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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from B&C2017 in Refused Visa because of Facebook choices???   
    IT appears that he was making international friends with the goal of escaping Nigeria.  You didn't mention how many of his friends are Nigerians .   If none or only a few it looks very much like he was trolling for a golden ticket out of the country.
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from Unidentified in Refused Visa because of Facebook choices???   
    IT appears that he was making international friends with the goal of escaping Nigeria.  You didn't mention how many of his friends are Nigerians .   If none or only a few it looks very much like he was trolling for a golden ticket out of the country.
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from Duke & Marie in Refused Visa because of Facebook choices???   
    IT appears that he was making international friends with the goal of escaping Nigeria.  You didn't mention how many of his friends are Nigerians .   If none or only a few it looks very much like he was trolling for a golden ticket out of the country.
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from nycaribb in Refused Visa because of Facebook choices???   
    IT appears that he was making international friends with the goal of escaping Nigeria.  You didn't mention how many of his friends are Nigerians .   If none or only a few it looks very much like he was trolling for a golden ticket out of the country.
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from Suze1 in Refused Visa because of Facebook choices???   
    IT appears that he was making international friends with the goal of escaping Nigeria.  You didn't mention how many of his friends are Nigerians .   If none or only a few it looks very much like he was trolling for a golden ticket out of the country.
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from dwheels76 in Refused Visa because of Facebook choices???   
    IT appears that he was making international friends with the goal of escaping Nigeria.  You didn't mention how many of his friends are Nigerians .   If none or only a few it looks very much like he was trolling for a golden ticket out of the country.
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from SorrowL in Administrative Processing! Need Help   
    Usually when they ask for a new medical they are intending on finishing the process and issue the visa.  It is a good thing they want the medical.
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from little immigrant in Entering on an ESTA after using K1   
    If he leave without filing for adjustment of status that path is closed.  The next path is an I130.  He can NOT enter on esta or other non immigrant visas with the intent of adjusting status. 
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from little immigrant in Entering on an ESTA after using K1   
    It doesn't work like that.  If he leave without advanced parole ( part of filing for adjustment )  you would have to start over with an I130 and wait roughly a year for permission to interview for a green card.  After marriage he would have to reapply for ESTA because there are changes in his original answers to the questions and he may be denied esta due to immigrant intent. 
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from circular in Trump's Travel Ban Mega Thread   
    Immigration is not a right , that is why you file a petition to request the privilege to have a foreigner join you in the US. The government has decided for the time being that certain countries are to fraud prone and anti american to grant the petition without special investigations.  Nigeria is on that list.   If you want to be together now, the option is for you to move there.  To bring someone here has become a multi year process.  I know that goes against the immediate gratification that US citizens think is there right but it used to be the standard process.   The government is seeing it as the  good for the many versus the pain for a few. 
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from carmel34 in Trump's Travel Ban Mega Thread   
    Yes we did it 9 years ago, but we also talked about immigration the other way.  You are expecting them to give up whatever work they are doing and pack up to move to the US.  Why would you not consider moving the other way ?  Yes you would make less but the cost of living there is also much less.  The language is English and most of the major tongues are not that hard.  If you are in love you do what it takes to be together.  If it some sort of rescue mission to save someone from Nigeria , it may not work  both because of the ban and because many find the US isn't the streets of gold they have heard about. 
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from LizzyGreen in Trump's Travel Ban Mega Thread   
    Yes we did it 9 years ago, but we also talked about immigration the other way.  You are expecting them to give up whatever work they are doing and pack up to move to the US.  Why would you not consider moving the other way ?  Yes you would make less but the cost of living there is also much less.  The language is English and most of the major tongues are not that hard.  If you are in love you do what it takes to be together.  If it some sort of rescue mission to save someone from Nigeria , it may not work  both because of the ban and because many find the US isn't the streets of gold they have heard about. 
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from Binbin22 in Trump's Travel Ban Mega Thread   
    Yes we did it 9 years ago, but we also talked about immigration the other way.  You are expecting them to give up whatever work they are doing and pack up to move to the US.  Why would you not consider moving the other way ?  Yes you would make less but the cost of living there is also much less.  The language is English and most of the major tongues are not that hard.  If you are in love you do what it takes to be together.  If it some sort of rescue mission to save someone from Nigeria , it may not work  both because of the ban and because many find the US isn't the streets of gold they have heard about. 
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from AA1 in Trump's Travel Ban Mega Thread   
    Yes we did it 9 years ago, but we also talked about immigration the other way.  You are expecting them to give up whatever work they are doing and pack up to move to the US.  Why would you not consider moving the other way ?  Yes you would make less but the cost of living there is also much less.  The language is English and most of the major tongues are not that hard.  If you are in love you do what it takes to be together.  If it some sort of rescue mission to save someone from Nigeria , it may not work  both because of the ban and because many find the US isn't the streets of gold they have heard about. 
