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    sjr09 reacted to fox fox in DIVORCE 6 times.   
    Personally, I'd stay away. 6 times???
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    sjr09 reacted to Anh map in DIVORCE 6 times.   
    The CO may want to see evidence of a strong relationship to be sure that you will not soon be ex spouse #7 and become a public charge.
    Your other post talks about a pre-nup, so don't expect any sort of $$ should a divorce happen. The USC spouse likely has experience protecting assets in family court proceedings. And social services are limited when a green card holder.
    Any immigrant moving far far away to live with someone that has been divorced that many times should have a back up plan.
    Best of luck.
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    sjr09 reacted to JimVaPhuong in k1 cancellation   
    There isn't anything you can do yet because USCIS doesn't even know you've sent them a petition. It's unlikely you're going to be able to stop the petition at the Texas lockbox since it just moves through there briefly. Wait until you get the NOA1 and the online status says it's been sent to the service center. Prepare a letter explaining that you'd like to withdraw the petition. It wouldn't hurt to have your signature on the letter notarized. Send the letter, along with a copy of the NOA1, to the service center.
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    sjr09 reacted to Anh map in Extending Spouse Visa Expiration Date for POE   
    It seems strange to me that you would live apart for another 8 months to save a few hundred dollars and not file the I-751 form.
    All it is some paperwork to be filed at the 2 year mark of residency. If skipping that filing is important to you then wait.
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    sjr09 got a reaction from PalestineMyHeart in Election time.   
    You mean more workers less jobs for US citizens and possibly more crime. You have ever opportunity to bring your family to the US regardless of any illegal’s. Just follow the immigration laws. I suggest you brush up on immigration law, “extended family” defines a family type that extends beyond the nuclear family ‘you’ can’t petition your grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins as you may think. Start by acquiring the proper status then petition your immediate family members, let them do the same. That’s how it works!
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    sjr09 reacted to LIFE'SJOURNEY in Election time.   
    Why can't your extended family work hard in their naural country of birth and help make changes there. IF this concept is used in every country the outcome will be the same regardless of location.
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    sjr09 reacted to Kathryn41 in Filipina Wife Abandoned me, Pending I-485, What should I do?   
    Most K-1s get approved for AOS without an interview.
    OP - the best advice is to file for divorce and if the green card shows up in your mailbox, to return it to the USCIS. You could even make an Infopass appointment to hand deliver it to your local office - although if you think she might contact you to see if the green card has arrived, then you would have to hand it over if she requests it so sending it back by return, certified mail, with a covering letter stating the recipient has decided she no longer wants to be married, moved out on xxx date to live with a new boyfriend and that you have no idea where she is so are returning the green card to USCIS may be safer since it will be in your hands a shorter period of time. You could also include in your letter that you tried to contact USCIS about this several times but no one would speak to you, and you just found out that you could have revoked the Affidavit of Support before the green card was issued but didn't find that out until after card production had been ordered or you would have done so.
    There is no guarantee that anything might happen, but with the green card back in their hands and your additional information, USCIS may decide tore-open case for additional review. If that happens, you may have the opportunity to notify them that you now wish to withdraw the Affidavit of Support and are pursuing a divorce. As I said, I have no idea if this will happen but if she hasn't filed a change of address form with them, you can give it the best chance of happening by returning the green card and including this additional information.
    Good luck to you.
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    sjr09 reacted to Deputy Purple in Filipina Wife Abandoned me, Pending I-485, What should I do?   
    Actually it has nothing ing to do with VAWA. Simply put the I-485 is HER application to adjust status not the US Citizen's. All that is his in the packet is the Affidavit Of Spport which he could have withdrawn at any time BEFORE her Greencard was issued.
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    sjr09 reacted to Gary and Alla in How you are getting it done.   
    Incidentally, if you are going the K-1 fiancee route I strongly suggest you eliminate entirely ANY reference to this woman as your "wife" until you have your visa and she is here and you are actually married. This is a process where words mean things. She is your FIANCEE and has NO OTHER relationship to you. She is NOT your wife, she is NOT your girlfriend. You are NOT "married" in your hearts or otherwise (if you are married in your hearts then keep that to your heart and do not put it in writing ANYWHERE. Do NOT refer to each other as husband, hubby, wifey, or any other nonsense. That stuff shows up in an email used as evidence of relationship or on your facebook page (which the consulates often check) and your visa can be denied.
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    sjr09 reacted to Karee in ‘Anti-Islam’ film spurs U.S. embassy, consulate attacks in Cairo, Benghazi   
    I don't see how this film has anything to do with this? Some Muslim nut in Pakistan can make a porn movie about Jesus having sex with underage children. I doubt you'll see RPGs fired at the Pakistani embassy in Washington..
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    sjr09 reacted to The Nature Boy in ‘Anti-Islam’ film spurs U.S. embassy, consulate attacks in Cairo, Benghazi   
    So we jsut helped free a Muslim county from a brutal dictator. In return Terrorist. launch a coordinated attack against our embassy on the Anniversary of 9-11 and assassinate the ambassador.
    The same person who has been telling us all about about what peace loving people Muslims are and how you despise terrorist, is outrage at the maker of a film. I am speechless but not surprised.
    Agree. I pretty much learned everything I need to know on 9-11.
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    sjr09 reacted to Hilarious Clinton in ‘Anti-Islam’ film spurs U.S. embassy, consulate attacks in Cairo, Benghazi   
    A film most of them will never see. It sucks to be so insecure.
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    sjr09 reacted to ready4ONE in ‘Anti-Islam’ film spurs U.S. embassy, consulate attacks in Cairo, Benghazi   
    It is beyond me how anyone can get so worked up over any film. Or slight to their diety, real or imagined.
