrs old!!!! She can take care of herself. I understand the wife misery here. Her husband doesn't treat her good. Especially when the husband gets angry and fight with her coz of this girl. The wife even not feel the importance of being a wife.( she mention she dont have right in his house ). And the worse part is that, hubby still keeping ex gf stuffs in their house! Show's no respect to me. I feel bad for u sis, i understand how hurt you are. But if u really care about ur status here, try to get ur GC first before decide for anything. Keep praying. Godbless