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from GhQuestions in IS LYING RELEVANT ON TIMELINE OF HOW WE MET AND ALSO AGE DIFFERENCE   
    This woman you want to marry probably could have been born the same time as your mother.  The consulate there knows how people snag victims online and lure them into relationship as a path to the US.  What you posted so far seems like you have read  "How to get a US visa via an duping old woman for dummies"    It all sounds put on and artificial.  You try to create fake proof and it looks just like what it is.   IVF is only available to those whose bodies support it.  I doubt any reliable clinic would approve it for a woman that old , I guess in Nigeria you can pay to get anything done but you get what you pay for.  Why would anyone bring a child into the world they may not live to see grow up?   Adoption ?   You would have to get married, she would need to claim Nigerian citizenship through that marriage and then start the adoption process.  By that time she will be busy chasing grandchildren from her current children.  
       If you want so much to come to the US , go get a good education and come on those merits.  I know many Nigerian engineers and doctors here.  I also know many Nigerians that came on the backs of US citizens and dumped them and they are almost universally disappointed at the lack of opportunities they find in the US.    Many of them play happy to save face back home but most of them are not living the life they thought they would find here.  Seriously rethink your plans,  slow up and think about what life will be in 20 years when you are still active and your wife may be in a walker. 
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from cdneh in Trump's Travel Ban Mega Thread   
    Immigration is not a right , that is why you file a petition to request the privilege to have a foreigner join you in the US. The government has decided for the time being that certain countries are to fraud prone and anti american to grant the petition without special investigations.  Nigeria is on that list.   If you want to be together now, the option is for you to move there.  To bring someone here has become a multi year process.  I know that goes against the immediate gratification that US citizens think is there right but it used to be the standard process.   The government is seeing it as the  good for the many versus the pain for a few. 
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from igoyougoduke in Third party interference caused a denial   
    Maybe in cases where the real wife got tired of waiting for the  hubby to get a visa with a new person so they could get to immigrate.  
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from Illiria in IS LYING RELEVANT ON TIMELINE OF HOW WE MET AND ALSO AGE DIFFERENCE   
    This woman you want to marry probably could have been born the same time as your mother.  The consulate there knows how people snag victims online and lure them into relationship as a path to the US.  What you posted so far seems like you have read  "How to get a US visa via an duping old woman for dummies"    It all sounds put on and artificial.  You try to create fake proof and it looks just like what it is.   IVF is only available to those whose bodies support it.  I doubt any reliable clinic would approve it for a woman that old , I guess in Nigeria you can pay to get anything done but you get what you pay for.  Why would anyone bring a child into the world they may not live to see grow up?   Adoption ?   You would have to get married, she would need to claim Nigerian citizenship through that marriage and then start the adoption process.  By that time she will be busy chasing grandchildren from her current children.  
       If you want so much to come to the US , go get a good education and come on those merits.  I know many Nigerian engineers and doctors here.  I also know many Nigerians that came on the backs of US citizens and dumped them and they are almost universally disappointed at the lack of opportunities they find in the US.    Many of them play happy to save face back home but most of them are not living the life they thought they would find here.  Seriously rethink your plans,  slow up and think about what life will be in 20 years when you are still active and your wife may be in a walker. 
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from Ontarkie in I-134 dependents information   
    A minor child is fully dependent on parents.  It doesn't matter who claims the tax deduction , who they live with.  A child that is no longer a minor but still being supported by parent ( such as a college student ) is partially dependent.   If the adult child receives no money from the parents then they are independent.  In rare situations minors may be emancipated by legal proceedings and not need to be claimed on the forms. 
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from flea89 in I-134 dependents information   
    A minor child is fully dependent on parents.  It doesn't matter who claims the tax deduction , who they live with.  A child that is no longer a minor but still being supported by parent ( such as a college student ) is partially dependent.   If the adult child receives no money from the parents then they are independent.  In rare situations minors may be emancipated by legal proceedings and not need to be claimed on the forms. 
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from TBoneTX in IS LYING RELEVANT ON TIMELINE OF HOW WE MET AND ALSO AGE DIFFERENCE   
    This woman you want to marry probably could have been born the same time as your mother.  The consulate there knows how people snag victims online and lure them into relationship as a path to the US.  What you posted so far seems like you have read  "How to get a US visa via an duping old woman for dummies"    It all sounds put on and artificial.  You try to create fake proof and it looks just like what it is.   IVF is only available to those whose bodies support it.  I doubt any reliable clinic would approve it for a woman that old , I guess in Nigeria you can pay to get anything done but you get what you pay for.  Why would anyone bring a child into the world they may not live to see grow up?   Adoption ?   You would have to get married, she would need to claim Nigerian citizenship through that marriage and then start the adoption process.  By that time she will be busy chasing grandchildren from her current children.  
       If you want so much to come to the US , go get a good education and come on those merits.  I know many Nigerian engineers and doctors here.  I also know many Nigerians that came on the backs of US citizens and dumped them and they are almost universally disappointed at the lack of opportunities they find in the US.    Many of them play happy to save face back home but most of them are not living the life they thought they would find here.  Seriously rethink your plans,  slow up and think about what life will be in 20 years when you are still active and your wife may be in a walker. 