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    sjr09 reacted to Karee in ‘Anti-Islam’ film spurs U.S. embassy, consulate attacks in Cairo, Benghazi   
    Well this has finally changed my views. It used to pi$$ me off the way Israel treated Palestinians. Now I could care less about any Muslims in the middle east.
    You save a country from a 40 year dictator, and then instead of sending a cake and saying thanks, they send RPGs. All over a bad movie no one would've ever watched. Now they've just guaranteed that millions will see that bad movie.
    Time to pull out of Afghanistan and any other muslim countries NOW! Let them go back to killing each other.
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    sjr09 reacted to spookyturtle in Ideas to Improve VJ? Outside of the forums :).   
    Time to replace a mod or two.
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    sjr09 reacted to Penny Lane in Ideas to Improve VJ? Outside of the forums :).   
    Though I agree with getting the +1 removed, I do think there needs to be something in place that does let others be aware of the poster's reputation on the site. A "Was this helpful?" button, or something, that's kept track of for users.
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    sjr09 reacted to TBoneTX in Mrs. T-B. & the Citizenship Test   
    Background:
    We mailed Mrs. T-B.'s N-400 (citizenship) to USCIS last week. I printed the 100 interview questions that USCIS can ask, wrote the answers, and gave them to Mrs. T-B. to study. She stated that she had "looked" at them "a little" during the last couple of days, between Facebook activity and chasing after young Mini-Bone.
    As I tucked her into bed tonight (she has resigned herself to my late-night VJ-ing), the conversation went as follows:
    Mrs. T-B.: I was looking on-line for "how to remodel your kitchen without money."
    T-B.: Shouldn't you have been looking for "how to pass my citizenship test without studying?"
    Mrs. T-B. [brightly]: I looked at the answers! Ask me some of the questions!
    T-B.: OK... uh, "Who was the Father of our Country?"
    Mrs. T-B.: Abraham Lincoln?'
    T-B.: No, man.
    Mrs. T-B.: Donald... Ronald Reagan?
    T-B.: Good guy, but no, man.
    Mrs. T-B.: Barack 0bama?
    T-B.: [censored]
    [silence]
    T-B.: Here's a hint: Jorge...
    Mrs. T-B.: Jorge Washington! George Washington! He or someone else is on the $5... the $1 bill, right?"
    T-B. [invisibly rolling eyes]: Uh, si man.
    Mrs. T-B. [undeterred]: Ask me another!
    T-B.: OK... uh, "What is one thing that Benjamin Franklin is known for?"
    Mrs. T-B.: Oh, I saw this one! He was hit by... hit by... [makes vertical zigzag motion with hand]
    T-B. [helpfully]: That thing that happens before thunder?
    Mrs. T-B.: Si -- that's it! But I can't remember the word in English.
    T-B.: Lightning?
    Mrs. T-B.: That's it! He was hit by lightning!
    T-B.: What was he doing when he was hit by the lightning?
    Mrs. T-B. [blankly]: Uh, mmmm... sitting in his back yard, drinking beer.
    T-B.: No, no no... uh, si, man; we'll talk about this one later.
    Mrs. T-B.: I know how I can study! You put the answers on an MP3, and in three days, I'll know all of them.
    T-B.: All of them?
    Mrs. T-B. [mischievously]: Si, and you can motivate me by paying me $10 for all of them that I miss.
    T-B.: You're not going to sneak that one by me, no man.
    Mrs. T-B. [flashing big brown puppy-dog eyes]: OK -- you can ask me more of the questions tomorrow, and sometimes husbands make financial arrangements so that wives can remodel their kitchen.
    T-B. [to self]:
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    sjr09 got a reaction from Crashed~N2~Me in marriage vs k1 visa   
    " Sure you can click around on that site and search for it" So what your saying is you can find the answer. I.E. USCIS Processing Time Information, I just didn't give a random answer like many have given or the way you think I should have.
    "or you could have simply answered the question for him like many of the rest of us have done" http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/387455-marriage-vs-k1-visa/page__view__findpost__p__5665873 sounds just like many of the rest have done, including your own.
    .
    Face it, your comment has contributed absolutely no help to the OP. Your just up set. Hope you have a better day.
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    sjr09 got a reaction from Crashed~N2~Me in marriage vs k1 visa   
    Had both you and the OP bothered to look, this link does offer as of Aug 17, 2012 USCIS Processing Time Information .
    fu
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    sjr09 reacted to The Nature Boy in Pakistan disabled girl arrested for blasphemy   
    I was not serious I don't think anyone Believes Islam is about Peace and Love..
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    sjr09 reacted to Confused 2 in Pakistan disabled girl arrested for blasphemy   
    @ WOM - why were you not as keen to jump into this discussion and to defend a helpless, mentally disabled chistian child before the blame shifted on to that 'Imam'? Did not miss a second after that to make it some sort of hatred against imams, did you? Bravo!!! You've done it again, shifted the entire focus on world hatred for Islam instead of talking about the original thread.
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    sjr09 reacted to Darnell in Pakistan disabled girl arrested for blasphemy   
    Good For Her ! Happy to see an Imam going down.
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    sjr09 reacted to justashooter in Pakistan disabled girl arrested for blasphemy   
    you mean removing posts that are intrinsically accurate and on target because they irritate certain highly vocal posters on this board?
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    sjr09 reacted to Gary and Alla in Joe Arpaio told the Feds to bring it and!!!!!!!!!!   
    Obama?
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    sjr09 reacted to The Nature Boy in Joe Arpaio told the Feds to bring it and!!!!!!!!!!   
    I thought of him when I wrote this. Always exceptions but statistically profiling makes sense.
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