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from Lemonslice in IS LYING RELEVANT ON TIMELINE OF HOW WE MET AND ALSO AGE DIFFERENCE   
    This woman you want to marry probably could have been born the same time as your mother.  The consulate there knows how people snag victims online and lure them into relationship as a path to the US.  What you posted so far seems like you have read  "How to get a US visa via an duping old woman for dummies"    It all sounds put on and artificial.  You try to create fake proof and it looks just like what it is.   IVF is only available to those whose bodies support it.  I doubt any reliable clinic would approve it for a woman that old , I guess in Nigeria you can pay to get anything done but you get what you pay for.  Why would anyone bring a child into the world they may not live to see grow up?   Adoption ?   You would have to get married, she would need to claim Nigerian citizenship through that marriage and then start the adoption process.  By that time she will be busy chasing grandchildren from her current children.  
       If you want so much to come to the US , go get a good education and come on those merits.  I know many Nigerian engineers and doctors here.  I also know many Nigerians that came on the backs of US citizens and dumped them and they are almost universally disappointed at the lack of opportunities they find in the US.    Many of them play happy to save face back home but most of them are not living the life they thought they would find here.  Seriously rethink your plans,  slow up and think about what life will be in 20 years when you are still active and your wife may be in a walker. 
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from SalishSea in IS LYING RELEVANT ON TIMELINE OF HOW WE MET AND ALSO AGE DIFFERENCE   
    This woman you want to marry probably could have been born the same time as your mother.  The consulate there knows how people snag victims online and lure them into relationship as a path to the US.  What you posted so far seems like you have read  "How to get a US visa via an duping old woman for dummies"    It all sounds put on and artificial.  You try to create fake proof and it looks just like what it is.   IVF is only available to those whose bodies support it.  I doubt any reliable clinic would approve it for a woman that old , I guess in Nigeria you can pay to get anything done but you get what you pay for.  Why would anyone bring a child into the world they may not live to see grow up?   Adoption ?   You would have to get married, she would need to claim Nigerian citizenship through that marriage and then start the adoption process.  By that time she will be busy chasing grandchildren from her current children.  
       If you want so much to come to the US , go get a good education and come on those merits.  I know many Nigerian engineers and doctors here.  I also know many Nigerians that came on the backs of US citizens and dumped them and they are almost universally disappointed at the lack of opportunities they find in the US.    Many of them play happy to save face back home but most of them are not living the life they thought they would find here.  Seriously rethink your plans,  slow up and think about what life will be in 20 years when you are still active and your wife may be in a walker. 
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from Nitas_man in IS LYING RELEVANT ON TIMELINE OF HOW WE MET AND ALSO AGE DIFFERENCE   
    This woman you want to marry probably could have been born the same time as your mother.  The consulate there knows how people snag victims online and lure them into relationship as a path to the US.  What you posted so far seems like you have read  "How to get a US visa via an duping old woman for dummies"    It all sounds put on and artificial.  You try to create fake proof and it looks just like what it is.   IVF is only available to those whose bodies support it.  I doubt any reliable clinic would approve it for a woman that old , I guess in Nigeria you can pay to get anything done but you get what you pay for.  Why would anyone bring a child into the world they may not live to see grow up?   Adoption ?   You would have to get married, she would need to claim Nigerian citizenship through that marriage and then start the adoption process.  By that time she will be busy chasing grandchildren from her current children.  
       If you want so much to come to the US , go get a good education and come on those merits.  I know many Nigerian engineers and doctors here.  I also know many Nigerians that came on the backs of US citizens and dumped them and they are almost universally disappointed at the lack of opportunities they find in the US.    Many of them play happy to save face back home but most of them are not living the life they thought they would find here.  Seriously rethink your plans,  slow up and think about what life will be in 20 years when you are still active and your wife may be in a walker. 
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    NigeriaorBust got a reaction from Suze1 in IS LYING RELEVANT ON TIMELINE OF HOW WE MET AND ALSO AGE DIFFERENCE   
    This woman you want to marry probably could have been born the same time as your mother.  The consulate there knows how people snag victims online and lure them into relationship as a path to the US.  What you posted so far seems like you have read  "How to get a US visa via an duping old woman for dummies"    It all sounds put on and artificial.  You try to create fake proof and it looks just like what it is.   IVF is only available to those whose bodies support it.  I doubt any reliable clinic would approve it for a woman that old , I guess in Nigeria you can pay to get anything done but you get what you pay for.  Why would anyone bring a child into the world they may not live to see grow up?   Adoption ?   You would have to get married, she would need to claim Nigerian citizenship through that marriage and then start the adoption process.  By that time she will be busy chasing grandchildren from her current children.  
       If you want so much to come to the US , go get a good education and come on those merits.  I know many Nigerian engineers and doctors here.  I also know many Nigerians that came on the backs of US citizens and dumped them and they are almost universally disappointed at the lack of opportunities they find in the US.    Many of them play happy to save face back home but most of them are not living the life they thought they would find here.  Seriously rethink your plans,  slow up and think about what life will be in 20 years when you are still active and your wife may be in a walker. 
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